The last time we went out it was great!! She knew i liked her cos i used to work with her mate, whome i told this to. The night we went out she asked me direct,so i reluctantly told her i was interested. She carried the conversation for almost 45mins..then told me she couldnt do anything cos she had a boyfreind travelling in Australia!!ggrrrr
I havnt spoken to her for ages, then outta the blue she txt me happy xmas, and has been reguarly txtin me and leaving messages on myspace.
I'll be seeing her in a couple of weeks at a birthday doo, what should i do?
I dont wanna make myself look stupid, and im not gonna be played!! Am i reading the signels wrong or is she just a nice girl trying to be freindly?!
Women hey!!!!
2007-01-13 00:58:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
May be she is interested in u or may be she just wanna be friends with u it could be anything so plez dont approch her again and make a fool of urself.. just wait and watch
2007-01-13 01:02:55 · answer #1 · answered by vandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is just like soooo common.
nice looking girl in a relationship meets new bloke and finds him
fascinating and desirable. If she wasn't you'd probably be in business. Personally i wouldn't play second fiddle to anyone.
she either wants u more than him or not, if u see what i mean.
as she is in a relationship, she might be thinking about a change tho so it's not all doom and gloom.
she might be wanting u to prove that a change would be good for her!! she might want her cake and a nibble at u too!!
the only way u can find out what she wants is by talking to her.
she might even test the water herself!!?
u might have to settle 4 being just a friend for now and play a patient waiting game. r u feeling patient? is she worth waiting for?
if the answer is yes to either or both then somewhere amongst that u probably have ur answer!!
good luck
and if u really are made for each other, i hope u both get what u want!!
2007-01-13 01:10:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well find out if she is still with the guy?
Im a flirty person in general and I have a boyfriend. He used to get so pissed off at me cause he thought I was a) cheating on him or b) ignoring him and flirting with every guy I knew. But than my friend Brittany saw him giving all the guys dirtly looks and being mad at me and she explined Im just a flirty kinda person.
She might be te same way. Find out if shes still with the guy adn if not make a move.
2007-01-13 01:03:36 · answer #3 · answered by xhellsxlilxangelx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is interested in getting to know you again. She probably got tired of the long distance thing with the other dude.
I would just play it sort of neutral. Don't act overly interested. But be polite and cordial and see how far "she goes" to pursue you. That way you'll know! Plus you will not have made an *** out of yourself. I would wait and see if she seeks you out at this party. Don't go running to her.Then go from there.
2007-01-13 02:11:08 · answer #4 · answered by sweetkysmile 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to her and find out if she still has a boyfriend. The way I see it, is you wont get played. If u express u like her she seems like a nice girl to not hurt ur feelings. Its better to express ur feelings then not to. Also if she has a boyfriend are says she isnt interested in u that way...move on good luck
2007-01-13 01:06:22 · answer #5 · answered by Hi my name is... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep, women!! you guys KNOW you cant live without us!!! ;) i would agree with xhellsxli, you really must find out if she`s still with the travelling guy. but even if she`s not, beware the whole rebound thing. if she`s recently split with him, she could just be texting you because she knows you like her and this will give her a much needed self esteem boost, but probably wont do much for you. play it very cool, with simple friendly replies to her messages, but NO advances, and see what happens. good luck! x
2007-01-13 01:13:39 · answer #6 · answered by splee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be a sucka! she is playing you hard. She knows yuour interested and she is TEASING YOU! it is what women do. Seriously, do NOT act interested. Do NOT fall into the trap. She is just gonna pull the same crap over and over again. I have seen it hundreds of times.
2007-01-13 01:03:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never know til you try.
What have you got to lose(pride, dignity, self respect, the respect of your peers...)
If you think she's worth it, give it a go. If you don't, you're certain to get nothing.
2007-01-13 01:03:18 · answer #8 · answered by Autolupus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*sigh*. She's just being friendly. If she like's u, she'd start a rumour or sth. But th ebest way is still to ask her, just dont make it so random.
2007-01-13 01:39:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself okay thats alll there is to it and DONT take the very first advice hes wrong never do that and + wat if she did like u and then u committed suacide dont shell really miss ya <3<3
2007-01-13 01:10:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋