hi im 14:] okay so i had this boyfriend we went out for 8 months and he waited 3 months to ask for sex and at first when i would say no he would respect it, but then 2 months later he would get reallllly mad if i said no. sometimes he would just touch me and try to get my clothes off..and one time during sex i said okay, lets stop and he didnt stop until i started crying. well he went to juvie..for trying to kill his mom so i broke up with him and now im going to start dating this guy, tyler. me n him have gone out twice before and weve known each other for 2 years, well hes 16 and he is like heyy we should have sex :] but hes nice and if i say no, we wont. does he just want in my pants? did my old boyfriend just want in my pants or did he really love me?
2007-01-13 02:17:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop wasting your time
2007-01-13 02:26:07 · answer #1 · answered by MK <>< 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're 14? You should respect yourself a bit more and only have sex later on in your life when you are 100% in love. That guy obviously didn't love you, I'm sorry but he sounds like a reprobate. I would advise you to at least wait two years until your 16. Your new bf sounds better, but don't do anything you don't want to.
2007-01-13 02:23:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not even be thinking about sex yet, you are only 14 yrs old and it is against the law to have underage sex and the boys you are having sex with could be prosecuted and go to prison also you could get yourself a bad reputation and I'm sure you don't want that !!
2007-01-16 12:34:33 · answer #3 · answered by Sierra One 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think ur old bf respected u at 1st n must of cared about u but coz of wot u say bout his mum i think e turns 2 violence to get his own way hun ur so much betta than these guys dnt let them use u 4 sex. ur new bf if e respects u then tell him u will wen the time is rite dnt b used ur special u want some want who respects u not 2 use u
2007-01-13 04:14:50 · answer #4 · answered by jedka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly 14 is too young for you to have sex, secondly every bloke on the planet only wants sex untill they get older. Then after 18 or 19, they want a relationship AND sex! So the answer to your question is yes. And tell this perv to find someone his own age....
2007-01-13 03:26:47 · answer #5 · answered by T M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think your old boyfriend wanted to get in your pants. But this new one, I think it's more special than the one before him. Try to get some love in the whole relationship.
2007-01-13 02:25:22 · answer #6 · answered by another_angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
14 year old boys just want to stick their fingers in places they know they shouldn't well actually it's 14 and up lol. and being so young a reputation could be out that you are easy. You know your not but guys see NOT VIRGIN flashing in red. Make them wait it out if he is true he has no problem with waiting.
2007-01-13 02:23:19 · answer #7 · answered by chrystalbryeans 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
decelerate you've your complete existence to adventure all this, you're basically 12, I comprehend this sounds solid now and he has saved his provides you yet ask your self what if someone locate out, then how would you experience? sure 12 year olds do love yet as you improve you'll see it receives more desirable. you're mature at 12 to ask, yet make an effort.
2016-10-17 01:11:23 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probally does don`t get a reputation for being an easy s*** tell him, he can wait till you feel comfortable enough to trust him if he`s real he will wait.
2007-01-13 04:55:32 · answer #9 · answered by edison 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes all they are both interested in is sex so i think at the moment concentrate on you and forget these guys
2007-01-13 02:25:41 · answer #10 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all want to get into your pants
2007-01-13 02:45:28 · answer #11 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋