im wit this guy but i dont really know if he really loves or even likes me. do any of you have way to test this guy to see if he really wants to be with me?
2007-01-25 10:27:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tests = playing games and women just seem to love playing this BS. Do not test. Let life and his actions be the test.
2007-01-25 11:34:08 · answer #1 · answered by Ben B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time will tell. Don't sleep with him until you know for sure (if you don't think he is going to be around for the long haul, don't sleep with him). Sounds like you have trust issues, not so much you don't trust him but you don't trust your own instincts. Have you been foolish in the past? Don't try any little games in your attempt to "test" him, that is childish and will completely wreck your relationship if he is a decent guy. My advice is don't rush things and enjoy getting to know him.
2007-01-25 10:36:04 · answer #2 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT TEST HIM!! WHAT IN THE HECK ARE YOU THINKING!!!? A TEST? You should KNOW if he loves/likes you and really wants to be with you. If you dont know the answer to that question then you need to push!
2007-01-25 10:35:00 · answer #3 · answered by Topaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are based on trust and communication and it sounds like you are ready to violate both of those things. I don't know what you're idea of a "big adult relationship" is but by playings games you are no where close.
2007-01-25 10:36:30 · answer #4 · answered by KitterKat2310 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tests of this nature are oftentimes designed for failure. The main thing is communicate and have the freedom of expression...for the both of you, if you are destined to be together, it will happen naturally.
2007-01-25 10:32:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats a really good question when you find out a way let me know!
2007-01-25 10:33:26 · answer #6 · answered by jus_teazen08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea tell one of ur friend 2 call him! Then tell her 2 ask him if he has a girl if he says yes then that means that he likes u if he says no that mens he doesnt like u!!!!!!!! Let it b a friend u truse!
2007-01-25 10:35:43 · answer #7 · answered by Jelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 way you could test him is to go on a really romantic date and like all kinds of candles and roses and say all kinds of romantic things and see if he says he loves you
2007-01-25 10:34:56 · answer #8 · answered by Savannah 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are his actions in agreement with his words? Years of experience have proved to me that actions speak louder than words. Best wishes to you!
2007-01-25 10:45:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirt with another guy in front of him if he reacts like he is upset then tell him that you did not know that he felt that way about you.
2007-01-25 10:33:23 · answer #10 · answered by dirt racer 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋