if a guy is using you for sex will he actually lay with you and talk to you and be able to hang out by just talking or at least talking for a long time and then having sex, and will he hold you, and hold your hand..and kiss you on the cheek and lips all the time after he has already gotten what he wants?
2007-01-25 09:41:05 · 20 answers · asked by jennifer a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well some guys will just get what they want and leave but other guys dont really want to hurt your feelings so they comfort you before they leave
2007-01-25 09:47:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by "using you for sex"? Aren't you getting something from the sex too? You are a participant after all! From what you describe, it sounds like he has an emotional connection and has feelings of intimacy.
Does that mean he wants to be your exclusive long-term boyfriend? He might, or he might not. It's possible to sleep with someone and have feelings for them without wanting to have an exclusive relationship.
The problem is when one partner wants a "serious" relationship and the other one doesn't. You will need to talk to him about it!
2007-01-25 09:52:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my bf had a sex buddy before me, he even let her stay the night with him, its sick and wrong. if theres no hope for more, get out, if both are okay then go for it but realize the natural course is that a relationship changes and moves to the next level especially when theres sex involved. I have never had a sex buddy, because I choose to share that part of my life with someone who will be hopefully more than just a sex buddy. I think people who do this are insecure, and are looking for acceptance, its sad and hurtful, one or the other or both will eventually get hurt
2007-01-25 09:47:39 · answer #3 · answered by Cute Stuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you doing this to your self??? Come on now. Tell him that you want more of those things and see what his reaction is. Either he will give you more than just sex or he will tell you he is just using you.
It seems to me that if you are letting him "use" you for sex then he is not really obligated to kiss and talk and all that gooshy stuff. I think he likes you if he is giving all that for free.
Nothing is usually "free" from a user.
Good Luck.
2007-01-25 09:59:59 · answer #4 · answered by dirt racer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends! But, does he take you anywhere out side the bedroom? Does he spend any quality time with you? In front of actual people? Does he pay money for the show, dinner?
2007-01-25 09:48:14 · answer #5 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-01-25 09:45:58 · answer #6 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, thats just a way to make u think that he really likes you, guys r sometimes cruel when it comes to just wanting sex, some guy will still do all that stuff after they get what they want until they find someone new to do it too
2007-01-25 10:00:59 · answer #7 · answered by josh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after a guy has sex why would he want to talk ??? remember he is a man and you are just a woman - i hope this helps you
2007-01-25 09:50:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes..i was had a one night stand that lasted 10 years..he made me feel like the most beautiful girl in the world when we were in bed together..but outside his bedroom he pretended i was not even alive. but it was my fault for going back a million times.
2007-01-25 09:47:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A GUY IS A GUY, he will do anything to get you where he he wants you. KEEP THAT IN MIND, If he is willing to stay with you then yes i think he would!!!
2007-01-25 09:47:36 · answer #10 · answered by Lordes D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋