i feel like a loser im a new yorker but i never had a girl. friend kinda depressed.
2007-01-21 03:38:13 · 13 answers · asked by Andrew 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it not about sex. i want some one to love and to be nice to for once.
2007-01-21 03:44:54 · update #1
You are not a loser.. You are a criminal... Nice boy feeling depressed... Go ahead... Believe in yourself...Be yourself... Nothing and nobody else..
2007-01-21 04:26:17 · answer #1 · answered by simplegirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you FEEL like you are a loser or ARE a loser then there is a bright neon light flashing on your forehead that says, "LOSER", which is keeping all the girls away!
Instead of being depressed, work through all your issues. Do your homework. Practice makes perfect. Invest in yourself. The payback will be there!
Think "Winner"....Think "good catch".....think>>>
"This is MY time"!
Women are very intuitive and get vibes from guys who are self-conscious and lack confidence. Women find confidence very attractive.
Approach all the women in your life. Female teachers, store clerks, sisters, mother, cousin, librarian. Get over your fear of women. Talk with them a lot. Find out that there is nothing to be afraid of.
With a change in attitude, inner focus and approach, your confidence will soar when you need to talk to a woman you are really interested in.
Just try it!
2007-01-21 11:48:54 · answer #2 · answered by Crispy_Frog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, what are you doing about it? I hope your not waiting for her to ring your doorbell. Start by striking up a conversation with all types of women every where you go. If you go to the market, talk to the women there. Ask their opinion on how to pick out good fruits or vegtables. If you go to a book store, talk to the women, Ask their opinion on the type of book your looking for. Just talk to them. Women love men who are a little aggresive and not afraid to talk to them. Once you get the conversation going, give her a little compliment. Like; I was so fasinated with your beautiful eyes, I didn't hear a word you said. Would you mind repeating it? I know you think it sounds corney but women love compliments. But, be sincere. Don't tell her that her eyes are beautiful if they aren't. Keep the conversation going by asking her questions about her self. One of the first things you need to know is she married or engaged. If she isn't then you can pursue. Ask her if she would sit with you and have a cup of coffee. Just get out there and talk to them. Stop feeling like a loser. You need to build your self esteem. There has to be something that you are really good at and enjoy. Whatever that is you need to perfect it so you are the best you can be. Look at your self in the mirror. Do you have nice clean pressed clothes? Do you keep yourself well manicured? Fresh hair cut and shave? Do you look like the kind of man that a woman would want to be seen with? A very clean good smelling body is a great big plus. Make sure you have clean finger nails and fresh brushed teeth. Now, fix your self up and just get out there and start talking to women. The more you talk the easier it will get.
2007-01-21 11:59:25 · answer #3 · answered by sunny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loneliness and depression are things we all get through sometimes... Just be patient! The good thing needs more time to show up!! Oh! and you are not a loser! Every single person in this world has his own value!
2007-01-21 11:43:40 · answer #4 · answered by Nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, yea, that is a bit of a problem. Do u get out durring the week/weekends? Go out with ur friends? Something like that? Simple solution, go out with some of ur friends, start talking/flirting. U'll be surprised.
Good luck
2007-01-21 11:48:14 · answer #5 · answered by Read the nametag, Duh! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Andrew go out and mingle a little. Meet new people, and have fun the rest will follow. Before you know it you will have a lovely lady in your arms. Good Luck George.
2007-01-21 11:44:35 · answer #6 · answered by george 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you live in NY for Christ's sake!!!Think of those like me who live in a 700 inhabitant village in the middle of the mountains. . .that's depressing,believe me.
2007-01-21 11:45:22 · answer #7 · answered by Brenno 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you aint missing sh!t besides you dont want 1 u just want sex if thats all your after then just go get some sex and leave it at that man
2007-01-21 11:43:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
your not a loser. you haven't found a girl yet is all.
keep looking and you will. sometimes it takes longer because
you haven't found her and she hasn't found you .
2007-01-21 11:42:00 · answer #9 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need friends ,many friends. I think it depends of you. In NY?
2007-01-21 11:45:47 · answer #10 · answered by ytamarsiani40 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋