There is a man I share a mutual attraction with. We can't be together right now but we do flirt. He's been asking me some questions, though, that I just don't get if he can't be with me.
About my most recent boyfriend:
-How long did you go out?
-Where did he take you on vacation?
-How old is he?
-What does he do?
-How often does he come to see you?
-How often do you see him?
-So, how close are you and this (insert name) guy?
-(my phone rang once while we were talking) Who is calling you? Is it that guy? Let me answer it. I'll tell him we're at your place having lunch and you're in the shower. (I didn't let him.)
-Did the two of you ever take a shower together?
Other General Questions
-Do you have a boyfriend?
-What other men here (at our work) would you be interested in?
-What did you do this weekend?
-What are you doing next weekend?
I get these type of questions about once a week but he never acts on anything or make plans with me. So why ask me?
2007-01-21 03:36:41 · 23 answers · asked by jewels 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, these questions are spread out over a period of about 6 months and coming once a week or so. They were not all asked yesterday or something! Interesting, though, some of you seem to think this is a sign of a possessive or controlling person. Why is that?
2007-01-21 04:25:38 · update #1
I understand why he's asking the questions. It used to be that I didn't care about knowing about her past relationships, but after having past loves take my women away, I now want to know about men in her life and I need to know who she still has feelings for.
2007-01-21 03:42:24 · answer #1 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man in his right mind doesn't ask these kinds of questions. Some of these are down right obnoxious and personal. Only people who know each other on a personal basis would talk about such things.This guy sounds like some kind of kook; a real nut job that you would be better off keeping your distance from. The only reason he would ask you this stuff is to see how you react and maybe get a feel for the situation so he could possibly move in on you. If he hasn't acted on anything yet, see that he doesn't. Keep this creep out of your life as he sounds like he could be potentially dangerous if you ever let him get near you. This flirtation needs to end. It's a fatal attraction just waiting to happen.
2007-01-21 04:02:17 · answer #2 · answered by quantumview 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This was supposed to be a question for men, ladies. Why don't you let a guy come in?
In my arrogant opinion, the man you depict is a jerk or a freak at best. Now, experience has told me that listening to his questions and reporting is a sign you're still in good mental health. You want to flee that type of men. They think all females at large are theirs. Beware most if the guy's whining. They're the worst, with no balls whatsoever. If you fall in the trap, you're in for good and will not escape until year 2027, to be optimistic.
2007-01-21 03:48:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So the opposite sex can't be friends? certainly some of the questions are off color... It sounds to me like he just wants to share in a friends life... of course it's up to you to draw the line and let him know what's comfortable... and what's in good taste... If he doesn't respect that then he's an oaf and you need to walk away...
It's a flattering relationship for each of you... so long as the line remains clear... no harm...
2007-01-21 03:47:14 · answer #4 · answered by alex b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants you, does not know how to approach you, he is shy with girls,.in a mans mind all he wants to do is get in your nickers its because he finds you attractive to him or he just wants another score, but I dont think this guy just wants to score.
He wants to ask you but frightend you will say no.
If you like him help him by being friendy he will unwind.
When I was younger I just had to say I wanna F**k you and I would be in bed that night because I had a large following of femail friends I could chose,
be more specific with each question you can taklk to randy granddad janetwithjim@yahoo.com
2007-01-21 04:12:21 · answer #5 · answered by edward b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because if He didn't ask those then you would claim that he doesn't want to know anything about you. Yes some of the questions are a bit crazy but at least he's asking.
2007-01-21 03:47:31 · answer #6 · answered by gnatlord 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smiling (smirking), mushy-feely, asking impertinent questions, sorting out your physique - pay attention on your intestine, female: this isn't a guy, that's a snake. Exorcise it out of your existence; the quicker the greater advantageous!
2016-10-31 22:07:28 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not ask him? The only time I've had a guy ask me anything similar was someone I knew online, we had no chance of ever meeting, and he did it just to make conversation AND to learn more about who I was and my interactions with romantic partners or lovers. It was curiosity on his part.
With the guy you mention, why not simply ask him why he asks you all these questions...
2007-01-21 03:41:25 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she's either jealous or possessive. you don't say why you can't be together, maybe he's just trying to see if he has a chance when the time is right
2007-01-21 03:42:49 · answer #9 · answered by SassySue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOD...the guy is so damn insecure and had huge inferiority complex issues. Go for someone else.
Atmost one or two qns but these much is outrage.
He's trying to compare himself with your bormer b.f
2007-01-21 03:41:16 · answer #10 · answered by Lord Of Lust 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋