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Ive been with someone for three years. but recently, ive had HUGE feelings for another person. we get on really well. he's one of those people that i can just talk to for hours and never have to think what to say. i'm 16 now. And i've been with my boyfriend since i was 13. we've kind of grown up together. And we're so close. I love him so much. I mean, i feel so good when im with him. He has cheated on me before, but that was in our first year of being together. But i've never had the thrill of being with someonelse. I've never kissed anyone but him. I've never done anything with anyone but him. My first time was with him.. Thats a big thing to me. I love him so, so much. And i feel so bad about liking someonelse. Also, i talk to this other boy everyday. we're close. have been for months. I havnt told him i like him. But i know he likes me. All he ever goes on about is how great we'd be together. I'm just so stuck. Please help me...

2007-01-21 03:17:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

in reply to someones awnser.. i wasnt looking already. we just happened to meet

2007-01-21 03:22:49 · update #1

12 answers

I think you should let your heart decide... If you "really" love your current boyfriend then be with him but if not then leave him because
you can never be happy in a relationship with someone you don't
really love. If you love them both, then I guess settle for the one whom you have a much stronger love for. If you still can't decide, ask your parents or someone whom you know has experience with these kinds of things.

2007-01-21 03:27:36 · answer #1 · answered by Carlos 2 · 0 0

Suggest taking a break from your boyfriend to experience other people. If ya'll are meant to be together, you guys will get back together, but if you don't take a break, you could be feeling this way ten years ago, and be married and really be stuck. But you can't control where you heart goes, and sometimes you just have to trust it. Time doesn't equal love, it's all up to your heart. So just follow what it tells you to do.

2007-01-21 11:25:32 · answer #2 · answered by Emiliza 2 · 0 0

First of all you are way to young to be in a serious relationship.Where are your parents and why in world were you allowed to start dating at 13!!Now that you are 16 you should be concentrating on your schooling.I hope i don't end up seeing you on Jerry Springer.

2007-01-21 11:25:27 · answer #3 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0 0

Okayy, it's OBVIOUSLY not true, pure love if you are having strong feelings for someone else, I know this because I just got out of my four year relationship due to this same situation. It's not fair to your boyfriend to keep saying "i love you" while not meaning it.. you think you do, honestly, but you don't. Sorry, go for the other guy,

2007-01-21 11:24:35 · answer #4 · answered by curry_lover4ever 3 · 0 0

I belive that you should go with your heart and if you still love your boyfriend that you have been with then still like him but if your heart is telling you otherwise than follow what your heart tells you!!! Never go with your brain!!! Think about this before making any sudden moves and then regret them!!! Good Luck!!!

2007-01-21 11:25:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If you love your current boyfriend (truely love him) then you will ruin a perfectly good relationship, if you think you could love this other person more you could "switch over" to him... i would stay right where you are becuase if you break up with him and you ask the other one out and he says no, you're out of luck.
tough decition!

2007-01-21 11:22:25 · answer #6 · answered by wind it up 4 · 0 1

Never leave the one u love for the one u like because the one u like might not like you and then you will have nobody!

2007-01-21 11:45:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

wow i kinda just went thru sumthin like that what i did was i waited a lil while to see if i still liked him nd if i did i would break up with the person that i was going out with.

2007-01-21 11:22:39 · answer #8 · answered by Kelsey 5 · 0 1

just think what if after 3 years from now you started liking a 3rd guy?

2007-01-21 11:23:19 · answer #9 · answered by sizzler 2 · 0 1

Just get some...courage...and go see if the other person is what you think. If not...go back...if so...stay with. Don't wait until you are married and mid-life to start second-guessing yourself.

2007-01-21 11:21:45 · answer #10 · answered by camelot9375 2 · 0 1

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