someone told me "remember, we are men we choose who we want to be with, not the other way around."
but then my aunt once said "its the girl who gets to choose".
Well, which is it??
2007-01-21 03:31:42 · 12 answers · asked by elisioloyd 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, we put ourselves out there, the women choose us, and then... we need to have deft enough skills to either keep it going or dump her if she's not potential happy marriage material.
It's a mistake to go out with the wrong one too long because you are happy having sex and stuff--If you wouldn't marry her if she insisted you ask, dump her or get dumped. The longer you stay in the wrong relationship, the more it hurts when it's over, and the less time you spend looking for the right one.
2007-01-21 03:43:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The biggest difference, yes in our lives as men when we just want to "get some" we try find the easy ones; those are the ones we just want to mess with. No respectable man would ever take that kind of lady home to meet the family, okay so maybe a few might. But when it comes to finding a girlfriend, maybe even a potential wife of course we're not going to go for the easy ones, because chaces are she's been easy with other men as well. I'd rather settle with a lady who has respect for herself. After a while you get tired of the "easy" girls, nows the time to meet someone who you'd want to spend the rest of your life with & introduce to your mother.
2016-05-24 05:18:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends.
If the Girl figures she likes a Guy (which happens most often), she will pursue him.
The Girl tends to pursue a guy she wants to build a relationship with.
Guys tend to pursue Girls, more often, to settle themself Sexually.
It isn't until later on in life that they will settle down and want to build a relationship with a girl.
Each person is different... You cannot say that one will, but the other won't.
2007-01-21 03:36:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, people choose who they want to be with but sooner or later they'd realize that who thay want is not really who they really want to be forever. So in the end, no one really chooses, it's rather fate, love, or mere coincidence that two people actually be together.
2007-01-21 03:40:55 · answer #4 · answered by Carlos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is both party.everybody has the right to choose whom they want to.see god gives us two hands.and takes two hands to clap.things do not go in one but a pair.if only one party chooses but the other is not interested in him/her .do u think it works.hahaha the other must also choose him/her to make things work.choosing means we r making a choice.so the girl also makes a choice to stay with the boyfriend or whom they want the bf to be right!!!
2007-01-21 03:37:40 · answer #5 · answered by kabayan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say both parties would have to choose to be together.
2007-01-21 03:34:35 · answer #6 · answered by rip snort 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on!! It's a common decision to be with someone! Mutual feelings, mutual needs! LOVE decides who is going to be with whom.
2007-01-21 03:36:41 · answer #7 · answered by Nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you r the only one who lets other people control u
2007-01-21 03:36:50 · answer #8 · answered by aspen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows??!! it varies in each relationship, whoever has the upper hand i guess.
2007-01-21 03:35:15 · answer #9 · answered by freshlimesoda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they choose each other
2007-01-21 03:34:47 · answer #10 · answered by ♠ JƏSSƏ'S GiRL ♠ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋