I find that I'm not attracted to women that have lots of male friends, I avoid them. I also get turned off if a woman gossips, it makes me think they're insecure. I find quiet humility in a woman to be strong and confident. My friend says I like mousy, weak women, but I don't think he understands. What do you think?
2007-01-15 20:45:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are the least sexiest in the world.
2007-01-15 20:57:40 · answer #1 · answered by koRngear 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you sound really sexist. Perhaps, you're more attracted to these "types" of personalities, because they fit who you are more.
If you're quiet, and traditional; it's normal, and ok for you to prefer someone who thinks the same as you.
Not all guys, not even the more liberal ones, exactly love their girls having tons of guy friends. So I can understand that. However, you should be able to trust the woman you love, to be ok with her having male friends.
Traditional does not have to mean sexist, unless you have actual sexist attitudes.
For instance:
- Do you believe that woman should do everything you ask, no questions asked?
- Do you respect woman, and see them as your equal?
- Will/Do you allow them to voice their opinions, and listen to them?
God bless you. Hope this helps.
2007-01-16 05:00:43 · answer #2 · answered by Belix 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't call that sexist. I generally call men who shy away from women who have male friends, insecure. That's probably because I have a lot of guy friends... they all come to me for advice on how to deal with their wives/girlfriends, and I go to them for advice on how to fix my car and hook up my new propane tank, lol! I don't like gossips either though, they're usually catty people who revel in other's misfortune and that's never attractive.
Your friend sees what he sees in the women you date. Since he isn't dating them, his opinion shouldn't matter to you.
2007-01-16 05:00:20 · answer #3 · answered by Jadalina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are a sexist.You just have your own preference for a woman.And really it's not very appealing for a woman to have lots of male friends, gossiping,etc.So it's normal not to like them!
2007-01-16 05:01:28 · answer #4 · answered by ranya j 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course you're not sexist. It's human nature to want someone who's loyal to you. And I don't much care for gossips either.
2007-01-16 04:49:54 · answer #5 · answered by Benvenuto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quiet humility......Sorry pal the quiet ones are usuaslly weak and mousey.......
I like an intelligent .... opinionated woman that can have flaming arguements one minute then kiss and make up the next.....
And no you are not sexist.....duh
2007-01-16 04:52:47 · answer #6 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think u r not confident with women
2007-01-16 04:57:16 · answer #7 · answered by icy5523 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r unique, n dnt worry . u r rite dnt listen to people
2007-01-16 04:50:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur not sexist.. thats just the kind of chichs u like... "to each their own", right?!?
2007-01-16 04:50:32 · answer #9 · answered by sxylilcracker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i guess you will like me...
2007-01-16 04:50:52 · answer #10 · answered by hotchixxxz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋