the first time i had sex with a guy, he was not a virgin, but i was. before we had sex, he even knew i was a virgin. however, the first time we had sex he didn't talk much at all. the second time, he talked a lot, and was really caring. he treated the second time like my first time. he physically helped me out, and constantly asked me if i was alright. he told me to tell him when it hurt and when to stop. even the second time he said "you said you were a virgin right"..and i said "yes, you remember what happened the other night right?"..and he said "yes, we had sex." ..so he remembered the other night, i don't know why he asked if i was a virgin again..maybe to double check? or to make sure i wasn't lying?
why did this happen?
2007-01-21 03:41:06 · 10 answers · asked by samantha s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Even though a guy isn't a virgin the first time with a woman is sometimes awkward and can be embarrassing to him....so his silence should not reflect insensitivity or could be he was shy himself...the second time was a little more relaxing for himself.....you really should ask him...you will get a better answer from the one who was involved.
It is kinda like a first time conversation....hard the first time easier the second....hope this helps.
2007-01-21 03:49:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think about him asking you if you were a virgin the second time. be thankful he was tender and caring .He is a good guy for being that way.
2007-01-21 11:46:13 · answer #2 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He did not want to scare you the first time maybe if he offered to stop you would have accepted and the second time he knew you where not going anywhere
2007-01-21 11:49:59 · answer #3 · answered by Nicky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He s done with a lot of other girls so cant remember if you said it was your first time or not.
2007-01-21 11:45:40 · answer #4 · answered by freshlimesoda 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe, he might have been playing word games ..:) funny ..!! because, if the day before you had sex with, you are no more a virgin ...practically ..!!
2007-01-21 11:49:09 · answer #5 · answered by bobby s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probably was drunk/high or something the first time. Or was thinking of someone else...............and got the two of you mixed up!!
Mr Happy
:o)
2007-01-21 11:46:34 · answer #6 · answered by hagtagg 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. He sounds suspect. Why didn't you get to know him better before you gave up your "precious".
2007-01-21 11:46:54 · answer #7 · answered by Miss Pleo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry - just enjoy the sex as often as you can do it
2007-01-21 11:46:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you seemed "too experienced" so he asked again
2007-01-21 11:46:50 · answer #9 · answered by Got Curves? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
might have just gotten confused or something
2007-01-21 11:44:41 · answer #10 · answered by eBeth rocks!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋