I have been with ym boyfriend for almost 2 years. We argue daily (about everything & anything). Sometimes I wanna rip my hair out! On top of the stress from school, dance, my mom, etc., i can't deal with worrying about our relationship al the time.
H'es very jealous. If I choose to hang out with my girlfriends (which I never do cuz he always wants me with him), he gets REALLY mad. Next time I ask him if he would like to hang out, he says he's too busy to get back at me.
He doesn't want to break up with me. It seems as if he's afriad to be without me.
ON TOP OF THIS:
There is a new guy at my school. He's really cute, and I can't help but stare at him. He smiles back at him, and stares at me too. If you've ever had a feeling like, you like someone but you don't know why, that's what I'm feeling.
WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!??????????????????
2007-01-21 02:32:31 · 20 answers · asked by nkp225 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It seems like he thinks now that he has me, he doesn't need to put any effort into the relationship. But i can't do it all by myself. If I do break up with him, it will be the hardest thing I will ever do :[
2007-01-21 02:54:55 · update #1
Breaking up is hard to do. There was even a song with that title. But believe me, it will NOT be the hardest thing you will ever do. From your comments, it sounds like the sooner you break it off the better. You two are not right for each other. It is pretty clear from what you said that you have already lost your feelings for him. Yes, he will get mad, he will probably say terrible things to you and about you. But just remember that his behavior is due to some insecurities and he doesn't realize or understand his feelings. Break up with him for your sake, and be respectful of his feelings for his sake. Once you do it, it will all be in the past in no time.
2007-01-21 03:56:37 · answer #1 · answered by Steve A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best bet is to get your mind on your schoolwork and not worry so much about the boys. He sounds as if he has some issues that need to be worked on. Jealousy is NOT good. Having to be right at someones side all the time is NOT good. Being pressured is Not good. Honey, I have had many experiences in my lifes journey, some good, some not so good. Some very NOT so good. Has he ever shown an abusive, mean side? Beware. Get your mind centered on your future first. There will be many young men along the pathway. Don't do anything you might regret later. I could write a book. I don't know if you are a christian but I am. As a christian I would say pray. Get to know God in an intimate way because he loves you and wants the best for you. You may not recieve answers immediately or even the answers you want, but God is there for you. Pray for him to guide you. God bless you sweetie.
2007-01-21 02:47:22 · answer #2 · answered by Godlover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of it this way...... Do you really see yourself being with this man who you are dating for the rest of your life???
I dont think so. I say break it off. I was with a guy like that too who yelled at me all the time. It was an emotinal and verbal abuse. Was headed down the road to physcal abuse too. Now I am with a man wh puts me first and treats me better then I have ever been treated before. There is a better man for you out there.
Good luck!
2007-01-21 02:38:32 · answer #3 · answered by moo shell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me like your relationship is already over. If your at the point where you just don't care anymore and have basically given up on trying to save this relationship, let it go. There is no need to be stressed out over a guy. Move on.
2007-01-21 02:41:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You totally need to break up with your boyfriend. He's totally taking you for granted and your relationship seems to be the pits now. You should break up with him.. this new guy may be the one.. but evn if he isnt your old bf is totally not worth it and he totally doesnt deserve you! Take out some time and hang out with your real mates !!! All the best! Hope this new guy is the one for you!!
2007-01-21 02:43:25 · answer #5 · answered by rocker_girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This issue is getting too really complicated.
Perhaps you should talk with your boyfriend first and try a way out to change him. maybe he is totally in love with you and he is not able to be without you.(if this is so, then it means he is mad about you and he is totally 0% without you). its really hard to find such a guy who can be totally in love with 1 single girl and tells that he cant be without the girl. you are lucky in this case.
And the other guy you are staring at is lucky either. A pretty girl (hope so :P) staring at him is totally a rocking thing.
I tell you, you should first talk to your bf and tell him how you want him to be. while talking about this be calm and put your possible affection on him. changing a guy is really easy i tell you. if he is still ready to change and be iwth you then you go with him. else you choose the other guy .. whom you were staring. :)
anyways, all the best to you and ur new STARER :D ohh yea.. and also to your bf :D
2007-01-21 02:43:02 · answer #6 · answered by walter v 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you no what, its funny how we all think about how much better we can do when someone elce comes along, u r rite, no matter what your age is, you dont need the stress, i would talk to him first but not about the other guy u hve your eyes on lol, an just let your bf no how u feel, an if he seems like he dont hve the time to listen to u , then tell him its over good luck
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2016-10-07 12:08:03 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm thats pretty crazy, i say you talk to him n tell him if you dont want to break up then things need to change, in regards to the arguing n spending time together. If he doesnt comply then maybe it is time to move on, and at least you warned him..and now youve got this new cute guy to talk to
2007-01-21 02:37:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is easy - break-up with him.
it's not going anywhere anyway.
maybe think about waiting a little while before getting to serious with guys. it's ok to go to the movies or something, but stay away from adult activities. you are way too young.
2007-01-21 03:08:05 · answer #10 · answered by bl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋