Singles & Dating - 13 January 2007

As a sophomore in highschool, still working on defining myself, I find it hard to express how I feel and just be who I am. I am self-conscious, shy, and hard on myself. Truly I am enthusiastic, caring, and funny, but I come off as an ackward, stupid little girl. This tendency has only caused trouble for me. My crush has only seen this fake side of me and so is not interested at all. I do not have many friends and find it difficult to open up.
Another factor is my voice. I cannot talk very loud compared to other people. My voice cracks and it sounds much higher and sweeter than I mean it to be. How does one improve one`s speaking voice?
Any help on these problems would be greatly appreciated.

2007-01-13 01:21:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

to begin with my bf and i live in different countries... we've been together for almost a yr and a half and i honestly love him more than anything.

lately...i'm so frustrated and upset with him about some of the things he does and doesn't do. i don't want to say anything to him because i don't want to stress him about what is bothering me or piss him off because it might be something we have already talked about. which doesn't do any good because now i just argue with him about every little thing that happens.. and then end up bringing up old stuff that doesn't really matter but does..

the other thing is... we've been talking about him coming to live with me. sometimes i don't think he's trying as much as he could. like i know he is to a point, it's just at the same time he's not. *sighs* i really don't know... :- /

any suggestions or advice ?

2007-01-13 01:19:28 · 3 answers · asked by pnlk123 1

Our relationship was 4 yrs old when i found out my bf was into cyber sex.I had a suspicion and i told him i would ignore whatever had happened for the sake of our love & that it must stop.There were absolutely no questions asked.6 months later i found out he was still into it.This time i confronted him,and told him it was over because he risked all that we had,for some unreal fantasy. Real or not,it was cheating. He broke my trust,he admits to it,but he says "it didnt mean anything". We were so much in love,and both of us think we had everything.Why would he then risk our relationship when we were so happy together? He says he knows i cant forgive him and he's sorry for the pain he has caused me,but he really loves me.I dont know whether this was another version of cheap porn for him,but i feel cheated.I love him a lot,he's always on my mind,but i dont know if i'll be able to regain my trust in him.Should i give him another chance? Should i take him back?

2007-01-13 01:19:10 · 5 answers · asked by tina 2

2007-01-13 01:16:13 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

there's this guy at school, that knows me but not that well. And i kinda like him but he is a popular and has many better choices than me. But everytime i walk passed him he looks at me like he likes me or something. which is just weird.

2007-01-13 01:15:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I can't find my first love, i have done everything been every where, we live in different states, i know the address, but no phone number, the number seems to be unlisted or they don't have a home phone. The house phone won't be in his name i can assure that. Im lost, i feel like giving up, but i know that i need to find him if anything to get closure i have been looking for 2 years, and just found his address, what do i do. some one lead me to the right direction!!!

2007-01-13 01:14:58 · 3 answers · asked by hatethislove1121 1

Question for the Women of the world

2007-01-13 01:14:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 13 years old and around 2 months ago my boyfriend dumped me. I was heartbroken and didn't get over it for a while. Then he went out with one of my mates but she has recently dumped him. He's now single and I still really like him. problem is, he probably doesn't like me (coz he dumped me). I know youre not meant to go back to the boy who broke your heart but everyone deserves a second chance dont they? I really really like him but i dont know what to do! Please help! Thanks x

2007-01-13 01:12:01 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

sometime ago, her sister got married, and in the wedding, we joke a lot about the two of us doing the same, but beside the jokes, for sometime already it seems to have something going on between us
my mother says sometimes that she(my cousin) seems to likes me and all...but it think she says it thinking that i won't go out with her...
her mother has said somethings like that too

I like her, i’m not just fooling around, i really would like to date her
should i ask her out? You guys think the family will complain about it??

2007-01-13 01:10:45 · 8 answers · asked by gattsoul 2

See, I'v been talking, and hanging around a girl I like for about a week now, should I ask her out, or should I wait a little longer?

2007-01-13 01:09:20 · 13 answers · asked by buckfever_13 1

0 being way the hell off track and uncertain how to get back on track right up to ten being "in the zone"!

2007-01-13 01:08:30 · 14 answers · asked by lowroad 2

like anything & everything goes?

2007-01-13 01:03:57 · 5 answers · asked by n&ph fetish (male) 3

Okay, my dilemma is, basically:

Recently a girl my boyfriend's brother knows has developed an interest in my boyfriend, who I've been with over a year.
He's breached my trust before, but it was a situation where he had no control. But I am still concerned.

This girl calls him every day now, telling him he is "the most amazing person." She knows I'm the girlfriend.

He tells me about it like it's irritating, but his tone tells me otherwise; it's like: a "I kinda hope this makes you jealous" voice. He has a way to seem innocent in every situation, so I'm never completely sure.

I havn't interferred or confronted him about it, because maybe he IS innocent. I just don't know. I don't want to pry, but I dont want him to think he can get away with leading people on either.

Advice please?

2007-01-13 01:03:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

her name bridgett i. hoggs and she is a 16 teen yesr old felmale
that think that she is the **** but she is not the ****. what should i do .

2007-01-13 01:01:51 · 12 answers · asked by craig c 1

I was talking to a coworker who went out and had a good time. He then mentioned taking his niece out when I mentioned going out dancing. Is she damaged goods or why did he offer his niece of all people?

2007-01-13 01:00:37 · 9 answers · asked by reme14u 1

The last time we went out it was great!! She knew i liked her cos i used to work with her mate, whome i told this to. The night we went out she asked me direct,so i reluctantly told her i was interested. She carried the conversation for almost 45mins..then told me she couldnt do anything cos she had a boyfreind travelling in Australia!!ggrrrr
I havnt spoken to her for ages, then outta the blue she txt me happy xmas, and has been reguarly txtin me and leaving messages on myspace.
I'll be seeing her in a couple of weeks at a birthday doo, what should i do?
I dont wanna make myself look stupid, and im not gonna be played!! Am i reading the signels wrong or is she just a nice girl trying to be freindly?!
Women hey!!!!

2007-01-13 00:58:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Anything at all,personality,looks,way they dress,colour hair etc.

2007-01-13 00:58:28 · 21 answers · asked by Bridgeridoo 5

what is real love acually

2007-01-13 00:57:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

The other way to ask would be who has a more fulfilling life: Men or Women? I am not talking about sex because it is a proven fact that females can have multiple orgasms.

2007-01-13 00:57:01 · 1 answers · asked by monysingh 2

What can I do to get my boyfriend hot, WITHOUT grabbing his dick, stripping, or dressing like a total slut?

I havent seen him in three weeks and I really miss him and I want to do something to get him hot to make up for the time when we didnt get to see eachother.

So what can I do to get my boyfriend hot, WITHOUT grabbing his dick, stripping, or dressing like a total slut?

2007-01-13 00:53:00 · 7 answers · asked by xhellsxlilxangelx 1

2007-01-13 00:52:02 · 8 answers · asked by roger k 1

ok I'm 15....THis girl is really pretty...and I wanna get to know her better...but...I've never even talked to her before.....like only for 5 minutes....and thats it...but..I think she's "talking" to someone..........but all her friends say I have a chance........that they heard her talkin good about me to her bestfriend....now....I wanna ask her best friend, if I have a shot, cuz she would know, and I just dont wanna come outa the blue, and ask the girl...and..i wanna get her email adreessss also, ...like I said..ive never talked to her..so I need some good advice...and shes popular..and so am I, and not tryin to be cocky, but I'm good lookin...i just need soem good advice......oh yeah ..im 15..shes 13.....and Im focusing on my studies as well..so ..yeah..

2007-01-13 00:51:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm one of the prettiest girls in school people say but i sent him a note that i liked him and he took a long time to say he's not really intrested in a relationship w/ anyone right now.
he's NOT gay...he an this girl have been hanging around echother alll year but she holds hands with other boys and their BOTH still single.

do i have a chance w/ him again...he's staring at me alot in class...he's just a bit more popular than me.......

2007-01-13 00:49:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Guys can you recall some of the things we women/ your woman says frequently, constantly, or that we are well known to say?

One of them is: "Does my bum look big in this?" even if it dosent.
Can you think of any.... the more unusual the better...just for a bit of fun.

2007-01-13 00:44:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

well crushes Are called affaris from the heart and today i am going to tell you about my crush

MY Crush
i have a crush on her and now i think she has one on me cause one day she asked me for a candy cane,then one day when i was on the bus waiting to leave school are eyes meet for a couple sec,then the next day she looks i look back,she looks i look back

DO U THINK SHE LIKES ME ?????

2007-01-13 00:43:41 · 4 answers · asked by Sammyo 2

I fancy a hot boi at my church my i dnt no how 2 get him!!!!

2007-01-13 00:42:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

he still says he loves me
how do i find out if he likes this one girl and isent lying to me
what do i say to him?

2007-01-13 00:42:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Guys, when you see a girl for the first time, what catches your eye the most. Once you get to know her, what are you attracted to most? Do guys only like cute girls?!?

2007-01-13 00:39:12 · 17 answers · asked by layna 1

old school sweet heart know where she lives ( the city) can i find a email???

2007-01-13 00:39:06 · 6 answers · asked by darkmurkywinter 1

I cant choose between 2 guys. Person A i've been dating for a month. We have extremely matching personalities and get along very well. However he is willing to lie to protect people, does not behave in a gentlemanly manner at all, is sleazier than person B and is not very good looking.
Person B - when i saw him i felt all funny and nervous inside and couldnt talk to him properly coz he was so hot. He's extremely gentlemanly and polite to the extent that i find rare in guys today. He is also romantic in a way you only see in movies. He is a very nice person. My parents would approve of him. The only downside is that my personality doesnt match as well. Im worried our conversations will run dry. Which should i choose?

2007-01-13 00:39:06 · 16 answers · asked by ♥Lil miss gorgeous 2