My ex just broke up with me. She said she wanted to be friends. I still can't accept the truth that we're no longer together. The thing is we used to be friends before we became a couple and we're classmates so i see her every day at school in class. It's just really hard to get over her and i really love her and want her back. I know that she misses me (i'm not trying to be thick-skinned) a little each day cos there's actually a way to know if someone misses you. I've sent her messages to her cell that i miss her and it's been like 2 weeks since we split. So now i want to know whether i should tell her that i love her through her cell. Please help me!! I really love her so much and even though i've been doing things to keep myself busy, i still think of her every second. Should i ask her if she still miss or love me?...
2007-01-15 20:40:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love is risky... you need to take the risk or die not knowing.
There is a risk that she may not share the same sentiments, however, you have no way of knowing if you do not take the risk and ask her first.
Depending on the nature of the breakup, a reunion from a breakup is not impossible,
So good luck to you.
2007-01-15 20:48:08 · answer #1 · answered by Meela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, so ive been here myself, and i think i can help ya out. First off, you should tell her that being friends would be cool, but you are alwayz going to want more. And no! dont tell her you love her over the phone, do it in person, looking her dead in the eyes. If that iznt possible, then give her a hand written letter explaining everything, like you miss looking into her eyes that are like 2 un-named stars or you miss her more and more with every beat of ur heart (those are 2 i used lol feel free to use them if u want), and covering every possible question she could have and also give much reasurance (thiz may be the best way newayz). And yes, you should as her if she thinks of you as much as u think of her as well as if she loves you. Good luck brother
2007-01-16 05:06:54 · answer #2 · answered by Mr.XXX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ironically, I am going threw the same thing with my ex boyfriend, except I am the girl in the situation. We used to be friends as well until he messed up and I just couldn't take it anymore. He called me a few times and told me that he was still very in love with me and that he was going to do ANYTHING to get me back. I know he really loves me. The one thing that is different between me and him was that I also realized I was still in love with my other ex (but that's got nothing to do with the break up) that changes things. If that wouldn't have happened...I might would have went back out with the ex but I am in love with someone else now. I can't really answer your question without knowing the details. Did you do something wrong to make her break up with you or did something just change in the relationship? If you did something wrong, how bad? I mean, a lot of things contribute to this answer but, with the information I have, I'll say this...if you have been friends for a while, that probably means that you know one another very well. So, if you want to get her back...you'll have to do something to surprise her. Say something you'd never say to another girl. And if you did something wrong apologize. If something changed...acknowledge what it was and ensure you'll work on it and mostly...yes, tell her how you feel. If you don't..you'll always wonder...what if...
2007-01-16 04:55:33 · answer #3 · answered by Som31 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God NO, if you keep telling her you miss her you will NEVER get her back. Get that??? NEVER. The only way she is going to come around is if you move on. She may still not come around, but you have a better chance of getting her back if she see's you with another woman. She may try to get you back just to see if she can still pull the strings with you. There is nothing the heals the heart quicker than another woman. I would suggest that you try that and if that doesn't work, just keep dating and hanging out w/friends. Keep busy or you will be miserable. I guarantee it.
2007-01-16 05:03:31 · answer #4 · answered by Carrie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now you are the vulnerable one.tell her how you feel about her.dont mince words and leave the reat to nature.if she still has feelings for you, she will get across to you.otherwise, brace up and move on.tis very very hard but time will heal the wound.
reading your question, i could feel your pain cos i cant imagine breaking up with the one i love.
geez,sorry! wish you the best.hope you guys make up
2007-01-16 04:46:54 · answer #5 · answered by beaume 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, I would do that. Sometimes a girl can break up with a guy because she doesn't believe he really loves her. I know I did. But maybe be careful about how you do it.
2007-01-16 04:55:58 · answer #6 · answered by calliope 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, gut call, go with gut
2007-01-16 04:43:40 · answer #7 · answered by Miss Green 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋