Singles & Dating - 15 January 2007

well i am 36 years old girl (single) never married and have problem of approaching men's , I am good looking people admire my beauty but when ever comes for last long relationships doesn't work , men's only see me for one day , so need your advice i am afraid that i can not good in communicating with a men , ca any one tell me how can i hunt men and what i suppose to talk with a men , please need your help.

Thanks & B.Regards
Samia

2007-01-15 18:21:18 · 9 answers · asked by same_dima@yahoo.com 1

Does anyone want to share with there first kiss screw ups? like what happen>>? mine wasn't really that bad, well my first kiss with a girl turn out as my teeth hitting her teeth.. its not that bad, but its a mistake.. the funniest story get the best ranking..

2007-01-15 18:21:06 · 2 answers · asked by mike s 2

2007-01-15 18:20:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

THere is this guy taht used to be in my class.. we never talked but he graduated.

I talked to him on AIM yesterday for the first time... and we had a really decent conversation. He tried to initiate conversation, asked me what I liked and everything. He's very polite and everything..

I want to start out slow, but do you think it's odd to just start talking online like this? And do you think I should IM him agian? Or wait until he does? if he ever does?

I really want to get to know him but i dont want to seem odd.. help?

2007-01-15 18:20:49 · 1 answers · asked by sam3345 1

Ok, as the title states I am really good friends with this girl, we go out shopping, dinners and movies. As of lately this has happened increasingly, she said she would love to spend a lot of time with me in the coming weeks. In my opinion, I think we are a bit too close then just good friend (but then again I could be wrong), smacking each other on the butt, even in public places. We cuddle up with each other, etc, it has much gotten past the point where the "traditional" flirting would go and you can't really see the signs. But as many of you would suggest, ask her out. But it isn't as simple as that, much more complicated, by doing so could ruin everything. So I am not going all out by saying that, even if that is your only other suggestion. Is there anything else I can do, I don't know in terms of flirting at this point in time!

Thanks

2007-01-15 18:20:28 · 7 answers · asked by Bruce T 2

2007-01-15 18:18:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in my second year of college and well anyway I was at this party and there were these three guys standing near me and I heard them tallking about me and saying my name and then I heard one guy say "dude, don't even bother she is such a prude" and then they left and went to another room. And its not just them I have heard other guys say this about me as well, even one of my ex-boyfriends?!


So my questions are:
-Why do so many guys think I am such a prude ?
-Am I really a prude ?


Other Details:
-I am 19
-I am a virgin
-I am waiting till marriage to have sex and I wear my promise ring with pride
-I don't kiss until at least the third date
-I don't drink, smoke, or do drugs (I never have and never will)
-I never curse (It just sounds dirty)
-I love to travel and try new things (I am very outgoing)

2007-01-15 18:15:08 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

GOOD JOKE.... u have to live with her ...now the rich lady takes u to the cleaner now the poor girl love u will u go back to her...love is in question it a joke u firgure it out might be fortune wisdom comes now tell me ya explanation to a lame man i ask any man any man on earth experience it my joke right or wrong love is in question men answers only....

2007-01-15 18:13:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i know your always reading questions like this but here is my situation, i have a crush on my asstanct manger at work. he is 6 years older then me. ive liked him for over a year! he is single and we talk, i get confused over weather he likes me in that way or not? he is mean to me, but only in a teasing way. i asked him "why are you always mean to me. do you not like me?" and he said " no i do like you, if i didnt ,you would know coz i would ignore you or get you to do shitty jobs and stuff" immature answer i know. but so i thought, then is he mean to me in a flirting way? he is nice to me sometimes, sharing his food on break when im hungrey : ) stuff like that.

aww i get confused. do you think he likes me but he thinks im too young for him? or is it coz he is asstanct manger?

i should move on? aye ?
i just get confused when im working with him because he sometimes gives signs that he likes me.

although i could be taking it the wrong way?

2007-01-15 18:11:45 · 8 answers · asked by lily 2

I want to date my friend but hes 2 yrs older than me and in highschol. i also have a really HOT guy that wants 2 date me at my scholl but is obsessed w/ sex.....what do i do??
Who would u choose?
u cant choose no one..... so HELP MEEEEE!!!!

2007-01-15 18:11:41 · 6 answers · asked by baby_blue_honey 1

Dearest Sexy,

Thank you again for being so good to me. You have a long history of sending very nice, poetic, thoughtful emails. I am not as creatively inclined but I'd like to tell you some things from the heart. You are full of kindness. I can trust you, and I have immense confidence in you. You have personal integrity which I find admirable, respectable, and endlessly attractive.

My life revolves around Nessa most of the time, and you have never made me feel bad about not being able to give you my full attention. I always knew I had to be extra careful in choosing who to spend time with because of having an impressionable, vulnerable young person in my care. Therefore I did not want to get in over my head too quickly, and lose sight of what is important. But I've gotten to know you over the past many months, and since I have a moment, I wanted to take the time to make sure you know how much I appreciate you.

First of all I want to thank you again for being so flexible and understanding. You see that I do not have the freedom of a single person, and even though you do not have a child of your own you understand as if you did. In fact you work together as a team when we're all together, especially the little details such as holding a door or helping with a jacket. Those things you do I deeply appreciate and make you a hero to me. I know you well enough to know that you're not just putting on an act, you are just a naturally helpful soul. Plus you set such a good example in front of my girl, and you can't even put a value on something like that especially when there has never been a good example like that in her life before. The fact you treat me well reflects back to her so it's a double good deed.

If I never got mixed up with a bad guy many years ago, if history could be changed I simply wish I could have had a child with you instead. Had we somehow been able to meet a decade ago, wouldn't things be different. The imagination can crank out endless possibilities but perhaps the right time never was back then, for either of us. We only have today, and the mystery of the future to work with. Fantasizing about what could have happened in the past is useless, so that leaves fantasizing about the future.

I don't believe in fate or destiny, I feel that what happens in life is largely influenced by acting upon what you want to happen. In a way I think it's a mistake to lay back and think "this was meant to be," because then people stop putting forth an effort and don't have to make decisions. And that line of thinking can also wrongly justify staying in a bad situation, such as in abuse-- such if someone already has it in their head that "this was meant to be," and is too stubborn to see things falling apart. So, even though it is romantic to think that you and I were "meant to be," I think it is far more more beautiful to know that some things really are in our control. I want you. (Not just sexually.) Today, and tomorrow, and thereafter, and I am willing to work for it and work with you to achieve mutual goals.

Thank you so much for being a part of my life. Thank you for coming into the New Year with me. This is very special to me. You are very special to me. You have given me hope and a sense of belonging. Sometime I feel like only now my life has really begun since I met you. Instead of trapping me, you have freed me. Since I do not have to rely on wishful thinking, I do not have to call you the man of my dreams. You are not a fantasy, you are a reality.

Love Pumpkin

2007-01-15 18:10:16 · 12 answers · asked by beat_this_program 1

ok well this girl that goes to my school. Me and her friends are pretty close and we talk a lot, but for some reason, this girl never ever try talking to me or even say hi. When i pass her in the hall she just keeps on walking with her head down, or if i was with one of my friends, she would talk to them...shes friendly to pretty much everyone but just now me WHY!!!!!
....wats with her, does she hate me or something casue she doesnt show any body language that shows she likes me

2007-01-15 18:10:12 · 11 answers · asked by o.o 1

I am a virgin.. enough said

2007-01-15 18:09:30 · 4 answers · asked by Giancarlos F 1

2007-01-15 18:08:42 · 3 answers · asked by starscamefallingdown 1

Okay, I'm 27 and I'm not new to the whole "dating scene", but I find it hard to introduce myself to women. To be completely honest, most women I've dated, I have met on the internet. No, it hasn't been the long distant type, it's usually someone local I meet in a chat room.

Here's the problem:

See, there's this girl that works at the gas station I stop at every night, and over the past few weeks, I've noticed that she's absolutely beautiful and intelligent. We always strike up casual conversation about the weather, work, and other minor stuff. I probably just suffer from fear of rejection, but whenever I meet an attractive girl, I always have had problems taking the conversation to the next step. I'm never quite sure how to go about asking for her number or even just giving her mine.

Does anyone have any suggestions on how to get over my fear? I know that I lack something in the confidence area, but I just want to know how to get over this.

2007-01-15 18:06:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last year there was this guy who really liked me, but I didn't like him as more than a friend. We remained friends (friends with benefits), but I know that I hurt him (I ended up liking his cousin). When I got back home, I realized that I really did like him, as more than a friend. We kept in touch through e-mail almost everyday, and I eventually told him that I wanted to get back together with him, as I decided to go back for another year of study abroad. We both decided we'd see how things went. Over the summer, he stopped e-mailing as much and when I got back, he kept making excuses not to hang out with me. He stopped talking to me altogether for a month and then texted saying he was sorry, he had had a friend who was really sick. We hung out for a couple of days. He then texted and told me that he didn't think he liked me as much as I seemed to like him and that he felt awkward around me. I don't understand as I know that he really liked me and now doesn't even want to be my friend

2007-01-15 18:05:36 · 8 answers · asked by Meg 1

Or did it fail again?

Should you have just stayed apart to begin with?

2007-01-15 18:05:30 · 13 answers · asked by Misch 4

i've liked this guy for a while and he told me that he likes me and he knows that i like him. he says that he doesnt like relationships. is he telling me this because he doesnt want a relationship with me or because he just wants to hook up? what do i do?

2007-01-15 18:01:59 · 7 answers · asked by ashes 1

I'm in my mid thirties and dating a woman. Do women really expect sex? What if I don't want to have sex? Is sex a requirement for an intimate relationship?

I like her and don't want sex to get in the way.

2007-01-15 18:00:06 · 26 answers · asked by Phillip 4

this guy and me have know each other about 7 months he had a girl when we first meet but after they broke up we have been really flirty and he is a shy guy. this asking me kinda came out of now where and he was really nervous when he asked.he asked me to go to his apartment and he was going to cook and stuff i went and we had a great time. he brought me my food and stuff and we ate and talked, watched this concert on tv and just talked alot. it ended with a sweet hug. was it a date or just a friendly get together?

2007-01-15 17:59:32 · 7 answers · asked by whatdoesitmatter05 2

2007-01-15 17:58:31 · 11 answers · asked by girluknow2 1

2007-01-15 17:58:27 · 13 answers · asked by corporate_boy2002 2

2007-01-15 17:54:13 · 20 answers · asked by realist86 3

How do you define "Hapiness"? Some people get happiness seeing other people suffer. Everyone has different definations of happiness, but what is the MOST common defined "Happiness"? Some people get happy seeing their wealth grow and multiply. Some people get happy helping others physically, emotionally or financially. Some people feel happy being getting married. I need to know your answer.

2007-01-15 17:52:23 · 14 answers · asked by aramaiya 3

This will be my boyfriends and mine first valentines day together. We've been together for a few months now but we've always been good friends. Here's my problem.......He's never bought any of his exes flowers or candy or did anything on valentines day. I on the other hand am used to getting things evn things as simple as a love letter. I don't know if I should hint to him or what...can ya'll giv me some tips please!!!!

Fellas what should I do?
Ladies what should I say?

2007-01-15 17:51:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

What would you buy on your shopping spree?... and do you think there would be anything left when you had finished shopping?

2007-01-15 17:51:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

How old was you when u had ur first kiss?

And how old was u the first time u went out with someone?

2007-01-15 17:50:01 · 16 answers · asked by Paris 1

We've been together for 14 months now.. he's been fit, but he's been constantly putting on weight and giving me all kinds of excuses !
I can't tolerate it anymore, plus the promises he doesn't keep about eating healthy and going to the gym! i'm fed up and this time when he came back it was extremely intolerable.. he no longer turns me on with his big belly!
i figured i just can't love him for who he is.. i need him to be something i can love..
can i tell him that i am breaking up with him because he is fat??

2007-01-15 17:48:24 · 36 answers · asked by Deema 4

ladies help me please how do i make a girl feel sexy/beautiful when she is on her period. all i want her to do is feel happy

2007-01-15 17:47:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

well he has a gf. but shes only KINDA his gf. they r always fighting. no one really likes her cause she lies and brags ALOT. everyone says i am prettier than her. and my bff is dating his bro. i only met him once last year and i dont think he remembers me very well. next weekend we r all going 2 the movies and i wanna make a good impression. first off what sould i wear? second how should i act? third, how do i steal him overall?

2007-01-15 17:47:16 · 11 answers · asked by Sweetie Pie 1