Should i pursue her or lay dead?

Question

I asked this girl out yesterday for coffee and she said she'd love to. But today said she had a problem and that there was actually someone else.

Her best friend said she's been waiting over 2 months for me to ask her out, (only reason i didnt cos i never saw her - second i did i asked)

She just started dating someone like 3 days ago. And she even said if i had asked a week ago she would have said yes.

What should i do?

Im really interested in her, and know that she does have feelings for me.

Do i tell her im still interested and ask if she would feel awkward if i still pursued her? I got the impression she was considering me yesterday, seeing she said yes to meeting up.

I dont want to wait for possible breakup, but i dont want to make her awkward. Would showing her that i do really care about her, by still flirting be good or bad.

I know she has made a decision, but i know it will hurt if i dont do something. Should i invite her out again, but as friends?

Answer 1

i think the thing with asking her out as friends is the best choice... i think she doesn't' want to go out with you now because she doesn't want to seem desperate, and she wants to build a friendship first and then a relationship :D... so... good luck %%-

Answer 2

Well you can be straight up with her and tell her how you feel about her. However if she says no then you have to let her go. Flirting with her or asking her to go out will just be too confusing at this point.

Answer 3

Yes, because it appears that is what you really want to do.

ONce you get your "no", you can close the chapter and move on.

OR

You can get a "yes", open a new chapter and move on.

But moving on is staying alive. Only mold is meant to stagnate.

Answer 4

Forget about her . She sounds like a pricktease and you deserve better !!!