There's this girl i really like, I want her so bad, and it's hard to know what to do. She's very busy with college, an internship, jobs, and she barely has anytime just for herself. She doesn't even get the sleep she should, feeling stressed (even though she says she's not a very stressful person, but her body is definately feeling the stress) she's actually started having a bit of heart trouble from it all. So, we're not gonna be hanging out as much, bc she needs to take it a bit easier, which I'm happy she's doing, I couldn't stand anything happening to her. So, I don't want to be selfish in expecting her to hang out with me and have even less time for herself, which I would never want her to do. I can't stop my feelings for her though, I still haven't told her how I feel, and how I want to be with her. I'm thinking it be a bad move to ask her out or tell her my feelings now, especially now, don't want to put more pressure on her. What do you think? let me know, thanks.
2007-01-21 03:55:29 · 11 answers · asked by greenhorns99 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be honest with her. tell her you will give her all the space she needs and you understand that she is a very busy person. from your perspective it seems like you may be burdening her with more stuff but maybe a bf would give her some relief. you never know. it wont hurt her to just let her know. perhaps she even feels the same way about you. if she does, that would be burdening her even more not being with you.
2007-01-21 04:02:08 · answer #1 · answered by pevehead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same situation as your friend; a first year college student with a grueling schedule: 18 units my fall semester, 22 units the spring, trying to grind out my GEs. Stressed? Very much so; worked with barely any sleep, and I didn't have a car when I first started college, so I resorted to taking the bus to and from school, which was a 2hour ride one way. 4 hours a day. At school all day, on the bus and then homework all night; everyday. I went to school 5 days a week. During that time, I had nothing to look forward to. No one to look forward to seeing everyday. Until my boyfriend asked me out 9 months ago. He was a very close friend to me already, like you are to your friend, and apparently he had feelings for me for months, like you probably have, but just never told me, for the same reasons you won't tell her. But one day he finally mustered up the courage to tell me how he felt and ask to date me. Now, I MAKE time for him. He's been a sweetheart all this time, a gentleman, and I really look forward to seeing him during the week. It actually helps me get through school to know that after class, I get to spend the rest of each day with him. And now I do have a car, so things are easier. But rest assured, she will appreciate you. I know I did. It's been an incredible 9 months and only gets better. Go for it doll; I hope it works out the same way for you. You could be exactly what she needs.
2007-01-21 04:48:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea she is stressed. My girl is in the same state right now. I try not to bother her. When we hang out 2 or 3 times a week i give her massages and just talk about her problems and listen to her vent. Then after an hour of that i bang her. Then we cuddle and she falls asleep. But she just gets cranky the next day. Its an annoying cycle but i am happy to help her feel better.
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2016-05-17 11:50:59 · answer #4 · answered by wanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, what I understand of all this, is that she is a very very lucky girl!!! :) It seems that you really love her and you care about her! Bravo!! Do not wait for any minute longer to tell her how you feel about her. Because if everything goes fine with you two (i wish!) you will by her side and help her with all the things she has to do and... you will be happy, too!! ;)
2007-01-21 04:03:02 · answer #5 · answered by Nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-02-28 11:28:56 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what your talking about, u should tell her how u feel, that way when u both r going out, u can be her ticket to the outside world.....
that maybe what she needs... you'll not know how she feels until u let her know how u think of her.....
even if she turns u down at least she knows how u feel and when she does get the time, she'll come around...... hoping that she's interested.....
but i think she is
2007-01-21 04:12:19 · answer #7 · answered by annie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is messing with other guys...thats why she is so busy. women are very good at disguising what they are really doing. If she can't find time for you..forget her..too much *** in the world to chase one. Beside women don't like being chased they want a guy who doesnt' seem to need them not one chasing them. good luck
2007-01-21 03:59:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Valentines is coming up, maybe you can do something special for her on that day, that shows how much you care
2007-01-21 03:59:37 · answer #9 · answered by brenda4ever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think that this is right
2016-08-09 00:32:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋