i'm not promiscuous or anything but i've had my share. not that much though. anyway... i like foreplay. in fact i like it more than the act itself. i like the kissing, the fondling, but when it comes to the end, i lose it. i mean there's nothing...i don't feel anything. i haven't had a real orgasm. what is wrong with me?
2007-01-13 03:21:51 · 18 answers · asked by Gel G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tWomen who have not yet had an orgasm usually have some combination of the following:
Sociocultural inhibitions that interfere with normal sexual response.
Unresolved feelings towards a traumatic sexual experience as in sexual abuse or rape.
A lack of knowledge about sex and sexuality, which interferes with normal sexual development.
A lack of opportunity to practice in a safe, secure, socially acceptable, and private atmosphere (alone or in a relationship) in a situation that offers approval and support.
A partner who has primary or secondary difficulty in achieving an erection.
Dyspareunia, or painful intercourse.
Genital mutilation ("female circumcision") that removes part or all of the clitoris, scars the genital area, or constricts the opening to the vagina. Often, vaginal intercourse is painful not only because of scarring from this procedure but also because of associated infection.
& if not you might have Anorgasmia.
For more information go here: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anorgasmia
Also I suggest you should consult your doctor to see if there is something wrong or not,and if so he can probably help you.
Good Luck!
2007-01-13 03:26:05 · answer #1 · answered by Jeremy 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
There is nothing wrong with you. You just haven't found the right guy who will give you an orgasm. I too had my share of sex, and until last year, I NEVER had an orgasm during sex. But then I met my boyfriend. And he knows exactly what gets females off. All you have to do is find that one guy. The one who will get you off.
2007-01-13 03:28:42 · answer #2 · answered by Britney 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I probley had sex 100 times before I had an orgasm. You got to have some love for the guy for you to have one of those mind blowing orgasms and their are certain areas of your body that need to have some action for it to happen in the first place and regular missonary will not trigger these areas. One is the clitoris it is right above you urethra, (get you a vibrator and keep it on that area you will be amazed, and you will know exactly where it is that you need to get rubbed during intercourse.) Another area is in the vagina (it's harder to find) this is the one that you will erupt massive amounts of clear liquid, it is close to the bladder area so have him left your legs while intercourse is going on and have him go up toward your bladder. You will know if he hits it. It is called the G spot. God Luck hope this helps
2007-01-13 03:38:00 · answer #3 · answered by ?Sherbear ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe there is nothing wrong with you, it might just be that the guy's aren't very good or you are just not compatible in bed. I was in the same situation for about two years then I met the guy I'm with now and its amazing, I never thought I would experience an orgasm, but now they just keep coming (excuse the pun).
2007-01-13 03:38:14 · answer #4 · answered by nuttynat_69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably nothing 'wrong' with you . You just may not have found the right lover who is on the same frequency as you.... have your doctor check you for any physical problems and then try to not focus on the end and just enjoy the journey...there are also some great books on sexuality you could read to see if anything applies to you and your responses.
2007-01-13 03:29:38 · answer #5 · answered by sw-in-gardener 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well a woman needs a lot of foreplay.....our bodys are made different so it takes more for us to feel good......i suggest maybe doing 69......to get to that exact point you know you feel it....that is a good orgasm.....or some can be touched right to the point where the feel it coming and have him insert then and only then.....so you both get the enjoyment, but tell him not to stop feeling your clotoris ( i am not sure how its spelled)
2007-01-13 03:30:00 · answer #6 · answered by Ana P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing Hon. Some women don't get that many orgasms. I find that the closeness and caring of my guy during sex is satisfying to me and the fact that he is satisfied makes me satisfied. It's part of what being a woman is all about and one of the parts I love the most.:)
2007-01-13 03:28:30 · answer #7 · answered by Tori M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with you. Tell your partner what you like and what works for you. Some women will not orgasm without clitoral stimulation. I hope this helps.
2007-01-13 03:29:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you. This happens to a lot of women. Enjoy the foreplay.
2007-01-13 03:27:05 · answer #9 · answered by blue2blnde 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It might be cause of your partner r that your nervous and you lose consentration..If you never had and orgasm how do you know it was at the end??...mite of been at the peak and you just stopped before it happend!!...Some orgasms are more explosive than others too!!!..Just practice on yourself first and you will know!!!
2007-01-13 03:33:27 · answer #10 · answered by confused69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋