My ex turns up at my house when he wants and texts me when he fancies!
He likes to have sex with me.
This hasn't been a problem because I am still in love with him so therefore never fancy any one! (I'm a one man woman!)
he has told me to find another man because he says he is no good for me!
Do you think he will be able to cope with it if I do?
There is a nice man that wants a proper relationship with me - so should I go for it?
He wants me to prove it via video!
Is this a way for him to move on and why should he need it?
2007-01-15 21:00:14 · 37 answers · asked by kiku 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should dump this guy and find another man...maybe you can have both though..it sounds like your ex wants to have an orgy.
2007-01-22 22:25:50 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you degrading yourself? He ended it with you for a reason, he doesnt want to be tied down but you are still happy to have sex with him which makes life really easy for him. He's just saying you should get another boyfriend because he doesnt believe you will. As for the video, how sick and he might put it on the net so dont do it.
You must tell your ex to get lost even though it will hurt not to see him again but you will feel better in yourself in the long run with more self pride. And go out with the new boyfriend, he will probably treat you far better and as you are a one man woman you will have a proper boyfriend who cares for you.
Good luck!
2007-01-15 21:11:20 · answer #2 · answered by jaygirl 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Want to know how to get your ex back? Change yourself. Don't worry about changing other people, worry about changing yourself. Go to https://tr.im/t3P0k
Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.
The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.
Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.
2016-04-22 11:56:06 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with the other man - your ex only wants you for sex so I think he'll cope if you find someone else, get rid of the ex!
2007-01-22 23:32:39 · answer #4 · answered by jacee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should move on and give it a try with the other guy that fancies you. Since your ex has made it clear that he is no good to you i don't think he is ever going to be committed to you again. You are going to be waisting your time if you stick with your ex. Life is about having good things if you can, So take your chance with your new admirer and you don't have to show your ex a video evidence.
2007-01-15 21:18:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm afraid he's just using you. Having his cake and eat it, get rid of him. To ask you to make a video!!! that's just plain sick!!!Time you started thinking of yourself as a human being and a woman, not just someones part-time bit of fun. If he's sleeping with lots of other partners there is another thing to consider apart from the emotional and moral aspects....do you have safe sex with him....there is a great risk of all kinds of nasty diseases to be had from him. Please do yourself the respect of losing this guy and finding a real man who is capable of giving back the love and loyalty that you have. I wish you well for true happiness.
2007-01-16 00:21:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Better u find someone who is a "one woman man". Ur ex want only sex from u and nothing else...and i think he also wants you to find another man so that u don't expect long term relation with him....
But if ever u decide to go out with someone just break up completely with ur ex... coz later he may feel jealous and create obstacle in yr life...
Am sure there's someone better there 4u.. b patient!
2007-01-15 21:09:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
so you have a man here that possibly broke up with you and you are still having sex with him but now he is telling you to get annother partner i think he is playing you and he needs to be told straight if he really loved you you would still be together so get in there with this other man and stop hanging aruong for the earth to drop (get on with life and make the most of it)
2007-01-23 06:56:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you still see, invite to your place, have sex with your ex ?
I guess he's quite wise in a way ! He says you're not together anymore, so he could do whatever he wants with other girls, but he still have sex with you...
First thing to do, even if you still love him, make thing clear. If he's your ex, don't see him anymore, at least for a few months, the time you'll need to get over him, but if you still want to see him, tell him you're still in love, and don't let him use you.
If he wants to have sex with you, he should be your bf, not your ex. Otherwise, he should let you live your own life.
2007-01-15 21:22:24 · answer #9 · answered by tokala 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I feel your boyfriend does not have any confidence in himself and he may be telling u to find another man cuz he feels that he is no good or doesnt deserve you .
I`ll recommend u sit with him and find out why he has that sort of feeling and tell him that you will love him for whatever he is.This will make him feel that his girlfriend at least understands him and thats what we want right?
My advice-Stick with ur same guy.Cuz a newer boyfriend will take a long time to get adjusted to.And U will have to start from scratch
2007-01-15 21:12:04 · answer #10 · answered by the_stunner>>> 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋