Singles & Dating - 21 January 2007

the first time i had sex with a guy, he was not a virgin, but i was. before we had sex, he even knew i was a virgin. however, the first time we had sex he didn't talk much at all. the second time, he talked a lot, and was really caring. he treated the second time like my first time. he physically helped me out, and constantly asked me if i was alright. he told me to tell him when it hurt and when to stop. even the second time he said "you said you were a virgin right"..and i said "yes, you remember what happened the other night right?"..and he said "yes, we had sex." ..so he remembered the other night, i don't know why he asked if i was a virgin again..maybe to double check? or to make sure i wasn't lying?

why did this happen?

2007-01-21 03:41:06 · 10 answers · asked by samantha s 1

Although they are not "looking" for a boyfriend they ask you out regularly and the conversation seems to give mixed and confusing signals.

2007-01-21 03:40:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and this engaged girl became really good friends, and we just got closer and closer, then we started having sex. We both thought we were very attractive and had great personalities - but we knew “we” couldn't happen… but it did, and know I hate myself for it and feel lost from a lost love and broken friendship that could and should never have happen in the first place.

2007-01-21 03:38:54 · 13 answers · asked by Muscrat 1

i feel like a loser im a new yorker but i never had a girl. friend kinda depressed.

2007-01-21 03:38:13 · 13 answers · asked by Andrew 1

i met a girl of erderly age.i like her and want to make her friend.The last day i gave her a flower.But still i dont know wat to do more.still i feel shy to talk her.any sugg from my all friends

2007-01-21 03:37:54 · 7 answers · asked by aamirtaj 3

a girl and guy were about to have sex. the guy was putting on a condom, and the girl knew he was..but she asked "what are you doing?"...and he said "nothing"

why did he say "nothing" ?

2007-01-21 03:37:07 · 6 answers · asked by samantha s 1

There is a man I share a mutual attraction with. We can't be together right now but we do flirt. He's been asking me some questions, though, that I just don't get if he can't be with me.

About my most recent boyfriend:
-How long did you go out?
-Where did he take you on vacation?
-How old is he?
-What does he do?
-How often does he come to see you?
-How often do you see him?
-So, how close are you and this (insert name) guy?
-(my phone rang once while we were talking) Who is calling you? Is it that guy? Let me answer it. I'll tell him we're at your place having lunch and you're in the shower. (I didn't let him.)
-Did the two of you ever take a shower together?

Other General Questions
-Do you have a boyfriend?
-What other men here (at our work) would you be interested in?
-What did you do this weekend?
-What are you doing next weekend?

I get these type of questions about once a week but he never acts on anything or make plans with me. So why ask me?

2007-01-21 03:36:41 · 23 answers · asked by jewels 2

Upon meeting you they know you are single, and before you even get to know them, or as you are talking they let that be the first thing they let you know, even though they claim to be single.

2007-01-21 03:35:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-21 03:34:49 · 16 answers · asked by rock 1

2007-01-21 03:34:20 · 5 answers · asked by skatergirl42_108 1

and see a big, open, empty, scary space with no net but jumped anyway just for the hell of it?

2007-01-21 03:33:22 · 8 answers · asked by Basket-santa 6

2007-01-21 03:33:00 · 28 answers · asked by skatergirl42_108 1

because he is my 5th grade classmate and he say he really likes me and gonna keep trying to get me and he try and kiss me but i back off now me and my bf live 2 hours away from each other im not with him al the times so i dont know wat he doing so since i dont know wat he be doing should i do something

2007-01-21 03:32:41 · 2 answers · asked by lakita s 1

someone told me "remember, we are men we choose who we want to be with, not the other way around."

but then my aunt once said "its the girl who gets to choose".

Well, which is it??

2007-01-21 03:31:42 · 12 answers · asked by elisioloyd 2

i'm 17 and don't really act my age all the time. i agree w/him but the only reason i really act like this is cause i'm afraid of growing up..

2007-01-21 03:31:38 · 11 answers · asked by THE BOSSY BITCH 1

2007-01-21 03:24:38 · 9 answers · asked by faroukoh 1

2007-01-21 03:23:16 · 23 answers · asked by Wm N 1

Im athletic, participate in clubs and help out in my community all the time, yet at school guys steer away from me. all my friends, including some guys say its because im too confident. how can i get guys to like me for me, and not judge me?

2007-01-21 03:22:44 · 17 answers · asked by Kiery 2

he tells me he liikes me but we didnt hang out when we were going out.and i really like him what should i do?

2007-01-21 03:21:07 · 9 answers · asked by katie k 1

I am a 29 y/o man and I wear a Jar Jar Binks costume and mask all the time so I can entertain the people I meet. Yesterday I went to Bestbuy while wearing my costume. I saw a Lego Star Wars video game on display that you could play FOR FREE! Obviously, this was the best moment of my life. There was a kid playing too but their were two controllers so we could both play. Then I saw something that made my blood run cold. The kid had chosen Jar Jar as his character! I explained to him that I should be Jar Jar but he said no! I kept arguing but he wouldn't listen! I had no choice! I pushed the kid out of the way and ripped the whole video game system out. Then I threw it into a glass case shattering glass everywhere! Some employees started running toward me but I ran to the TV section. I smashed the huge plasma tvs as I ran. Eventually the cornered me and tackled me. I yelled that I was being raped and no one helped! I was arrested! Can I sue for the harrasement and abuse I sustained?

2007-01-21 03:21:03 · 14 answers · asked by Be Intimate with Jar Jar Binks!! 1

2007-01-21 03:20:22 · 6 answers · asked by simplegirl 5

Do you think that Shark boy and lava girl should date? that would be so tottalyl hottttt<3

2007-01-21 03:19:33 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-21 03:18:13 · 12 answers · asked by vishnu m 1

Ive been with someone for three years. but recently, ive had HUGE feelings for another person. we get on really well. he's one of those people that i can just talk to for hours and never have to think what to say. i'm 16 now. And i've been with my boyfriend since i was 13. we've kind of grown up together. And we're so close. I love him so much. I mean, i feel so good when im with him. He has cheated on me before, but that was in our first year of being together. But i've never had the thrill of being with someonelse. I've never kissed anyone but him. I've never done anything with anyone but him. My first time was with him.. Thats a big thing to me. I love him so, so much. And i feel so bad about liking someonelse. Also, i talk to this other boy everyday. we're close. have been for months. I havnt told him i like him. But i know he likes me. All he ever goes on about is how great we'd be together. I'm just so stuck. Please help me...

2007-01-21 03:17:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

She has went totally insane she say's she want's me to move and it's my house should I throw her out..

2007-01-21 03:16:15 · 27 answers · asked by thehammer 1

I have fallen for a boy and we only know each other trough the internet. we live in different sates i live up north(Ohio) and he lives in the south (Florida). i want to tell him that i love him more then life itself but words can't even begin to descib the love i have for him. He was the only boy ever to think i was cute even though i am ugly and BIG but in time i have started to like the body i was born with but now i have found him but i don't know how to tell him about how i feel it is so hard to find love when you have suffered so much in the past. Please tell me what i should do and if you have ever been in my shoes (had my problem)!

2007-01-21 03:15:54 · 5 answers · asked by kagomegirl_10 2

to take a STD test before you and her have sex? I know it would sound a bit like you think she is dirty or sleeps around a lot but how would be best to approach this subject?

2007-01-21 03:15:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am really stressed.
I am really confused by myy boyfriend of 2 years. Let me start off by saying that he is unemployed and is not even trying to look for a job (we live together, have 2 cars, etc), so I've recently picked up a second job to help pay the bills. The 2nd job requires me going to customer's homes and showing merchandise. He is telling me that he will not let me have my good car and is trying to prevent me from going to one of my appts because he thinks I am cheating on him (which is ridiculous). So it is also snowing here. One of my cars is 16 years old with a 4 cyl engine and bald tires... he made me drive that to work... in the snow. The other car is a 2002 with traction control and good tires.. I asked for it since it is technically mine anyway. He says he "needs" it and won't let me have it.. for what? He doesn't work? He wouldn't let me have my own cell phone either. What should I do about this? He is really stressing me out. What should I do? Please help

2007-01-21 03:13:31 · 29 answers · asked by chanteuse87 5

2007-01-21 03:12:42 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 45 and she is 56.We have slept together over 50 times but have not been sexual.We are both attractive people. She has never been married and has no children. I love her very much ,but am getting frustrated and am thinking of leaving her.

2007-01-21 03:08:55 · 28 answers · asked by skateskier 1