Singles & Dating - 13 January 2007

I have been single for two years now and am now wanting to not be alone anymore and to share my life with someone other than me. I am a very sincere kind of person and had recently met a man on a dating site who seemed to be pretty certain of himself and was looking for a relationship with a woman after recently being seperated.

His profile interested me more than anyone else's and because he appeared honest and up-front about himself. We have only met twice since boxing day and so I am hardly getting to know him the way I ought to be and because we both live some distance away from each other. He has been divorced twice and has two teenage sons he continually has problems with and an ex wife he still seems to be angry with for one thing or another.

I am not sure if I have gotten myself into something I am happy with and mainly because he only seems to want to jump straight into bed with me when he does see me and does not want to talk about things or get to know me.

2007-01-13 03:23:55 · 2 answers · asked by Shikira-trudi 3

my girlfirend to dump to because i love Star Wars???????

2007-01-13 03:21:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm not promiscuous or anything but i've had my share. not that much though. anyway... i like foreplay. in fact i like it more than the act itself. i like the kissing, the fondling, but when it comes to the end, i lose it. i mean there's nothing...i don't feel anything. i haven't had a real orgasm. what is wrong with me?

2007-01-13 03:21:51 · 18 answers · asked by Gel G 2

big buts are a turn on

2007-01-13 03:21:23 · 3 answers · asked by country boy 1

2007-01-13 03:19:32 · 12 answers · asked by chrissy15_maine 1

As girls, my friends and I plan things, outings, visits, girl's nights out, etc... My boyfriends' friends never plan anything. All their things are very impromptu, proposed the day before at best. Because I want to give him his guy time, I'm usually supportive of this and have given up COUNTLESS plans with him in the past just because the guys decided to hang. The thing is, I think he's taking this for granted. He came back from a long trip and we haven't done anything special. His buddies have been whisking him off to hang out for the past few days, and I've only gotten moments with him. Basically, he knows that if he comes and tells me "sorry about this, but the guys wanna watch a fball game tonight", he KNOWS that I would let him, just because I want to be supportive. I don't want to break up with him at all, and I know he doesn't either. He's just oblivious to the fact that I am basically getting stood up! How can I make him understand? We've talked but it's not getting through.

2007-01-13 03:18:18 · 8 answers · asked by reba 1

I asked this girl out for coffee yesterday, as i was quite sure she was also interested in me. She said yes, but today when we were going to organise a date, she said she had a problem and that there was someone else and if i had asked 2 weeks ago she would have deffinately said yes.

I talked to her best friend before i asked and he said she had been waiting for me to make a move for quite a while. And that she had been holding off with this guy incase i asked her out.

Im positive she is still interested in me as an option, so what do i do?

What i want to do is hang out with her as friends, still grab the coffee, but not in date mode. Should i ask her again, and say just as friends.

Also should i even continue to flirt, now she knows i am actually wanting to date her aswell, she may rethink everything (yes i realise thats very selfish of me), Is it bad to say to her, that i was a fool for waiting so long, and that i will still fight for her, if it wont make her awkward?

2007-01-13 03:17:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have lots of friends that have sex with different guys every weekend... I have had sex twice and it makes me feel like a whore because they tell all thier friends... It makes me feel like my stomach is going to come up. Why do girls like to have sex with guys that do that? And no offense but that is what most of them do. Even the one guy that I thought would never do this to me did... Why? Its so fustrating to me that my girlfriends go out and have sex all the time and never think twice, but it gets to me...

2007-01-13 03:14:44 · 44 answers · asked by autumn marie 1

I'm very, very good at it. You won't be bored.

2007-01-13 03:14:31 · 3 answers · asked by jonathoncharles19 1

2007-01-13 03:13:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Broek up a few months back...still love her liek hell...things pretty cold between us coz we dont talk to each other at all...she sumtimes glances and turns away...meanwhile im goin out with sum1 else...nto enjoyin as i love the former

2007-01-13 03:13:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

whats it mean when a guy asked my bestfriend if i liked him! and then he said i just wanna know what shes gunna say so tell her i like her! and then i thought he was just messing with me so i was like omg why do you keep tell her to tell me all this crap! and then he went back to her and said omg why did you tell kali that it was just a joke! and then he started ignoring me for a couple days but hes starting to try to talk to me again! and hes been trying to bump into me on purpose but i dont look at him i just walk right pass him! what does this mean does he really like me or was it really just a joke?

2007-01-13 03:13:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

At first I was not realy wanting to do it but my fiancee pestered me into trying it. Now Ive fallen in love with this new man How do I tell my (ex) fiancee I want to break it off with him? Weve been together 2 years.

2007-01-13 03:12:15 · 9 answers · asked by Snow Bunny 1

I felt dizzy last night after our Friday evenig triple jack, and I was wearing a breathe right nasal strip. Is she too young for me?

2007-01-13 03:10:19 · 6 answers · asked by BUM 2

the thing is ye that im gonig out with this boy called Sean! he asked me out! we went out twice and this is the third time! this called emma is his ex gf,sean left her for me! and she told me that sean told her that he will go back to her when he dumps me! and i dont knw what to do man!

2007-01-13 03:08:20 · 17 answers · asked by Sarah S 1

I have a high sex drive and i gotta have sex every day, but i'm just wondering if that's too much for the average female?

2007-01-13 03:07:17 · 18 answers · asked by kwon 1

I have a problem with my bf. I am not working at the moment so he is the provider. When I was working I was helping him out with what he needed until he got back on his feet. Now he got a good job so he helps me out wiht money. but the other day he gave me some money then asked me to buy him something. I feel that is stupid. How are you going to ask someone that is not working to buy you something or to put something on there credit card for you.
To me he should have just kept his money and told me he cant give me this wek but he will give me next week. Thats to me is an indian giver. It make no sense you giving me money for myself then ask me to buy you something with the little money I have. In actuality I will be giving his money plus extra leaving me with -0. Tell me what you think. Thank you

2007-01-13 03:06:12 · 3 answers · asked by Ally R 1

I'll be brief: we are not officially a couple..

- at first we used to have long conversations on the phone, now he doesn't call anymore
- he slept over once and we didn't have sex, we just held each other all night
- he told me that he's never felt as attracted to any other female as he does to me
- whenever we meet, he brings me small presents - like foods that I like, candles, etc.
- when we're in public, he touches me as if we are a couple (holds my waist, etc)
- he shares his financial secrets with me

I ended up really liking this guy and now he has disappeared. If he wasn't interested the whole time, then why all the good signals?

2007-01-13 03:05:32 · 9 answers · asked by Krysta 2

There was this guy who said he liked me before winter break and we would flirt all the time and walk to class together everyone told me how much he liked me but he never asked me out and so i ended up asking him out over break he said he wanted to think about it but then he said i think we would be better off as friends and i was really confused cuz i thought he liked me and he didnt talk to me for like a week and then he started talking to me and flirting with me even more than before break do u think he changed his mind and wants to ask me out?

2007-01-13 03:04:58 · 4 answers · asked by Emmie 3

I love making out with my bf. He's such a good kisser but he likes to french kiss me and i don't enjoy it so much yet. i feel it's too fast. How do i tell him this without hurting his feelings. Someone help me cause this is my first boyfriend and I don't wanna loose him. :(

2007-01-13 03:04:39 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is there a way to ask with class ?

2007-01-13 03:02:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sisters daughter is 19 and she is scare to have sex with her boyfriend because she is scared that it will hurt too much. Her boyfriend tried everything but she still wont do it. How do we tell her that it isnt that scary.

2007-01-13 03:01:25 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

1. theres the 1 that been my friend but since he found out i liked him he kinda doesnt talk 2 me

2. theres my punkish friend with cute hair thats funny but i hardly get 2 c in school but we talk a lot on the internet

3. theres a rlly cute blonde haired skater kid thats funny and nice but i barleee no
which 1 help should i go 4 i mean theres only gotta b 1 guy for me but idk which1 i wanna b with more

2007-01-13 02:59:26 · 22 answers · asked by Elizabeth 3

who's fault is it?????????????????????

2007-01-13 02:59:15 · 12 answers · asked by lowroad 2

This girl I see about once a week where she works always seems to stare at me, look at me frequently, or passes by where I am sitting quite often. Why does she do this and what should I do if I am attracted to her?

2007-01-13 02:59:03 · 8 answers · asked by Blue-Eyed Guy 3

1. theres the 1 that been my friend but since he found out i liked him he kinda doesnt talk 2 me

2. theres my punkish friend with cute hair thats funny but i hardly get 2 c in school but we talk a lot on the internet

3. theres a rlly cute blonde haired skater kid thats funny and nice but i barleee no
which 1 help should i go 4 i mean theres only gotta b 1 guy for me but idk which1 i wanna b with more

2007-01-13 02:57:14 · 4 answers · asked by Elizabeth 3

This is for the girls:
Many ppl have told me that girls, even though they dont say it, actually like gettin sent mixed signals.. Do girls view mixed signals as an intriguing tease or jus irritating and confusing

2007-01-13 02:56:15 · 5 answers · asked by deserving13 1

all of the women with a good sense of humor are either way older then me or would require me to be a pedophile

2007-01-13 02:54:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't think other girls are smarter than me,but I think men are,so when I meet difficulties,I will turn to men as if i don't have a brain.I talk softly in front of them,and what's worse,I think as a girl I should listen to male.I know I don't have to act like that coz now men and women are equal,but I can't help.Maybe it's a culture thing coz in my hometown(not every part of China),women are looked down on,people think women are useless,although they work very hard .And,when there are guests,we can't even eat with men at the same table.My friends who came from big city like Beijing and Shanghai said they couldn't believe this but it's true,and it strongly affects me.I think maybe i should be more confident of myself

2007-01-13 02:53:22 · 17 answers · asked by ♡Ling♫ 3

My girl thinks im cheating on her with her friend. But i am not. I just hang out with her friend alot. Then her friend told he ri hugged her. Which i definetly didnt do. Now all my girlds friends are pissed off with me. Cuz like yesterday she wanted to talk to me but i was like ignoring her cuz i didnt now what to do. i apologized today, but my friend said she was really angry. SO is there anythin else i shold do?

2007-01-13 02:52:51 · 14 answers · asked by D 1