Singles & Dating - 15 January 2007

falling in love - is there a way not to :) ?

what if you like people. meeting people. but you are resistent to falling in love just easily. what does it take to still fall in love head over heals?

if you have a relationship already. is there a way not to ever fall in love again-? ..stupid i know.. just keep away.. but what if both have friends and meet them from time to time. you get to meet people sometimes. no? even if you don't care. and every relationship does have its ups and downs. so, if you quarrel with your boyfriend -or are disappointed about a basic point -what to do if you accidently meet a guy you immediately like? isn't there situations where you start talking with just "the" one dangerous guy -?

2007-01-15 21:12:00 · 5 answers · asked by india18 2

i met with my ex, i knew i shouldnt have to do it but i did and now i am totally destroyed. i am always aking why i am soo big looser why he loves another girl and it is hurting a lot.:(
after breaking up my wound started to heal but bcuz i saw him my heart is bleeding again.

2007-01-15 21:10:54 · 11 answers · asked by xxx 2

seriously, just about half an hour ago my so called bf, who does happen to be the father of my daughter who is only 5 months old...., was here, yes, we had a few drinks together and were playin some cards........then things turned sour and I found myself in the bathroom with the tele, except then he ripped the lines outta tha wall so I couldn't even call for any advice or help, (and still cannot)........then he came at the bathroom door and about 3 times tried shovin or kickin it in and I have a battered up arm to prove it.........when I finally came out, he was gone.........WHAT THE HELL SHOULD I DO NOW??????

2007-01-15 21:10:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-15 21:09:06 · 10 answers · asked by ARMCHAIR WARRIOR 2

i used to like this guy in the past but the feeling died off when i know nothing will happen between us because he still seemed rather immature and childish,when i was attached, he was soo close to me!i thought he liked me as he even asked me out to the movies!and we had some kind of silly argument after that and things began to change,we no longer talked like we used to and even if we did,it was a rather formal conversation. and now,he's sitting right beside me!and i always feel so safe and secure when he's with me..i miss him! and the other day,i claimed i was cold and he said in a rather rough tone "you want me to hug you is it?"oh gosh!LOL and today, i fell aslp during lecture and he tapped me to wake me up!i know these gestures don't mean a thing but i think it's sweet cause i like him!when my lecturer posed a qns of what one will do if a woman declare her love for him,he said he'll run away,sigh,looks like he's still rather a rather childish guy though we're all 18,what can i do?

2007-01-15 21:08:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

What does a man intend to do if they regester at a personals site like "sex finder"? What does it mean if he is in a relationship already-should the woman pack up and go after finding out?

2007-01-15 21:06:11 · 11 answers · asked by Mari 2

So, me and my friend who's a girl bonded recently. We talked about our depressions, crushes, opinions, etc etc. She's conservative but can talk about mature things. And then, as we sit next to each other, we straddle our arms together and eventually hold hands...but not romantically. Just being close. I find her attractive and all that, do you think she allowed me to flirt with her? Would she like me as well?

2007-01-15 21:04:49 · 11 answers · asked by hegelian 2

My ex turns up at my house when he wants and texts me when he fancies!

He likes to have sex with me.
This hasn't been a problem because I am still in love with him so therefore never fancy any one! (I'm a one man woman!)

he has told me to find another man because he says he is no good for me!

Do you think he will be able to cope with it if I do?

There is a nice man that wants a proper relationship with me - so should I go for it?

He wants me to prove it via video!

Is this a way for him to move on and why should he need it?

2007-01-15 21:00:14 · 37 answers · asked by kiku 4

Her live-in boyfriend downloaded a video that was titled as kiddie p*rn, but he said that he KNEW that was not what it was.

And, it turned out to be adult material. Still, she is very worried that a title such as that would catch his eye. What do you think?

2007-01-15 20:59:30 · 17 answers · asked by treefrog 4

2007-01-15 20:56:49 · 18 answers · asked by Arnie 2

my woman and i want to make love but im scared and confused that i wont be able to please her i like sex and so does she but my fear is when we make love that im not going to be able to last long in bed i can go for a few minutes and bam then its over.. is there a solution to this kuz i hate it when i cant like go for a few hours and i can only go for a few minutes

2007-01-15 20:54:21 · 18 answers · asked by Sean S 4

Was seeing this guy. We chatted for at least month before he asked me out on a date. It all went great. Went out the following week and after that he wanted to see me everyday! I really liked him and him me. Then we slept together out of the blue. This was xmas eve. The next day he said he'd see me after xmas and he'd miss me. I got a few messages from him over the next few days then nothing...... Well after 2 weeks! he finally contacted me to say he doesnt want a relationship but just wants friends and not only that but he wants friends with 'extras' (if i wanted!) He said the morning after things just werent the same anymore. He said it was not my fault but his and he'd work through it. Since then I havent heard anything. I told him I was really hurt and he said he was sorry. He was supposed to come visit me several times to chat but always said he couldnt make it. Thing is I know for sure he really did want a relationship just before xmas? - and no, no other girl is involved here.

2007-01-15 20:53:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

if so how hairy shuold a guy be shuold he shave
weird question i know but anyway

2007-01-15 20:53:06 · 6 answers · asked by donkeywollenjumper 1

mainly weight??? if someone is 5ft 6inc and weighs 120lbs to skinny?? if someone is 6ft 2inc and weighs 230lbs to fat?? im trying to figure out how women see weight in a relationship. to give an example im 6ft 1inch and i weigh about 225lbs should i lose weight and how much whats a good weight for someone my height??

im probably 60% muscle 40% fat....unfortunatly

2007-01-15 20:50:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

or do you have hidden depths?

2007-01-15 20:48:07 · 20 answers · asked by Basket-santa 6

any one plz email me dreamzunlimited455@yahoo.co.in

2007-01-15 20:48:01 · 8 answers · asked by azhar 1

I find that I'm not attracted to women that have lots of male friends, I avoid them. I also get turned off if a woman gossips, it makes me think they're insecure. I find quiet humility in a woman to be strong and confident. My friend says I like mousy, weak women, but I don't think he understands. What do you think?

2007-01-15 20:45:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-15 20:44:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I realize this is the wrong category but I was hoping for more answers.

I was born to Egyptian parents. Mother has Turkish roots, father has Turkish roots and Asian roots. My grandmother has blue eyes, both my grandfathers have green eyes, my mom has green eyes and so do I. Compared to Europeans I'm tan, compared to Egyptians I'm white. I have light brown hair. My nose is slightly wider than white pple's noses but its also alot thinner than black people's noses. I have full lips. I sort of have Angelina Jolie's look.
I'm curvier than Europeans yet not as curvy as most Egyptians.

Every damn application I have to fill there's this race question *that I have no forking idea why its still there!!* but anyway I'm tired of not knowing what to fill it with. My friends tell me I look white so I should just go with white but at the same time I'm not really white!! so..help me out here folks! What race am I!?

2007-01-15 20:43:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

or is it hubbi?

2007-01-15 20:41:02 · 12 answers · asked by COlder THaN AlaSka 3

My ex just broke up with me. She said she wanted to be friends. I still can't accept the truth that we're no longer together. The thing is we used to be friends before we became a couple and we're classmates so i see her every day at school in class. It's just really hard to get over her and i really love her and want her back. I know that she misses me (i'm not trying to be thick-skinned) a little each day cos there's actually a way to know if someone misses you. I've sent her messages to her cell that i miss her and it's been like 2 weeks since we split. So now i want to know whether i should tell her that i love her through her cell. Please help me!! I really love her so much and even though i've been doing things to keep myself busy, i still think of her every second. Should i ask her if she still miss or love me?...

2007-01-15 20:40:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Oh yeah! this one's for the ladies

2007-01-15 20:39:27 · 14 answers · asked by Ali 1

i have been dating my hubbi for abt 6 years and jst got married.. i always think that i can never survive if i lose my hubbi.. i reali love him so so much.. but i also do feel that wat i have over him is obsession and its not healthy.. is it true?? how can i change myself??

2007-01-15 20:35:42 · 6 answers · asked by sUnseT 3

well i really love this man and we are both atrracted to each other.........i want to bed with him......but i'm not yet ready.......i'm still a virgin.........and i know it will hurt me.......my virginity was so important to me that i want it to give to my future husband.........and yet i want to give it now with my boyfriend..........should i stiill give importance to my virginity?...........is it ok to haVE srx with the man you love even though your not yet married?......is it bad to do that?.......what shall i do?

2007-01-15 20:30:32 · 25 answers · asked by gracielle 1

I really really love my man and he loves me too but we are in a messed up situation where i am gone away from him to overseas for 6 month.. Just because we both frustrated about this we tend to come off kind of rude towards each other. I know you might say if there is no trust there is nothing, but in my situation you cannot possibly blindly trust someone without being frustrated and suspicious once in a while.
Well last night we were talkin smack to each other and i asked him if i got any better at sex when i came to see him for 2 weeks (i know pretty stupid) and he instead of answering yes or no answer by asking me a question that made me really upset. He asked "what you have been practising out there?" Now what kind of **** is that? I flipped, cursed him out and pretty much let him go for good because he disrespected me by asking something liek this? But i love him to death and I want this work out and I am asking you superstitious people do relationships like this have a chance?

2007-01-15 20:29:11 · 8 answers · asked by BK thang 5

I know a nice young man in India, who is too shy to talk to girls, who would like a girlfriend, but does not know how to ask! He has asked for my help looking for one! As I am in Australia, this is awkward! Any suggestions? He is 15 and a Taurus.

2007-01-15 20:25:21 · 4 answers · asked by Whava 3

2007-01-15 20:21:54 · 21 answers · asked by anand 1

Last saturday night my girlfriend and I went to a dinner party and had a great night. By the time we got to her place (it was closer) we were a little tipsy and very tired, but in a great mood. We shared a shower and she was sitting down while washing her hair and I was standing. To make a long story short, while she was rinsing her hair, I "went". It caught her head and she saw it and flipped out! It's been about 3 days now and she's still pissed! Is she making too big a deal out of this?

2007-01-15 20:15:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have joked about threesomes with almost every girl I've dated, and even partaken with a few of them.

At the mere suggestion of my girlfriend saying she'd like to sleep with two guys at once I lost all sexual attraction to her and don't really want to see her again.

Is this normal?

2007-01-15 20:10:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I hAve a funni case here... My hubbi calls me dumb!!.. and it reali hurts me.. wen we talk abt this.. he says he calls me tat way wen he feels i do things so stupidly... I could c that he feels sorry abt it. & he told me that : u mend the whole company at work but do so stupid things at home... and it irritates me... tat's y i tend to ask y u so stupid??.... i know wat he means... but ... i still feel veri hurtful inside me.. Y? other than not doing stupid stuffs.. wat can i do??

2007-01-15 20:09:54 · 18 answers · asked by sUnseT 3