Singles & Dating - 21 January 2007

I broke up with my gf about 9 months ago and haven't been with anyone since; no one really has caught my attention with the exception of this one girl who I used to see out and about occassionally. Really pretty, and appears to be really shy, courteous. A hotty for sure but I used to see her around with this other person so I thought ok she's with someone. For the very first days of seeing each other, she's made attempts to talk to me, everytime I look in her direction she is looking at me , and has this sparkle in her eye , she made an attempt to come round the club and talk to me once put one foot on the platform looked at me, and then walked away. I found out later that she was married. I really like her, I know she knows that. It feels like their is romantic stuff there without us really saying anything to each other.

I don't think she is happy - she is one of those people who grew up in her marriage. I know I may seem like a jerk, but I can't go there

2007-01-21 02:40:44 · 10 answers · asked by Piampri 2

I've known this guy 4 months and seen him 4 times.He lives a long way from me.It was love at first sight for me;I've tried to end it 3 times before because he is married with 2 teenage daughters.After the 1st meeting I was in love + a few days later he told me he was married-before anything physical happened.That was too late, I was already in love with him.He's said he's staying with his wife because of all the usual reasons-kids,money and she's been ill.I understand this because my husband and I were going to stay together for our children but split 6 months ago.
I've had a date with someone else, he wants to take me out again but I want to end it with the married guy 1st.I'll never forget him, the thought of not seeing him again does upset me a lot.Plus he doesn't feel the same way about me.He says things like I miss you and can't wait to see you again.I've told him nothing about the way I feel-I'm very casual with him.
I can't tell him why I want it to end-that I love him .

2007-01-21 02:39:17 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

im really in love with this woman, shes old but she has so much wisdom to impart. and shes still got it

2007-01-21 02:38:27 · 73 answers · asked by dosteyevsky_crimeandpunishment 1

what does it mean when the women asks if ITS in yet ?

2007-01-21 02:36:45 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is sweet and sensitive and more caring than me. I want to show him I like him, but in a respectable way that I won't scare him off... Here are my options, if there is a better way than these, please say...

Kiss him on the cheek?

Rub up my leg against his?

Take hold of his hand?

Ask him to go to a movie with me?

Ask him out to lunch?

Stare intently to his eyes and try to have him catch on?

These are a few, I would consider any other options.

2007-01-21 02:36:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Recently reconnected with an old friend of mine he and I would be perfect together and some of our mutual friends think so as well what is the best way to get him to realize we should be bf/gf without scaring him away or seeming too desperate?

2007-01-21 02:35:04 · 3 answers · asked by Arianna 1

I was shocked, I hooked up with a 25 year old girl last weekend. I wasn't expecting to go all the way but, she started to give the 'hand' if you know what I mean, then 2 minutes later she took off her underwear to use on top of me -- very strange. Wondering how common this is.

2007-01-21 02:35:02 · 11 answers · asked by Razor 2

theres this guy in my school and i like him a lot and he told me that he liked me but im not sure if thats true, he'll flirt w/ me but in a shy way...idk what to do, everyone told me that i should tell him to his face but my friend talked to him once and asked him...what if Rae came up to you and said she likes you..what would you do??" and he said that he would say "i know" so then she asked him if he knew that i liked him and he said yea, then he said it makes me feel good that she likes me...so idk what to do...he said he was gunna ask me out but when?!?!?!

i like him so much and he knows it, but i dont wanna make a big deal bout this

guys please help

how does a shy guy tell you that he likes you...or give you hints???

thanks

Rae ...xox...

2007-01-21 02:34:39 · 4 answers · asked by samyjoe515 2

I'm almost 40 and still single. I guess i was asleep at the wheel for
the past few years. Never gave finding that special someone all that
much thought in my late 20's and early 30's. Had a career change in
my early 30's and it consumed my time and efforts for the past few
years. The career change required living with my parents and now that i like the work i do and find myself fairly stable in my employement and have saved enough cash it's finally hit me that i might be alone for the rest of my days. It's really starting to freak me out and has started to interfere with my sleep and concentration due to anxiety.
I'm a little embarrassed to admit that i'm still living with my parents and have never had a girlfriend or actually dated. I know
i'm shy when it comes to women, but if a nice girl came along and
we hit it off i know i wouldn't have a problem asking her out. I've discovered that special someone dosen't just fall in your lap.

Any Advice???

Thank You!!!

2007-01-21 02:33:11 · 13 answers · asked by singlesucksnow 1

I have been with ym boyfriend for almost 2 years. We argue daily (about everything & anything). Sometimes I wanna rip my hair out! On top of the stress from school, dance, my mom, etc., i can't deal with worrying about our relationship al the time.

H'es very jealous. If I choose to hang out with my girlfriends (which I never do cuz he always wants me with him), he gets REALLY mad. Next time I ask him if he would like to hang out, he says he's too busy to get back at me.

He doesn't want to break up with me. It seems as if he's afriad to be without me.

ON TOP OF THIS:

There is a new guy at my school. He's really cute, and I can't help but stare at him. He smiles back at him, and stares at me too. If you've ever had a feeling like, you like someone but you don't know why, that's what I'm feeling.


WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!??????????????????

2007-01-21 02:32:31 · 20 answers · asked by nkp225 2

Me and This boy named Elie once went out and than we broke up becuase he had a sick mind and I couldnt take it. So he told me never to talk to him again so I didnt but he calls my house WOW?

2007-01-21 02:32:10 · 6 answers · asked by Amber M 1

2007-01-21 02:30:19 · 2 answers · asked by vjmohn 2

2007-01-21 02:29:49 · 3 answers · asked by tik-tak 1

how many lovers have u had and who was the best???

2007-01-21 02:29:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

some one whom you love more than any thing

2007-01-21 02:27:22 · 17 answers · asked by Selamawit 1

A bit of a rough but soft guy with facial hair, maybe some piercings and tattoos?

2007-01-21 02:26:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, i have finaly goten over the girl i loved i had no choice (check my other questions) but what is my next step,i kinda liker her best friend so...whats my next move ??? , i never went out with the girl i loved i aksed her and she said no and i just never got over her and i was told girls have a code against dating you ex's best friend or something would that apply in my case, anyway what comes next????..??

2007-01-21 02:25:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

well....we've met like...1 year ago...we're both in the school-band...but i'm not sure if he fees something for me...and i'm so inlove with him...i'm confused...we're not really good friends...because i've been aways avoiding him('cause i was afraid...)...but we get along well ...and now...i realised how much i love him... i'm afraid that, if i'll tell him...he'll be mad at me or something...please...help me..... :((

2007-01-21 02:25:26 · 9 answers · asked by Tsupika 2

I ask because it seems hard to date, now that i have been single for about a year in a half now....But, I've been dating this guy,that I think is involed with someone else. Part of me cares and then the other part just enjoys the sex. Hes really not all that stable when it comes to me and he so call "other life". I guess I'm wondering if I'm too strong for a real relationship.

2007-01-21 02:22:13 · 20 answers · asked by Ms.Midwest 3

2007-01-21 02:22:11 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

we have been dating for a while, but i don't really like her as much as she likes me....

she gets really jealous and when we a re at her house she always fights with her parents and lil brother thinking that they are embarrassing me..... it drives me crazy!

i really want to drop this relation-ship.... like its hot!

but i want us to remain friends like we all we before we started dating..... is that possible

i mean... she is a good person, i just can't stand being a boy-friend...... its just i like to party, and flirting is just in my nature.....

any advise?!

2007-01-21 02:21:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

holding hands, kissing, talking , kidding, laughing,
feel attracted, be happy, smiling all the day, going out for dinner,
saying goodbye, writing letters, crying at the end, never forgotten...

2007-01-21 02:20:38 · 10 answers · asked by summerbreeze 2

2007-01-21 02:19:50 · 12 answers · asked by yuygj2000 2

Whenever my partner and I attempt to have sex, he seems to have great difficuly finding my hole and inserting his penis. I have tried to help guide it in with my hands, but every time it gets close to being inserted, it slips the other way. This has become a huge problem for us and completely ruins the mood... any suggestions would be of great appreciation!

2007-01-21 02:18:06 · 15 answers · asked by sportylover44 1

The girl I was wanting to ask out is my best freind. The thing is I dont know how to ask her out cause we hang out alot like go to the movies and go places as just freinds. So I was wondering whats a good way to ask her out to make it sound like I want to go on an actual date with her. Should I say "will you go out with me" or something like that or should I say something different.

2007-01-21 02:17:24 · 6 answers · asked by JIm 1

I'm working with this gorgeous looking woman. we exchanged compliments a few weeks ago but we hardly talk to each other (We work in a very demanding job- so there's really no time) and she is never staring at me, so I'm not sure if she likes me. I thought about getting her some good chocolates, to show her that I like her. Is this a good idea? I can't really ask her out because I don't want to freak her out. I want to approach her in a sweet and soft way. Do you have any ideas for me how to do it right? Thank you...

2007-01-21 02:17:18 · 8 answers · asked by luckystrike_x007 2

Sometimes i wish i was in a long term loving relationship, yet preparing for uni and getting grades as well as enjoying myself doesnt make that very practical. Yet when im single i feel lonely. Iv got the rest of my life right?

2007-01-21 02:16:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

from bacon sandwiches,lol...to an icecube melting on bare skin...to michael wincotts voice....anything goes...have fun

2007-01-21 02:16:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

please guys help im 15 (girl) and there is this really shy boy and i cant tell if he likes me...how can i tell ....what are some signs

2007-01-21 02:15:08 · 6 answers · asked by bubbles101 2

If not, would you?

2007-01-21 02:13:26 · 20 answers · asked by terracotta 2