The first night I slept over at my bf's house, after dating for months, he told me something odd. He said I looked so peaceful in my sleep that he felt it would be a crime to wake me. I asked him how long he was watching me, but he said it was just a glance. It's more than a glance if you are looking and thinking that along with other things. He's also said that I'm like good wine which I don't understand as I have never had a drink in my life. He makes sure I have money even when I don't need it and tell him. He's said he loves me a few times, but not much. He loves my children, that I know for sure. He is concerned about our age difference becuase I'm in my 20's and he's old enough to be my father. Is he serious and what does he mean by this, especially good wine? I am divorced and we met up again after years of being apart while I was still married. He told me "No matter who you marry and if you marry, you will always be mine". Stuff like that. What's up with him?
2007-01-24 18:23:06 · 9 answers · asked by diet7upisgreat4me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm insecure about my body too, but he likes to watch me undress and tells me he loves it. I have a c section scar and am very self conscious about it, but he doens't care. When I lost weight, he told me not to lose too much and grabbed my waist.
2007-01-24 18:26:45 · update #1
I probably should have put in here that I've known him for 10 years. We were friends long before hooking up in October.
2007-01-24 18:29:51 · update #2
he is whipped or you are his first piece of consitant pum-pum
2007-01-24 18:26:55 · answer #1 · answered by Nat Turner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are two parts to my response. I'll start with the good.
It sounds like he has true feelings for you.
He enjoys just looking at you and thinks you are beautiful. As for fine wine - it gets better with age. He gives you money because he wants to make sure you have some just in case. It's his way of showing some affection and caring.
Here's the bad part of my answer. Pay attention.
For the last 20 years, the following statistic has held steady...
8 out of 10 - (that's 80%) of sexual predators against children (male or female) have been in a POSITION OF TRUST to that child. Not to make you paranoid - just aware. Many predators seek women with small children for a sinister reason. I had to add this information because I've worked in the field of child abuse for years and I know what can happen.
This man may have genuine love for you and that's wonderful. Take it day by day and when you have a question, ask him - not a million strangers on yahoo. Hope it works out - if he's genuine.
2007-01-25 02:35:24 · answer #2 · answered by Tellin' U Da Truth! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
C'mon. Sounds like he cares for you. What's the big deal? I know that you are not so naive as to think men do not watch us when we are sleeping. We have our mouths shut, look innocent and are vulnerable. Many lovers watch each other sleep.
I'm also sure you have heard the fine wine comment.
The only one that even remotely makes me think is the statement about "you will always be mine". Ask the guy and quite wondering.
These are all very minor things. Get over it.
2007-01-25 02:47:00 · answer #3 · answered by Ande 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care what people think of this?
The question is,do you like him,or does his behavior creep you out.
I had a guy say the same thing to me,but I liked him,so I thought it was very sweet..
2007-01-25 02:33:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run and now. This guy is a stalking felon. What a perverted old man! Leave him now.....if you care about your children!
2007-01-25 02:27:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I totally agree with my2cents
2007-01-25 02:42:04 · answer #6 · answered by julia1975 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get away frm him...seriously...he shall do anything for u.
2007-01-25 02:31:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with your instincts
2007-01-25 02:29:10 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♥♫ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Umm... that's pretty creepy... pretty damn creepy.
2007-01-25 02:27:50 · answer #9 · answered by melloncollieromance 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋