Singles & Dating - 13 January 2007

well idk if he likes me back. We were really close last year but then he went to high school and idk if he forgot about me or not. I never see him anymore and i can't get his phone number. We hung out a lot last year and i thought we were really close. We talked and hugged and flirted big time! So girls and guys help me out!!!!

2007-01-13 02:50:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's this guy I like. He likes me, too. We're both in relationships and both unhappy, except we care for the people we're with.

I've been through more than enough hard times with my present boyfriend (cheating, lying, possessiveness..the list goes on). I love him, but I don't think I deserve this. I'm not even allowed to have friends without problems arising.

The thing is...I don't know if this guy (who likes me) is serious. I don't date that much (I've only been in two relationships) I don't want to jump into another relationship but I don't want to be his jump-off either (someone he calls when he needs some). He seems genuine, but who knows?

My bf & I have agreed that this isn't working, we've tried to fix things, but it never works. I don't want to give up on him, but it's taking a toll on me, btw, we've been together for about 2 yrs.

Anyways, I 'm really confused. I haven't had any "freedom" for a long time & he won't change (he's a traditionalist).What should I do

2007-01-13 02:50:09 · 7 answers · asked by p00mkin 2

This is a long story. First of all is her home life. Her Mother has been married several times and all of her kids have different There are 6 kids. Mom has been in jail many times. On drugs and is an alcoholic cusses like a drunk sailor.This girl has two uncles in prison, her Father is in prison.Her sisters have children and not married.Her brother has gotten several girls pregnant and not taken care of the babies.This girl has been on Meth, Pot, LSD, and any thing she can get ahold of. She is not pregnant so my Nephue doesn't have to maarry her. He wants to give her a stable home live. She has never been to church. I and my Step-sister are afraid that with her home life she won't make a very good wife. She is very loyal to her family. even the uncle who is in prison for raping her when she was little.Whew! I know this sounds like a soap opera. But it is real life.I could like this girl if she would clean up her filthy mouth and dress like a lady instead of a hooker.

2007-01-13 02:45:09 · 12 answers · asked by Pamela V 7

apprently my girlfriend cheated on me some time ago, she denies everything, has always been trustworthy and i believe her when she says she hasn't, so why do i doubt her? and find myself losing trust in her?

2007-01-13 02:42:40 · 23 answers · asked by jimbob 1

I should ask a guy who always looks at me then looks at something else then looks at me, ect

2007-01-13 02:41:43 · 5 answers · asked by Green With Envy 2

ok, before all you broads start attacking me, they KNOW about each other, so I'm not a dog or a cheater.

But, they hate each other.

I'm trying to get them to like each other so I can bring them together and hang out with them at the same time. One of them is sort of cool with the idea, but the other one is absolutely not having it.

How can I get them to be cool??

2007-01-13 02:40:34 · 17 answers · asked by The Don 1

See i have a stripper pole in my room. n one day my parent werent home so i called my bf so i can do some stripper stuff for him. Well he came over n told me if i can put a blind fold on n strip for him. So i di. So i was on my pole with the blind fold. He was yelling o yeah baby! Since i couldnt see he brought his bro with him in put him on my bed. THen he like come give me a kiss im on ur bed. So i did. I strated to put my legs around him n all that. i still had clothes. while i was doing that my boyfriend was laughing. Then hes like yo baby take the blind fold of. So i did n i found the the nerd was on top of me n that he had also tied me to my bed. Then they grabed my lipstick n drew all over me. But the thing is i made out with a nerd n every nows it. What should i do.

2007-01-13 02:39:47 · 15 answers · asked by LIza L 1

2007-01-13 02:39:20 · 5 answers · asked by lowroad 2

this guy name jimmy he is awsome but he is sort of a tease but that doesnt change how i feel about him i love it when he flirts wit me but he has a gurl and he is not a player he just flirts wit other girls but mainly me i want to ask him out but i dont know if he likes me

2007-01-13 02:36:29 · 19 answers · asked by Yo-Yo 2

Im getting one today and i dont know what they do.
DO NOT MISTAKE ME AS STUPID PLEASE !

2007-01-13 02:36:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-13 02:33:14 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know this girl, R last year back in march in my college. We were in the same intake. She was a bright student back in high school, proven by the straight As she has obtained in major examinations. Till college, her passion for her education has not fade. R is hardworking, a top student in the college, friendly and pretty of course. She’s my type of girl as we share a lot of things in common. music, food, style, the way we thinks so much that it scares me at timed. Through all this years, I have never met anyone like her before. chicks aren't rare here, so at first I thought I had a normal infatuation towards her, which seems to be normal for a guy towards such girl with such 'quality'. As time flies, the feeling I had for grown deeper and more serious. I have thought about telling her, but the problem is, she already has a bf. A bf that from me and my friends’ p.o.v, is a terrible bf. He flirts with lots girls (that made him rather notorious back in high school) and rarely brings her out. He could even tell her that he flirted with other girls. Knowing that only gives me more courage to tell her how I really feel about her. She takes me as her good friend, but at times, I feel as if she’s giving me hints. Yea, that’s even more tempting. Why wouldn’t I confess to her since everything is on my side? Cause I don’t want to risk our friendship for the sake of this risky confession. If I was being misunderstanding all the time and confess, she might be afraid of me and stay away from me. That, will only breaks my heart into thousands of millions pieces.
The whole college knows that we are good friends and some people even think that we are a couple. I admit that the misunderstanding that we are a couple can give me a twinge of joy at times. Her bf even has dissatisfaction towards me for being so close to his gf. Though we are just good friends, but what we does at times certainly look more intimate. Things those are too close for friends to do and not so far for lovers to do (in our young Chinese educated penangite community (ycepc))(#no hugging, kissing) But then, she remains protective most of the times. (She even rejected my invitation to go for a dinner at night during her birthday). Friends have been asking so much if we are only friends and we have even grown tired declining.
I am an average student, unlike her, she strives to be the best, and I strive to be average. That’s one gap which I feel is the hardest to narrow it. The beauty and the beast type of relationship is something that we (ycepc) thinks it’s hardly gonna happen, though it’s possible. Mostly, it’s the 2 good-looking opposite sex friends that creates the rumors and speculations. I have gotten use with the gap I have with her now, so is she. That’s how we are so close together.. as friends.
She applied to a university in Hong Kong which her parents claimed that it’s the best for her as it’s not as far and as expensive as those in UK or US. The news hit me with a thought of not having her beside me in the future, which then trigger a terrible depressing sorrow within me. That in turns gives me more courage to confess, as I heard in movies of how they define stupidity as “loving someone so much but do not dare to tell them how you really feel about them.” So right now, I am turning for more help and advice in any possible ways. Should I tell her or should I forget her? And I just CAN’T afford having to put our friendship in risk. Our friendship is one of the last things I want to gamble with.

2007-01-13 02:32:34 · 23 answers · asked by Aaron A 3

how do you get a boy to love you

2007-01-13 02:31:11 · 21 answers · asked by imagtilltheend 1

First I want to say that I am here with my friend (on her answers, because I don't have my own and haven't actually had any use for it up until now), but I want to know what I need to do.

Secondly, before I begin, I am not looking for someone to feel sorry for me or confirm any thoughts I may have.

Okay, I am engaged. I love this person more than anything in the universe. I want to marry him so much, and I am 150% sure that he does love (reguardless of some of the answers I'm going to get).

But last night, we had an argument. He lied about something. He didn't do anything terrible, but the fact that he lied is what sparked it all. I mean, trust is important, right?

Things progressed to the point where I was pushed, thrown, bit, kicked, threatened, smacked, etc. all because I demanded an explaination. I was absolutely horror struck....I couldn't even believe that something like THAT (that he did) could make him so mad. Today, I'm so sore.

I'm writing more..

2007-01-13 02:30:37 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

at a bar last night, got too buzzed, + started bein a dick to this girl. to my surprise, she got fed up, and kneed me. she gave me all the warnings, but you only see what you want to see sometimes . . .

it was the first time it ever happened to me, and it was the worst. instinctively i ended up on the floor, and of course it took me a while to get back up. the whole time, i had to listen to her freinds tell her how good a shot it was and how much i deserved it. so it sucked.

but it was almost like a religious experience too. here was this girl, just 5'2"ish, and i'm destroyed. i kind of felt like i did deserve it for underestimating her powers, and felt like wow, i;d be wise to never make such an underestimation again. and getting kicked in the nuts isn't like getting kicked in the knee - i felt like she exercized the power of a goddess. it seems insane, but i feel like i had a bad acid trip that opened my eyes to some unpleasant things that stillneed to be seen.

So whats it like for the girl doing the kicking? To me, it seemed like more pride/ amusement with my predicament. And its kind of sad, because it was a huge life experience for me,

2007-01-13 02:30:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok well me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years on and off. we got back together recently because he moved back to ny. it hasnt been going that well. i think hes cheating one me lol but idk hes weird. he start going to church like da hypocrite he is and made a friend there. a girl. so he has a phone thats under my name so ive been trackin his calls and everythin even checked his voicemail. well she apparently calls him a lot he be on da phone wit her a lot for like 30 or more mins and idk if all about god that they are talkin about. ima quote her last voicemail from yesterday, "hey babe its _____ just calling to c how u doing i get out of school at 5 so yea call me i miss you." now does dat sound like a friendship idk. honestly he doesnt even spend 2 mins on da phone with me n hardly sees me so i wonder. ive said enough before new years but im not really stressin it now i just want to kno if i should leave him or not. i love him but im startin to doubt his love.

2007-01-13 02:29:54 · 26 answers · asked by liz 1

Last week i told a guy friend of mine at work that it would be better that we didn't talk so i can get over my crush on him since he's in a long distance relationship with another girl, as a matter of fact, she's in the Phillipines and he's here in the US. Before this happened, we joked around about hooking up, but then i felt bad and hurt about us joking about it. I told him that i really wanted to do it since i like him, but he has a gf and that it wouldn't be wise if we did it. Anyway, i got angry with him since he didn't respond back to me after I texted him Happy New Year's and I ended up sending him another text calling him a "dog" and that i didn't want to have anything to do with him, then later i apologized via text. Then the next day , I wrote him a letter telling him how i felt hurt about us joking around, and the fact we just treat each other as professionals. He's ignoring me, no hello, excuse me, thank you, nada. The thing is I feel really hurt.

2007-01-13 02:28:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

relationships and love and finding the right person

2007-01-13 02:26:46 · 12 answers · asked by meme 1

There's this girl who flirts with basically anyone she see's... we two were together for a while and she said she would date me and got me so emotionally linked that when she left I couldn't even get my life back together until trying very hard...

How can I forget her, I see her everyday in school and she still talks to me and still shows some interest but we never go out and I sometimes call her cause it just lifts up my spirits...

Yeah, saying that it looks like i'm seriously obsessed.... but what are some ways to get my life back together other then transferring?

2007-01-13 02:26:34 · 3 answers · asked by silvs 5

ok i have a gf and she says she loves me but i dont any more. so i meet a new girl me and me and her have more in commom then with my gf now but i lost i don't know what to do i feel that i like the new girl more then my gf but i cant just dump my gf for a girl i meet right now I AM NOT SAYING NAMES

2007-01-13 02:25:39 · 2 answers · asked by JEFF HARDY #1 FAN 3

met ths guy around 5 months bak...professionally lot of difference between us...he'sa DJ n im doin my postgraduation.
but i hv got a crush on him & confronted him as well...
he jst disappears at times...v r not in touch with each other constantly..
according to him "im an amazing person but likes me only as friend....he dosent knw if later it develops into anything later..."
i ges he thinks im immature..
sumtimes he mentions tat he misses his ex gf with whom he broke up around 6-7 months bak,im not jealous but feel sorry for him....
what is he upto???

2007-01-13 02:24:21 · 11 answers · asked by bhaktie 2

ok i have a gf and she says she loves me but i don any more. so i meet a new girl me and her have more in commom then with my gf now but i lost i don't know what to do i feel that i like the new girl more then my gf but i cant just dump my gf for a girl i meet right now I AM NOT SAYING NAMES

2007-01-13 02:23:50 · 1 answers · asked by JEFF HARDY #1 FAN 3

I just got all dressed up for my fiance...stockings, suspenders, push up bra.....the works and told him i had a present for him. He came half way up the stairs, smiled at me, said "very nice" (in a good way) and then went back downstairs to half play on the computer and half watch top gear!!

Why is this and should I kick him in the balls for hurting my feelings??

2007-01-13 02:23:47 · 27 answers · asked by dnbgrrly 2

I asked this girl out yesterday for coffee and she said she'd love to. But today said she had a problem and that there was actually someone else.

Her best friend said she's been waiting over 2 months for me to ask her out, (only reason i didnt cos i never saw her - second i did i asked)

She just started dating someone like 3 days ago. And she even said if i had asked a week ago she would have said yes.

What should i do?

Im really interested in her, and know that she does have feelings for me.

Do i tell her im still interested and ask if she would feel awkward if i still pursued her? I got the impression she was considering me yesterday, seeing she said yes to meeting up.

I dont want to wait for possible breakup, but i dont want to make her awkward. Would showing her that i do really care about her, by still flirting be good or bad.

I know she has made a decision, but i know it will hurt if i dont do something. Should i invite her out again, but as friends?

2007-01-13 02:23:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-13 02:21:20 · 25 answers · asked by The Lonely Skywolf 3

2007-01-13 02:21:04 · 8 answers · asked by rick t 1

I'm not from the US but would like to know opinions from Americans about the age difference in my relationship. In my culture, age difference is not important for a relationship. In fact, older men are usually preferred over younger men. I'm 33 and average looking but girls believe I have a nice personality and qualities. I have many 18 to 20 year old girls who would like to be my girlfriends. However, I'm totally devoted to my current girlfriend who's 18. I feel she's the most wonderful sweet little princess in the universe and she has similar feelings toward me. She says none of her previous boyfriends even comes close to me. We will probably marry when she finishes college. You are free to criticize my relationship or to offer your support. Please just be sincere and tell me what you really think. American guys and girls are welcome to comment freely. Thanks.

2007-01-13 02:19:59 · 17 answers · asked by reuben 1

I've been by myself, at home and miserable for so long.
But I'm totally ready to get back on the horse. All I want to do is go out, have a few drinks, dance like a loony and have some fun.
What can't I find anyone to do that with???? Aaaaaaaargh!

2007-01-13 02:18:04 · 10 answers · asked by Funky Little Spacegirl 6

She broke up with him. But now I think she likes him again. She knows I like him but I don't know if its wrong or not. My other best friend also likes him. He's very sweet and flirts with all of the girls, so you can never really tell who he likes.

2007-01-13 02:17:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

hi im 14:] okay so i had this boyfriend we went out for 8 months and he waited 3 months to ask for sex and at first when i would say no he would respect it, but then 2 months later he would get reallllly mad if i said no. sometimes he would just touch me and try to get my clothes off..and one time during sex i said okay, lets stop and he didnt stop until i started crying. well he went to juvie..for trying to kill his mom so i broke up with him and now im going to start dating this guy, tyler. me n him have gone out twice before and weve known each other for 2 years, well hes 16 and he is like heyy we should have sex :] but hes nice and if i say no, we wont. does he just want in my pants? did my old boyfriend just want in my pants or did he really love me?

2007-01-13 02:17:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous