Guys, when you see a girl for the first time, what catches your eye the most. Once you get to know her, what are you attracted to most? Do guys only like cute girls?!?
2007-01-13 00:39:12 · 17 answers · asked by layna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know how to say this but the most important factor in choosing a girlfriend is...how willing will she be to have sex with me. Lame answer, I know. But I am being honest.
2007-01-13 00:43:08 · answer #1 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Layne for me it is attraction first. Eye contact is important, followed with a welcoming smile for my approach. After we have gotten acquainted and have memorized each others names (touch wood) I look for conversations skills. I try to find a topic that we can both talk about. While we are talking I will scan her face. I will look to see what colour her eyes are, what colour lipstick she prefers, how she dresses. All this can tell a lot about an individual.Yes I also scan the obvious. Neck, boobs, stomach,back, But, legs and toes. I try to get the whole picture. After I have done this
I can more or less tell what kind of personality she is. Out door, active,indoor, moody, Conservative, loud or lazy. All this can be read by her posture and personal dress style. I listen to her voice, is she well spoken average or uneducated? If a women cannot hold a conversation I am not interested. She must have a few useful brainwaves to keep the mood a live. Remember a women does not have to be a bomb shell to attract me, but I must be attracted to her. She must catch my eye. Remember just be yourself and carry yourself how you want to. The right guy is out there.
Good Luck
2007-01-13 09:03:54 · answer #2 · answered by george 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Imagination is the number one killer in Males.
You cannot imagine what you may not have felt before or perhaps you think it will be different and then you find out it's not afterwards.
What a Male looks at is what he perceives to imagine as to what he has done epxerienced already and the thought has no energy in it.
Only the physical portion carries energy.
So a lovely thought can lead to a huge misunderstanding because the Male refuses to see anything else except what he perceives it to be.
This is the number one down fall amongst males when looking at girls, ladies women what ever you want to call it...it destorys them.
The best way for any Male is to ackowledge in their brain that what you see is not actually what you will get.
I don't mean that in a sexual way.
I am saying that what you see is lovely lets say, and you know what that can lead too, but it will not be as you perceive it to be because you will not let it get to your SOUL;Therefore, you can only imagine what maybe,and endup with it not being what you anticipated and it leads to Males lusting forever and ever and ever upon a female about somehting they want so bad,, but have no idea that it literally destroys them.
They will always look upon beauty in a woman that has made them lose their minds...its almost evil in a sense and trust me on this it gets dangerous and for some males in such desperation it leads to rape and if you have drugs and alcohol involved, it enhances this upon the male and all hell breaks loose.
It's not just a piece of asss that he's after, its an imagination that cannot be conquored and drive him literally insane every time he's see's a beautiful lady. He can't help it. They must control themselves and be respectful to her .
Gay Men have been found to not have this imagination as much as homosapians and that is becasue they don't look upon females for anything other than who they are as a person. That's the winning key.
So do not look at girls or women as objects is the complete answer to your question.
2007-01-13 08:58:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'll be honest with you. When i see a girl for the first time, her face catches my eyes then most. Then her body. Once i get to know her, her heart attracts me the most. Being cute doesn't hurt either. ;-)
2007-01-13 08:47:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The way they walk and talk. Personally I melt when a girl speaks clearly with a smile and is interested in what I may have to say. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. When I was in grade school, high school cuteness was a requirement. In college my views changed. There were many intresting smart bright-eyed girls.
2007-01-13 08:59:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, I look Straight into her eyes. I feel that some women have the most beautiful eyes and that it would be all I need just to be able to gaze into them. Then I look at the rest of her face. I'm not too judgemental on the body figure. I think later on in life men just like the person for who they are, not what they still look like!
2007-01-13 08:46:51 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. FFA 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For me...
Initial attraction: legs (long, muscular or thin), tight butt, cute smile.
Long-term attraction: attitude, intelligence, confidence.
Cute is in the eye of the beholder.
2007-01-13 09:04:27 · answer #7 · answered by Ketel One Up 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm attracted to her:
1.Nice smell(important)
2.Beutiful smile(important)
3.Shiney hair(important)
4.Long legs(not really important)
5.Bust size(important)
6.Waist line(important)
7.Butt size(important)
8.Breath(important)
9.White teeth(less important but needed)
10.Posture(important)
11.Beautiful eyes(important)
2007-01-13 08:49:26 · answer #8 · answered by Scribbles 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Personality, smells, eyes, smile.
2007-01-13 08:44:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok im not gonna lie.....i like booty lol but its normal for an 8th grader ..... personality is an important part too coz i dont to go out w/ a slut..so yeh appearance and personality
2007-01-13 08:44:47 · answer #10 · answered by sergman4 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋