If you knew someone was promiscuous, would this be a turn-on to you, because of experience? or a turn-off, because they have been around?
2007-01-21 03:56:43 · 23 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
turn off they are nasty
2007-01-21 03:58:53 · answer #1 · answered by Samiam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The wonderful thing about this planet is that everyone is different... so the quick answer is YES to both parts... Is promiscuity a badge of honor for you? or a scarlett letter? but think about this...promiscuity is relative... same as "kink" what is promiscuous? 1-2 different guys/girls per day? week? month?
So who has more sex? a single person who see's 3-4 people a month? or a couple who engages 3-4 nights a week...and who then would have more experience? two strangers who are trying to make a first "impression" or the couple who are taking the time to explore the finer points...
to see promiscuity in any light... is prejudicial... not to be bragged about...not to be frowned upon... it is simply one person's history...I do feel that in the event a promiscuous person determines to settle down... that they need to provide full disclosure to thier intended.
2007-01-21 12:14:34 · answer #2 · answered by alex b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends how promiscuous the person is; I prefer a down to earth moderate girl and not a sex machine for the taking.
2007-01-21 12:03:52 · answer #3 · answered by markos m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a turn on for a one night stand. It is a turn off for a long lasting relationship.
2007-01-21 12:24:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the person.
for a serious relationship, yes, it would be a turn-off. it means that you don't value being faithful to one person and don't really respect yourself enough...
but! for just a fling, it is definitely a turn-on!! someone who's been around definitely knows what to do/not do - which is always great. the experience means you can do plenty of things, enjoying new levels of excitement.
2007-01-21 12:02:37 · answer #5 · answered by maj2001gma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that your ideas on it would vary depending on the age.
teen guys would probably think it a turn on --because of their hopes of getting laid
older guys looking for a stable lasting relationship would probably look on it as a turn off, because you have been around so much and would probably worry that you could not commit.
2007-01-21 12:09:26 · answer #6 · answered by angel1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the person. Some are hot and know what they are doing. Some are trying to be sexy but just are stupid and make fools of themselves. I think you have to look the part too, or it just grosses out most people.
2007-01-21 12:05:21 · answer #7 · answered by Melissa M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Huge turn off mainly because you have no idea of what stuff they may have...and just think for every person they have been with they have also been with every person that person was with.
2007-01-21 12:00:46 · answer #8 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always a turn on for me, I like to think that maybe my sex partner knows something I dont. and, they are usually willing to do the most fun things.
2007-01-21 19:49:52 · answer #9 · answered by sessy.btch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how serious I was thinking of getting with her. I would never be serious with a loose woman. If it was a romp in the hay it'd be a turnon because I'd be gone shortly thereafter.
2007-01-21 11:59:32 · answer #10 · answered by Tony K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn off because obviously they place no value on themselves
2007-01-21 11:58:56 · answer #11 · answered by dumpllin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋