Singles & Dating - 25 January 2007

my husband cheated on me, we separated for 3 months and we are now trying to start anew. we both are going to counselling and stuff, but what bothers me a lot is that now he's become extremely jealous of me. I have never given grounds for him to act like that, but he keeps checking my cell phone, emails and such, and needless to say this situation has me out of my mind. Is this part of the process?

2007-01-25 10:39:33 · 21 answers · asked by AMBER D 6

I have been going out with this one girl for over a year and 2 months. Over the last little while, I have lost a lot of trust in her. She has started to break promises and lie to me. When we first started dating and for months after, she had a lot of trouble trusting me and so she asked tons of questions about my past and made me give tons of detail. When ever I asked her, she wouldn't answer with the details I did. Now in light of losing a lot of trust in her, and realizing now that a lot of my questions are still unanswered, I have asked her to let me read a journal only from when we started going out. When I do, she flips out and blows a nut. It ruins my trust even more because she can't give me straight answers as to why she won't let me read it, which makes me believe there are things in there that could be damaging. I've always told her my true feelings, she said her journal has her true feelings, should she let me in so we both know eachothers true feelings?

2007-01-25 10:39:22 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i met this guy thru some friends at a party he asked me 2 dance then i had to go. i found him online and send him a message he messaged me back and we talked for a while and he gave me his number i gave him mine and he asked my to text him i did and he asked me to the movies threw a text and i said yes but after that we just talked and stuff every thing was ok but then i text him and sometimes he will answer me and sometimes he wont i send him messages online an he reads then and wont answer what should i do ??

2007-01-25 10:37:29 · 1 answers · asked by love100 2

It seems lilke every guy I come across is very athletic, has pictures of himself waterskiing, scubadiving, and the such. He talks about needing someone who can keep up with him. And is always on the go. He loves his job, and has super children, and keeps in great shape and on and on if you see what I mean. I don't find it necessary to boast and brag and make everything sound wonderful. Why can't people be real and act normal and show pictures of themselves in normal situations as I really don't want to see these guys in their swimshorts till I get to know them, and besides how many people spend all their time waterskiing and diving? They make me feel like I have no life just because I prefer less active things and don't find it necessary to be in water all the time. Why does everyone come across as not being able to stand still for a moment? What is so bad about coming home after work and relaxing rather than going for 3 hours to the gym?

2007-01-25 10:36:51 · 8 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5

get him round to the idear of being a dad, im scared to because im only 19 and hes 18 i need him by my side how can i get him to come round? please help!!

2007-01-25 10:36:45 · 22 answers · asked by Charlene G 1

my new bf is very shy! and i am drama queen! i love attention! (opposites attract) but n~e~ways he never really talks to me! I HATE IT! all he does is smile at me and stuff! how can i get him to open up to me♥

2007-01-25 10:36:39 · 6 answers · asked by ♥la chica♥ 3

about 8 months ago i was living in washington state - off myspace i met a guy that lived in the city and state i was about to move to. the day after i moved he came to see me. since then he has told me he does have feelings for me and does like me and wants to try and presue a realitionship with be but wants to get to know me - it took him about 5-6 month to kiss me and about 6-7 months for us to "play". as of today NO SEX has happened - he also has told me he does have other feelings for another girl also. he is a very sweet great looking man that is a real yes i said real gentleman- i asked him today if he would be my valentine and he said he wants to think about it. please dont tell me to grab him and throw him in bed and be agressive - i am a very shy person and am not able to do that. i am as agressive with him as i possibly can be and be comfortable with it. what do i do and what do you think is going on?

2007-01-25 10:36:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you've been dating a guy since January 4th what should you get him for valentine's day? We're in high school. Do you think a small thing of cologne from Abercrombie or Hollister is a good idea? I'm not getting him a t- shirt from Hollister or anything like that 'cause he's not a prep like me. :]

2007-01-25 10:35:44 · 1 answers · asked by Blue eyed girl 2

me and my bf have been together for 4 years i love him very much a few months ago he cheated and i have become paranoid when ever he go's on a night out. I'm always trying to reasure my self. i have tryed to talk to him about it but it always gets into i heated arguement. maybe because of giluit? i'm not sure, i can't help but think about how much he hurt me and it dose'nt seem like he understands how this has effected me. How can i make him see without a big arguement?

2007-01-25 10:35:36 · 18 answers · asked by mish0 1

or is it more strictly on a just sex basis? are men really just out to play women to 'get in their pants'? should a woman ALWAYS go in thinkintg she's being played ?just trying to understand how the wiring works. ;-)

2007-01-25 10:34:34 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfreind NEVER calls me. i ALWAYS call him and im starting to think that he really doesn't care about me. we've been going out for 1 week and 4 days today(thursday 25th). i like him and all but there is this little voice in the back of my head saying that i need to watch out beause he talks and CALLS his EX-GIRLFREIND all the time. what should i do????????????
thanx!
XOXOXOXOXO

2007-01-25 10:32:39 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im in a new relationship with a woman and I simply adore & lover her. In a previous relationship she had promised her then boyfriend she would take a trip to Mexico with him during February in 2007. Since then we have met and fallen in love. How do I handle this and what your opinion on what she should do?

As some history her and the guy are good friends and have been through alot; he is still in love with her and wants to be back with her. She is adamant that she doesnt want him and is in love with me and shes doing this just because it was a promise before I was in the picture. I suggested that I could go or even pay him back for his expenses as away to not put a strain on thier friendship. And how would she feel if I went with an ex of mine? Im not going to give my opinion because I dont want to sway the opinion of the answers.

2007-01-25 10:32:03 · 6 answers · asked by Curious P 1

why is it that they dont understand and never lisen?

2007-01-25 10:31:26 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

write now i asked a question about if talking to my ex boyfriend would be a good idea or a bad one. you did not understand......
when i said i broke his heart 3 times i didnt mean that i cheated on him STUPID........
I meant i broke up with him because i didnt know if i liked him or not. I would NEVER cheat on a guy especially 3 freaken times.

2007-01-25 10:30:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

If there is a girl you dont know, and she is engaged to a guy you hate, who also happens to be cheating on her; should you tell the girl and ruin the relationship?!?!

2007-01-25 10:30:03 · 12 answers · asked by BEN 2

There's this guy in my tech class Ryan. He's really good looking and everything. He's a total sweetheart and i can be my awkward and crazy self around him without him caring. He always laughs with me and jokes around. I got someone to tell him that i like him 2 months ago. He said he liked me too. but he kept on making excuses liek but i thought she was moving and stuff liek that right? Then i hang out with him and his friends a couple of times and everything was good. Then i ask him if he wanted to go to the movies with me and he said he would , and to just call him over the weekend. His phone was off and his friend wouldnt pick up the phone. So i said whatever and then got drunk on my birthday and asked him for a hug and he was helping me all night. Then his phone was always off didnt want to call his friends anymore so i gave up. Now i like him again and he seems more talkitive this time. Then i heard he's still a virgin and he never had a gurlfriend b4..how do i warm up 2 him?

2007-01-25 10:29:46 · 5 answers · asked by Still Love you? 1

My winky pokes through my sweat pants when I see girls. How do I stop my winky from doing this in crowds of girls.

2007-01-25 10:29:29 · 36 answers · asked by icyhott4urmind 1

Im in year eight choosing my electives and we can only choose 2. I'v chosen French already so that is definite, but no its a choice between latin and art for the second one!
I am good at latin and i enjoy it but i enjoy art more! My dad has told me that latin is aluable for getting into certain jobs!
what should i do?

2007-01-25 10:27:46 · 2 answers · asked by ddzaszcxascs 2

im wit this guy but i dont really know if he really loves or even likes me. do any of you have way to test this guy to see if he really wants to be with me?

2007-01-25 10:27:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have this new coworker for the last three months, I asked her twice to go out with me, she refussed,
I AM in LOVE with her.. but why she dos not like me?
. What can I do , so she can go on a date with me..
I cannot live with her?,
I cannot get her out from my mind, i have not been able to sleep for the last one months.. ....

By the way she single, but dating ,, very hot,, i am below average,,
So beast and beauty never mix?

2007-01-25 10:26:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok..there is this guy in my school, i think he likes me, because he has been showing signs ever since i moved to this school. He stretches when i am around him, especially in one of my classes where i sit right next to him. I was walking in the hall today and he quickly glanced back at me and shoved his freind into the wall and laughed. When i sit or stand behind him he turns his head to the side as if he is looking to his left or right, but i have this feeling he looks at me. How do i know if he will ask me out? Deos he even like me at all????

2007-01-25 10:26:24 · 4 answers · asked by Nyt 1

one is an ex and one is an person that should have been out of the picture a long time ago. Which when she checked a long time ago was on the voice mail and your partner disaproved and was upset. But you are totaly wrong 100% other than the fact that she violated your person space. And you really want to be with this person and love so much how do you handle this siuation? what to say or do to be with this person?

2007-01-25 10:25:37 · 20 answers · asked by DUCE C 1

Why is it important in a relationship? Can you have a meaningful relationdship without it? Why is it such an important part of a relationship? Please answer truthfully, this is for a reseach project.

2007-01-25 10:24:24 · 71 answers · asked by Krupkake 3

today after school my bf and i were in his car, then my friend called me, so we started talking about this one guy she likes. so, i said the guys name "luis." then he was like "whos luis? are you seeing a guy or something? then i was like "no" then he was like "im so tired of you lying to me all the time" which i dont by the way. then he took me home and we started arguing, he even called my friend but she didnt answer. we've been going for a month and i really dont want to lose him. what can i do!!?

2007-01-25 10:23:57 · 9 answers · asked by ana 1

I met my first love when i was 17, i am now 32. I thought of this man for years, we always stayed in and out of each others lives. recently, we have decided to try again on the relationship tip because maybe all the long we were meant, well just this morning i got woken up by a phonecall at 3:30am by a ghetto chick saying that he was her man. But he was not there with her she was calling people from his telephone. I called another number to get in contact with him and another woman answered the telephone and stated that he was sleeping, of course i told this woman that i was woken up out of my sleep by another woman and now she was telling me that she was with him as well. she woke him up and basically his spot was blown up, all because he was dealing with some ghetto chick. I was hurt , he told me that he never told me that we was a couple again, so i dissed him, now i quess he realized that he lost a good friend ,howq can i get him to understand that he lost a friend

2007-01-25 10:23:33 · 5 answers · asked by michelle e 1

there was this really hot guy where i was the other day. i looked over at him and noticed he was staring, and our eyes stayed together for about a second before he looked down at his feet. a little after as i was leaving and walked right by him, my friend said he was staring. i dont want to jump to conclusions, so what does this mean to you guys?

2007-01-25 10:22:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-25 10:20:38 · 8 answers · asked by maribel c 1

I like these boy at my school. I don't know if he knows me but I got him in my 5th period Gym. I don't know if he's going out with anyone but I think he's not. No disgusting things to do. I'm only 11. You older people call it "young love" but that's way out of the question. Besides, I think parents won't let me have a boyfriend because they say I'm still to young! What should I do!!!!!!!
There's no dance coming up so forget that. But I ask myself "What about Valentine's Day?". I know this is pretty weird because I think everybody knows this...........
HOW AND WHAT DO WE DO WHEN PEOPLE GO OUT WITH EACH OTHER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Pleeeeeze!! I'm not an ugly person.

2007-01-25 10:20:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

he still thinks i like him

2007-01-25 10:19:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im serious he has the worst gas I hate it is there anything that I can do for that

2007-01-25 10:19:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous