Singles & Dating - 24 January 2007

If you have been dealt a raw deal in a broken relationship, and you are having a hard time getting over that relationship, does it help to start seeing another person whether temporarily or to start another relationship?

2007-01-24 19:17:10 · 6 answers · asked by Bleeding heart 1

There is this guy I realy like but he wont even ask me out. Where I live it is not right for a woman to ask a man out. I met him this other day and we talked. He has never phoned me since that day but he used to phone me and we would spend 20, 30 minutes talking. Please Help what should I do to get his heart?

2007-01-24 19:16:31 · 4 answers · asked by magy 1

my girlfriend now wants girls night out once a month or week wahtever, without me. we have been together for 5 years and i have never messed up with our relationship meaning flirting or cheating on, but she has twice one time less than 6 mo ago. we ahve 2 kids we love and one on the way i am only 23 and she is only 21. we need to save our relationship and we are also both going together to marriage counciling. waht do i do?

2007-01-24 19:16:06 · 8 answers · asked by luke m 1

2007-01-24 19:11:57 · 12 answers · asked by tricksy52002 2

if a guy thinks that you're pretty and cute it doesn't necessarily mean that he likes you, right? and if he gets excited when someone said to him, 'i think she likes you' it also doesn't mean anything, right?

sensible and helpful answers please.

2007-01-24 19:08:31 · 7 answers · asked by ceecee 1

Last night I was at my house with my best friends little sister, watching a movie, when she decides to go to the restroom. Amelia’s twenty-three and I’m twenty-seven, her brother and I go back to elementary school. I’ve known Amelia since the day she was born. We never really got along too well, she was always arguing about something and I was always telling her to shut up.
Anyway when she went to the bathroom I though I would pull a prank on her and scare her… I know stupid and a childish idea, but I didn’t think any harm would be done! Everyone’s done it before, hide in a dark corner and scares the hell out of the unexpected person.

Well let me get to the point. My house is very big and can be pretty creepy at night. I waited until she was done in the bathroom and walking out down the dark hall, then I jump out and scared the crap out of her!

I guess I thought she would have laughed it off or try to punch me like always. Well she screamed really loud and punched me in the chest, and stormed off. I was laughing because I thought it was funny at the time. When I went back to the living room where we were watching a movie her back was tuned towards me, and her shoulders were shacking really badly. I was kind of shocked because she NEVER cries!

I don’t know what came over me but the next thing I knew I was on the sofa with Amelia in my lap while she sobbed, as I stroked her hair and back, telling her I was sooo sorry. It was like an hour later and she was still holding on to me crying hysterically. She cried until she was physically exhausted.
I don’t get it we do dumb crap like that all the time and she has NEVER cried before. I know it was a stupid, stupid thing to do. I think she was crying for some other reason but I don’t know what.
Could she be crying for another reason? Is this a normal reaction?

2007-01-24 19:08:06 · 38 answers · asked by amesB 1

or imagine what would you want from your girlfriend for valentines day, if u r single

2007-01-24 19:03:33 · 5 answers · asked by Deesa 2

Not even one of those little "school boyfriends either". Im not a freak or anything, I jus cant seem to find the right person...

2007-01-24 19:03:27 · 19 answers · asked by ? 1

he is 22. goes to gym everyday. we live in different cities (3 hours away, not too bad). been together 3 years. he works full time. he is also a full time student. so he is very busy and tired all the time.

2007-01-24 19:02:37 · 6 answers · asked by Deesa 2

theres this girl i havent seen for like 3weeks maybe more. now i see her at school in the dining room. i dont have her phone number. whats a slick way to ask for her number? can i tell her that she is a cool and funny person (bc she really is) and i would like to have her as a friend? does that seem kinda weird?

2007-01-24 19:01:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my boyfriend very much and have no interest in any other guys just to make that clear and he feels the same about me except replace other guys with other girls. I have an ex boyfriend who happens to be a good friend of my current boyfriends and for some reason my bf thinks that my ex is still in love with me. I don't think he is because all my ex does is pay me out and push me (not like violently but just like playfully) i think of my ex as a little brother and not in that way at all. I dont know what to do because i dont see the way my ex acts as flirting or showing interest. Am i just blind to him liking me by his acitons or am i right in thinking that its nothing more than just being friendly?

2007-01-24 19:00:19 · 7 answers · asked by Tam 1

this guy loves me. he is my bestfriend, i love him so much ( i wasnt sure what kind of feeling i have to him).however, he is very nice and sweet, caring and gentleman, i get butterflies and feel secure when he is around. i think i love him back, is that true???!! and if yes, is it possible to love someone but still able to like other guys?? i mean when some times i`m out i see other guys, and sometimes they take my attention, but if i love my best friend, how can i still be able to like others??!!!! is it possible. or is it normal??

2007-01-24 19:00:15 · 6 answers · asked by confused lover 2

My boyfriend I just broke up last week and ever since have been on good terms. I mean we did have alittle trouble with stopping our habbit of calling eachother all the time like we used to,but other than that we still have a good friendly love for eachother. Today I got home and I checked my voicemail and he left a short message to the extent that he has "bigger plans than me". My first reaction was that we already broke up, so why are you trying to brake up a relationship that doesn't exist? Then I started to get angry b/c just last night he and I were just talking about how we were glad our relationship was only a strong friendship and now he has the nerve to act like a jerk when I'm a supposed to be a "friend"! I really don't know how I should react to this and how to even deal about it with him since Im just so darn confussed! Please help?

2007-01-24 18:59:45 · 2 answers · asked by Barlow 6

my partner came home from a night out and he was talking on his mobile phone - so i got up to see him and when i came downstairs he hung up the phone and switched it off - Anyway we had a massive row about who was on the phone he said it was one of his friends and he had turned the phone off when he heard me because he was drunk.
My problem is this he swears it wasn't his ex or anything like that but i just dont believe him - it's made me so paranoid i check his phone etc - this happened a few years ago now but it still bothers me and i cant let it go becuase i dont believe what he said. when i try to talk about he he just says he cant do it as it was so long ago - should i move on and forget it or have it out with him?

2007-01-24 18:52:39 · 8 answers · asked by Pebbles 2

he says he is having fun with it and i do too actually but i'm just wondering if this is normal.

2007-01-24 18:50:45 · 9 answers · asked by Deesa 2

2007-01-24 18:44:50 · 12 answers · asked by honniebabee 1

2007-01-24 18:44:24 · 20 answers · asked by yuyu 1

my bf last night called me at 1 : 30 am to go out with him , becuse my parents are away so its me and my sisters are at home .. so i told him i cant i dont want to go out its so late and lets c each other tomorrow at the right time so he yeld at me and is angrey with me so he says to me im a layer i just dont want to c him ?? so i said its not true . so now hes ignoring me he says its a chance to go out at night when your parents are out ..what should i do and what should i say to him ? im I worong or he is ?

2007-01-24 18:40:43 · 10 answers · asked by amyhamad 1

I fell hard core for this guy that I was going out with but now we are just friends. I cannot help but still think of him in that way even though it has been since last September that anything happened. I'm constantly thinking about him as well as an old HS crush that I keep in contact with. How does a girl begin to change her frame of mind when she knows that she has to get at least a BA? What are some good ways to refocus my mind so that I'm more concerned with the people around me than if guys like me or not?

2007-01-24 18:37:42 · 2 answers · asked by Eyerichlassie 1

I'm planning on getting a job tomorrow,anyway...I wanna tell this girl I like her on Valentines day,what can I do to make it special/cool/unique...ANY and ALL suggestions will be apreciated,ANYTHING

I thought about just getting a huge box of chocolates,not heart shape,were black,we want chocolate that taste good...and then telling her I like her,I already know she likes me back,so anything I do will work,but I still wanna make it super special...corny wouldn't be so bad either

so anyway,any idea's

2007-01-24 18:36:49 · 8 answers · asked by RandomGreed 1

i have the biggest problem with letting go of the past. mainly: my boyfriends ex girlfriends and crushes. i seriously need some advice on LETTING IT ALL GO. i love him so much and i know that he loves me, still i cant seem to get over it. i really hate being like this because i know it upsets him and i feel terrible about it. i hate being this way. please can someone help me to let go of his past? i don't need people telling me to just "get over it" or that im being insecure and stupid, because i already know. thats why i want some help getting over things. i know that hes not with them, hes with me and allll of that. but i still keep letting it get to me. any ways to make these feelings go away?

2007-01-24 18:36:37 · 10 answers · asked by Jenniferrr 2

2007-01-24 18:35:44 · 4 answers · asked by Deesa 2

I'm not saying it's a bad thing, it's just the love I had before when we first went out is gone and replaced with another kind of love that I don't understand and very much unfamiliar to me. && it seems to be a little weird between us. ii was wondering why is it like that after geting back from a break up??
another thing that I want to question is my boyfriend hangs out with girls, and yes it bothers me. maybe it's because ii knoe that their are girls out their that would try to win away a taken guy from a perfectly great relationship. ii trust him but ii don't trust the girls. ii knoe 100% sure that he would never cheat on me and he loves me deeply and everything. ii mean he proves it to me everyday with his actions and what he says and how he told me he wants to work things out and make our relationship better.I was wondering why he likes hanging out with them?? maybe because my boyfriend is really sensitive or maybe he's just too nice to say no but ii'm not sure.
please help me out.

2007-01-24 18:34:48 · 7 answers · asked by Miss Casey 2

I have a lover who has expressed discomfort regarding an oil portrait of my late husband.

I live with my sister for the time being. In order to be sure it is properly cared for I have hung an oil painting of my late husband and I in the bedroom suite that I live in.

My lover tells me it makes him very uncomfortable to be intimate in the same room with this painting. I have rather jokeingly covered it with a sheet but he says he still knows it's there and feels he is being watched by my dead husband.

I considered moving it to another room but it is rather large and there really is no other place in the house for it. Mind you, my bf only visits my room on occasion and does not even spend the night.

Tell me guys (and girls) would this bother you? Would you move the painting to a galery for storage (tho there is some cost involved and I actually enjoy the painting when alone), or would you just tell him to get over it? I don't want to be insensitive.

2007-01-24 18:34:19 · 5 answers · asked by Ande 4

My fiance and I have been together for four months. He is proof to me that when you meet "the one", you just know it's for real. In the very beginning stages of our relationship we spent a great deal of time together. When he wasn't working, he spent the majority of his time fixing cars in his best friends garage (his best friend is a mechanic.) I pretended to be interested in cars for the sake of impressing my fiance. Little did I know I would become bored of spending so much time in the garage and secretly wish for more alone time with him. The only thing we did that I actually enjoyed was off-roading in his 4x4 Blazer. After a month of spending everyday together in the garage, I asked him to take me out. After all, I had supported his hoobies, despite the fact they weren't or personal interest to me; so the least he could do was return the favor by doing something I'd like to do.

2007-01-24 18:32:01 · 15 answers · asked by Desiree 5

2007-01-24 18:28:40 · 19 answers · asked by newyorkchick 2

my bf always chats with women online but he woke up and caught me doing it and he's mad at me. why is he mad when he always does it right in my face. but i do it and he gets all upset?

2007-01-24 18:27:20 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

like they would be more respectful and more faithful and stuff...........

2007-01-24 18:26:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

*Gangster
*Punk
*Nerd
*Jock
*Invisible
*Smart
*annoying and cute
*Sweet

2007-01-24 18:24:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

The first night I slept over at my bf's house, after dating for months, he told me something odd. He said I looked so peaceful in my sleep that he felt it would be a crime to wake me. I asked him how long he was watching me, but he said it was just a glance. It's more than a glance if you are looking and thinking that along with other things. He's also said that I'm like good wine which I don't understand as I have never had a drink in my life. He makes sure I have money even when I don't need it and tell him. He's said he loves me a few times, but not much. He loves my children, that I know for sure. He is concerned about our age difference becuase I'm in my 20's and he's old enough to be my father. Is he serious and what does he mean by this, especially good wine? I am divorced and we met up again after years of being apart while I was still married. He told me "No matter who you marry and if you marry, you will always be mine". Stuff like that. What's up with him?

2007-01-24 18:23:06 · 9 answers · asked by diet7upisgreat4me 1