Singles & Dating - 21 January 2007

Introduce you to her female friends and then gets mad when you show interest in them or don't pay enough attention to her. She makes it a point not to get drunk around you for fear of what she may say, when she had no problems getting drunk with you in the past. Always asks "what do you want from me" when she already knows. Counts you as her one and only best friend but at times holds you at length..

2007-01-21 04:17:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

so i went on this cruise, and met this guy. he was really nice and we hung out a lot, but i never really had an interest in him, until the 4th night. that night we just hung out me and him the entire night laying down and talking. he was really sweet, and i knew that i'd prob start liking him. we were talking about everything, and the topic of me being a virgin came up. i told him i was a virgin, and he didn't believe me. he wasn't a virgin, but he told me i should really wait for someone i like, and then he said "and it's not going to be me." by the end of the night we ended up making out, and he slept over my room, and he even asked me if the next night we were gonna hang out. the next night he was in the casino, so my friend went to go get him from the casino to hang out. sure enough, he wanted to and came within 10 minutes(meanwhile he had been winning a lot of money), and he came to hang out. we went to his room, and we were hooking up and everything led to sex happening naturally, he didn't ask me flat out, and it happened the way i wanted it to, in the moment. when he was putting the condom on however, i asked him what he was doing, and he said "nothing"..i made sure he had a condom on, and he was really gentle, but he didn't talk much. at one point i asked him if he still had the condom on, and he let me feel to make sure it was still on. after we had sex, we went to the casino, and then i left to go to my room to lay down. he said he'd come back to hang out, but i didn't expect him to really. sure enough, he came knocking on my door to spend the night. the next night he had been looking for me, and he thought i was with another guy,so he got upset, and didn't hang out with me for two nights. by the 8th night we met up eventually..and i explained to him that i wasn't with another guy, and we ended up hanging out the whole entire night, me, my friend, and him. he kept saying how i was his girlfriend on the cruise, and that i would be his girlfriend if we lived in the same place. it just so happened i was going to college where he lived in about a year, and he knew that. that night we were hooking up again, and everything led to sex, and this time was even better. he said to me "you said you were a virgin right"..so i said "you remember what happened the other night right?"..and he was like "yeah, we had sex"..so i guess he was asking to be reassured that i was a virgin before him? then we were doing it for a long time, and he was talking a lot more, and physically helping me out, and he constantly asked me if i was alright, and that i need to tell him when to stop or when it hurts. i was in a lot of pain, so he suggested taking the condom off to see if it felt any better, it felt a lot better and it was only for 2 seconds, but he did say to me "the only thing is..if we take the condom off you might have to give me head"..well..i didn't end up giving him head, because i didn't want to. that night he slept over again, and we had plans to hang out the whole entire day the next day. the last night, we hung out the whole night..and then he kissed me on the lips goodbye. we exchanged myspaces and aim screen names, and after the cruise he commented me right away. we had talked back and forth for awhile..and at one point i thought he was avoiding me..so i wrote him a letter saying if you don't write back then i know you don't want anything to do with me, but he did write back, so that showed me that he cared. i ended up surprising him and visiting him one day, and he was really happy to see me. he told me i need to call next time so we can hang out..and he wanted to make sure i was definitely still coming to college near him. we talked for awhile, and then i had to leave..so he kissed me on the lips goodbye, and wrote to me about a week later asking me how my trip was, and telling me to call him next time.

1.does it sound like he liked me a lot?
2.why would he ask me if i was a virgin when he knew i was already?
3.why did i need to give head if he didn't have a condom on?
4.do you think he was using me the first time? and then the second time he realized that he liked me a lot. but then why did he come back after the first time to lay with me?

2007-01-21 04:17:02 · 12 answers · asked by catalina r 1

she doesn't know that i like him, but i really do so if u could give some advice or anything that would help thank u xXxXx

2007-01-21 04:13:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My guy friend and i get on really well. Theres a lot of things he does that makes me wonder if he actually likes me more than a friend. I don't want to actually ask him yet incase i'm reading too much into it. He's 24 and has never mentioned girlfriends but does talk about girls but in a way as though to see my reaction. He's always wlling to do things for me, holdng doors open, doing extra work to help me etc, he walks me home if we work late and from days or nights out, he looks right at me while talking and kind of leans on doorways etc looking at me really nicely, he stands close to me a lot, he's always doing things with his mouth while he's talking either licking his lips, moving his tongue around and biting his lip, but also he like blames me for stuff and is kinda bossy, all jokingly but could even this be signs that he likes me? I've known him for nearly 8 months now, is it even too late for anything to happen?

2007-01-21 04:12:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok well i grew up in a blak family i was adopted im peurto rican and the school where i go to every body is black ok well some girls dont let me play with them cuze iam not black im all most there skin color light caramel but its just to girl who wont let me play rest of the people
are all cool and they treat me with respect and iam only 13

2007-01-21 04:11:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

this person that the person i like likes, is one of my friends and she likes this other guy who asked her out

2007-01-21 04:08:26 · 3 answers · asked by Alana 1

If you saw another man talking to a girl you were attracted to but couldn't be with right now, would you be jealous? If so, why?

2007-01-21 04:05:28 · 14 answers · asked by jewels 2

i would just like to no what women prefcer to wear if they prefer normal granny pants g strings or thongs the most because its my girlfriends b day in 2 days and i wanted mto get her some lingerie and need help what to get her what ever you choose can you tell me why please thank you please help me i am useless lol

2007-01-21 04:04:20 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous

Say the word "p*ssy" while looking me in the face. She has said it to me with her head under the covers but even then it seemed unnatural. Is this common amongst the ladies?

2007-01-21 04:04:09 · 13 answers · asked by da_hammerhead 6

I've been dating "J" for 4 months, living with him for 3 of those 4. Before he lived with me he lived with another girl named "A". They had a relationship on and off throughout the 13 years they've known eachother. He even has a tattoo on his ring finger as she does also. Although they were never married. "J" and "A" still talk to eachother on the phone when I'm not around. I told "J" two months ago that I want to be around when he talks to her next. There should be no reason for him not to talk to her in front of me right? Well, apparently he is still talking with her. They contact eachother about once a week. It's always when I'm not around. I snooped and looked through his phone bill today. Seems he can't go 4 days wilthout calling. Do I tell him I snooped? How do I deal with this. I know he loves me, .... I'm just tired of it.

2007-01-21 04:03:45 · 13 answers · asked by flighty001100 2

So there's this guy who was my hook up buddy last semester and right before winter break he was calling me 5 times a day and telling me he was getting attached and that I was perfect and he missed me even though we saw each other at least once a day.
We were only apart for 3 weeks and that apparently is a lot of time because since he got back from winter break he's been acting completely different towards me, as if we were best friends and hasn't made the slightest move or gave me a signal that he wants to hook up. On top of that he will not shut up about how great was the sex he got back home and about trying to get with one of my friends. And then a few days ago I was hanging out with him and his friends and found out that he magically got a girlfriend over the break that he forgot to tell me about. And still in the same conversation he told his buddies not to ruin his chances with my friend and told me he is always trying to look after me. What is wrong with him???!!!!!

2007-01-21 04:02:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm not really ready to date, but i like a guy and have no clue how to start talking to him. i'm painfully shy and he's not exactly outgoing. i sorta just want him to apparouch me. how do i get him to do that?

2007-01-21 04:01:58 · 10 answers · asked by Fire Dance 2

I'm in love with the most amazing person I've ever met.Shes not had the best experiences when it comes to reltionships or guys in general. Her last serious relationship confused her, the guy would beat her one minute and go out of his way to risk his life the next.Also she is used to guys just seeing sex in her.I can see why shes not so trusting.
I just want to show her I'm not like that,I know I'm not like that,I would never hurt her in any way and sex isn't the reason I want her.I think she's wary since her lasy bf was nice to begin with then got violent,maybe she thinks I could be that way?
You could say shes used to relationships being just sex and the guy just using her/doing what he wants. All I want to be is happy, all I care about is that & all I wanna do is be that some1 she can turn to or just hold her when shes feeling down. Shes never experienced that in a relationship cause shes never had someone truly love her.How do I show her what she means 2 me? She means the world!

2007-01-21 04:00:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

This boy and I were friends, and there was talk that we both wanted to hook up with one another. I promised I wouldn't tell anyone, but I had this huge hickey on my neck, and my best friend noticed it. I could have thrown the "I was straightening my hair and knicked my neck" excuse at her, but she knows I'm more experienced with the hair straightener than that, and she asked who. Of course, she asked me about him in an e-mail and the girl next to her rudely read it, and then went to him and asked him. He's mad, and I'm pissed at myself. I asked him yesterday if I could call and talk it out with him, he agreed to it. Do you think talking to him about it would work things out a little bit, so we can at least be on speaking terms?

2007-01-21 04:00:05 · 8 answers · asked by uhd0rableo8 4

Love is a powerful feeling, and so do women when you fall in love with them ...they have such power over us , guys, that they can make us two the most horrible thing in life ..!! sometimes, they threat to live you if you don't d what they want ....but, should a guy do whatever the woman he loves ask him to do .....!!?

2007-01-21 03:59:30 · 8 answers · asked by bobby s 1

My friend spent the night with me the otehr night, and she said in the middle of the night she heard me talking in my sleep.. about cubbards!! haha... and the thing is.. I had a dream about me opening my cubbards and getting tomatoes.... so.... it was kinda crazy... BUT WAIT.... now im like... scared... I had a dream last night that I was having passionate gay sex with Justin Timberlake.... what if I was talking in my sleep!!! and my whole family heard me... do you think they would tell me?...

2007-01-21 03:58:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have been with this guy for almost 2 years now . Things were going great but we barely go got to see each other. when we hang out i could tell that we both had fun. things aren't exactly going great now coz whenever i call him he hangs up or says that he'll call back what shouuld i do?

2007-01-21 03:58:24 · 7 answers · asked by aaaaa 3

love, romance, real relationships. not just sex

2007-01-21 03:57:37 · 7 answers · asked by louisastar2000 1

If you knew someone was promiscuous, would this be a turn-on to you, because of experience? or a turn-off, because they have been around?

2007-01-21 03:56:43 · 23 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4

There's this girl i really like, I want her so bad, and it's hard to know what to do. She's very busy with college, an internship, jobs, and she barely has anytime just for herself. She doesn't even get the sleep she should, feeling stressed (even though she says she's not a very stressful person, but her body is definately feeling the stress) she's actually started having a bit of heart trouble from it all. So, we're not gonna be hanging out as much, bc she needs to take it a bit easier, which I'm happy she's doing, I couldn't stand anything happening to her. So, I don't want to be selfish in expecting her to hang out with me and have even less time for herself, which I would never want her to do. I can't stop my feelings for her though, I still haven't told her how I feel, and how I want to be with her. I'm thinking it be a bad move to ask her out or tell her my feelings now, especially now, don't want to put more pressure on her. What do you think? let me know, thanks.

2007-01-21 03:55:29 · 11 answers · asked by greenhorns99 1

2007-01-21 03:54:34 · 2 answers · asked by US 2

about your personality or are you perfect as you are?

2007-01-21 03:54:25 · 21 answers · asked by Basket-santa 6

ok...
me and my girlfriend are a great couple
she loves me to death and "would be lost without me"
i really like her but i dont love her enough to want to stick in the relationship. she is emotionally unstable and has trust issues. it seems the only reason i've been sticking with her is to help her cause i feel bad.
but
i have to get out of it
its driving me crazy. my grades are lacking and whatnot and UGH!
and ugh i dont know help
i need help please

2007-01-21 03:52:32 · 20 answers · asked by d21910 2

i have known this girl for 2 years and i want to know how to express my feelings for her.

2007-01-21 03:49:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think he might have but he didn't really move from the position he was in when I did. The fart woke me up. so how do i know if it woke him up or if he heard it.? I'm so embarassed....serious answers only please..

2007-01-21 03:49:36 · 30 answers · asked by coochie1 2

I wanna know what is the problem with a 13 year old dating a 17 year old I mean age is just a number?

2007-01-21 03:45:47 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

does anybody know if theres a web site thats tells you if you and your mate zodiacs match together

2007-01-21 03:44:54 · 3 answers · asked by anymous 2

I mean I am starting to think that all love does is hurts you in the end like it did to me. I am trying to move on soo I need to know how can you avoid falling in love the second time and soo on?

2007-01-21 03:44:13 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well i share a major milestone with my boyfriend "if u know what i mean Lost IT". but my problem is that he is not as affectionate (no phone calls, visits ect) and i want the pampering etc(am 18 he is 21) my cuz says because of his age i am definetly not going to get the pampering, and lust from him (oh we live 1hr away so don't get to see him often) i want to break it off with him but i don't know if that is wise because i am emotional attached to him. should i break up with him or just suck it up?

2007-01-21 03:43:28 · 5 answers · asked by Chicka 1

Who experiences rejection more when meeting?

If its the guy 80%, should a girl be able to just walk off from him on her whims, since she doesnt have to risk rejection so much?

How fair is that? ;)

2007-01-21 03:43:07 · 5 answers · asked by elisioloyd 2