I mean I am starting to think that all love does is hurts you in the end like it did to me. I am trying to move on soo I need to know how can you avoid falling in love the second time and soo on?
2007-01-21 03:44:13 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't every avoid falling in love!
love is such a great thing, it's not at all worth avoiding. yes, I agree, in the end love can hurt. but no pain is worth not experiencing love for!
love is a game - it doesn't matter if you win or lose, you still get to play again. so you lose a couple times, but there will be other games. it's all worth it because one day you will win, and then every other game will fade away and you'll just be caught up in how unbelievably wonderful it is to have won.
2007-01-21 03:50:51 · answer #1 · answered by maj2001gma 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Bub, if u never wanna fall in love again u wont...and u'll end up alone n sad when ur old! Love feels like crap when ur with the Wrong person. When ur with the right person however u have ur ups n downs but all in all its the best feelin ever...my advice would be to consentrate on urself 4a while do things that u've always wanted2 do...ur great feelings about urself will attract the right person for u and then u will Want to fall in love....hope this helps
2007-01-21 03:50:15 · answer #2 · answered by MattnMoo 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Love doesn't hurt like love isn't forbidden. Love can heal all wounds. I believe that love can only happen once, because there is only one person for everyone. So I'm guessing for you it hasn't happened yet. There's nothing you can do to hide from love. You can't hide away in your house forever. You have to work. You have to eat. You have to live. You've been hurt, don't give her the satisfaction by not moving on to the right woman. If she's the one in the wrong, than she'll get what she deserves. Whatever goes around comes around. Good luck babe whatever you decide to do!
2007-01-21 03:52:54 · answer #3 · answered by April 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but love is an emotion you can't control. You can't will yourself not to fall in love. Now if you don't want to move so quickly you might want to take your time when you start to date someone. Don't hook up with them everyday. Treat them like your friend and don't do anything with them that you wouldn't do with a friend so that you can get to know them better so you can be sure if you want to carry on a relationship with them. And most of all don't blame yourself for your hardship with love because most of the time it's not you it's the fool you were dating.
2007-01-21 03:52:15 · answer #4 · answered by diamoniquejazz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't date!
2007-01-21 03:56:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I suggest just not doing it at all.
But since love is inevitable you need to accept you are going to be hurt like you have been in the past, pain is waiting for you to step into it's nasty trap once again. But lik in the past you've made it out okay and you will, again. If u don't like it just stop dating ppl. Or you can have fun with your partners and set traps for them 2. As long as you're having a good time I don't really see a problem.
2007-01-21 03:50:15 · answer #6 · answered by Jeska J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can avoid love no matter how hard you try.... its something you have no control over.....if you really like a person... and try to block them out, its only gonna backfire and make you think of them more, then soon, you'll start think of nothing but them....
It's amazing how hurt you can get from just one person.
After a while, you learn the difference between holding hands and falling in love, you begin to learn that kisses don’t always mean something and promises can be broken just ask quickly as they are made and sometimes goodbye really are forever.
Is it wrong for you to not be able to fall asleep because you’re afraid you’ll dream him/her.
I cant let him/her know that these tears are from him/her.
Tell me why I lost you, tell me that you lied, tell me that you loved me, or at least that you tried.
I was a fool for thinking that you’re thinking of me.
Sometimes we must get hurt in order to grow, we must fall in order to know, sometimes our vision clear only after our eyes are washed away with tears.
The only thing that matters is following your heart, cause eventually you’ll finally get it right.
If you cant get someone out of your head, maybe they’re suppose to be there.
It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.
Never ever regret something that once made you smile.
Life was so much easier when boys and girls had cooties.
2007-01-21 04:25:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make your heart a stone, let your affection grow cold, and make yourself look miserable.
Whenever love knocks at your door; do not pretend about it ... just shut your eyes at it as if you are blind. If you will try all these, your afection for people will grow low and when it seems you are still getting emotional; run away from whosoever you are feeling for or who is feeling for you.
But this is my way ... Love is sooner or later the beginning of all sufferings but no one can survive without love.
2007-01-21 03:58:04 · answer #8 · answered by Actor 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its all about mental man. You have create a mental block that saids I will not be in love. dont day dream about a girl, dont think this will be the one, just have fun with it and keep as many women around you as possible, that way you have so many that it will be hard to fall for just one. You may also want to start investing as much in, as much pain as you can take out.. Think about it
2007-01-21 03:48:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to fight it, but you can't avoid it if you are attracted and feel that spark with someone. It's nice to choose people that feel the same connection, though. Avoid falling for those who don't love you back.
2007-01-21 03:47:18 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋