Well i share a major milestone with my boyfriend "if u know what i mean Lost IT". but my problem is that he is not as affectionate (no phone calls, visits ect) and i want the pampering etc(am 18 he is 21) my cuz says because of his age i am definetly not going to get the pampering, and lust from him (oh we live 1hr away so don't get to see him often) i want to break it off with him but i don't know if that is wise because i am emotional attached to him. should i break up with him or just suck it up?
2007-01-21 03:43:28 · 5 answers · asked by Chicka 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what, are you going to stay with your first love forever, even if he's not the one you're meant to be with, just because he happens to be the first person you were serious with? move on if it's not right!!
2007-01-21 03:48:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im like kinda in dat same situation except he do call his phone bill is so high from long distance calls. im 2 hours away from him im 18 and he is 20 he my 1st 2 but the way ur ole man act it seems like he is not even worried about u cause he knows u is attached to him so he saying i got her so he kno all u do is worry bout him so he having fun and stuff girl u dont need him especially if he cant call oohh girl its gonna really hurt u but find someone closer just let themfind u most likely he has 4 gotten bout u i guarantee who eva u find gonna be so much better trust and believe
2007-01-21 04:00:57 · answer #2 · answered by lakita s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I deffinetly wouldent break up with him.Try to tell him u want more time with him and see if that works.If not try seeing if u can move with him or he can move with u.I mean u guys do have a long distant relationship.tell him that u need more time with him or ur going to have to move on.Maby it's just because he lives a hour away.If ur in a deep relationship don't go breaking up with him it's a bad idea.GOOD LUCK if u need more info just e-mail me stacy_diva_girl619@yahoo.com
2007-01-21 03:56:30 · answer #3 · answered by stacy_diva_girl619 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
move on i've done it, it's 3 months now me and my first lover is over.....
i taught that it would be really difficult, but it's not
it's time to experience life, go out there and get it
2007-01-21 03:56:25 · answer #4 · answered by annie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start screwing around - you will be glad you did
2007-01-21 03:47:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋