Last week i told a guy friend of mine at work that it would be better that we didn't talk so i can get over my crush on him since he's in a long distance relationship with another girl, as a matter of fact, she's in the Phillipines and he's here in the US. Before this happened, we joked around about hooking up, but then i felt bad and hurt about us joking about it. I told him that i really wanted to do it since i like him, but he has a gf and that it wouldn't be wise if we did it. Anyway, i got angry with him since he didn't respond back to me after I texted him Happy New Year's and I ended up sending him another text calling him a "dog" and that i didn't want to have anything to do with him, then later i apologized via text. Then the next day , I wrote him a letter telling him how i felt hurt about us joking around, and the fact we just treat each other as professionals. He's ignoring me, no hello, excuse me, thank you, nada. The thing is I feel really hurt.
2007-01-13 02:28:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is what it is. You played hard to get, and he took you at your word and moved on. All he was going to do was have sex with you and forget about you anyway. So be glad the sex didn't happen. Because then you'd have much more to be embarrassed about. please, chock it up as a lesson. He let you know he had a gf. That was an escape from you before he ever got free sex from you. Most guys have to pay one way or another. most guy are out for sex and that it. I can tell that's all this guy was up to. Ignore him forever.
2007-01-13 02:34:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You feel hurt? You've probably confused the h*ll out of the guy with your on again, off again interest. Stop texting him if you're not interested. If he's ignoring you, you're already half way to getting over it. Next time you see him, just casually say hi. If you must speak to him, keep it about work or just casual stuff like weather or whatever. Otherwise, leave it alone.
2007-01-13 02:35:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See it this was babes... the truth of the matter... your big bosses will not be impressed and would consider you not management materials. Someone who is management materials doesn't get involved at work, even if the guy looks like Taye Diggs or Vin Diesel! That my dear is the cracks of the matter. So ignore him. Remember, in a few months you'd see why. Time will tell.
2007-01-13 02:40:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah that was not your best decision. Be careful about those txt messages they can land you in hot waters quickly with no exit. So he could be taking the time to figure out how to respond to you or he may be ignoring in which case- just let it go, chuck it up to a bad decision and learn from your experience.
Go out with friends and have a great time. Do things that make you laugh and that you enjoy. Sometimes we need to make fun of our life-otherwise what's the point in living.
2007-01-13 02:35:44 · answer #4 · answered by singsong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow! I really feel your pain. There really isn't no better way than just giving it time and stop contacting him. If he doesn't want to talk to you then don't talk to him. Ignore him, that way he'll see what he's missing and maybe by then you'll get over him. Another way is to start dating other guys or pick up a hobby. Best of luck.
2007-01-13 02:35:49 · answer #5 · answered by Krishy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel hurt, he's so not worth it, the jerk. First of all, he tried to cheat on his gf and now hes not even talking to you when youve been nothing but nice to him!! If he's ignoring you, all the better you shouldn't have anything to do with this horrible guy. Move on and find someone better. Good luck.
2007-01-13 02:37:19 · answer #6 · answered by gingi_01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, hon You'll find plenty of guys doing this. I know it's hard to find another guy but u HAVE to let go of this one. I bet ur a beautiful woman and u deserve better than him. Don't feel hurt-it means ur weak, but u are not weak-no one is unless their smart. U will find somebody, trust me. U just gotta wait. I hope this helped . Good luck sweetie.
2007-01-13 02:36:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, not incorrect ^_^ i'm engaged to my weigh down lol. wide-spread he'd come to artwork it would basically make it nicely worth being there, even longer, or coming in on an offday to eat lunch(it became somewhat pizza position). I even took my father and mom there to eat dinner one time to work out him, they love him. He ended up falling for me too so we take to at least one yet another and right here we are 3 years later ^_^ Our first date, we took a cruise to an airport the position we watched the planes take off and land interior the sundown, he knew I loved planes and needed to be a stewardess, so he took me there.
2016-10-17 01:11:28 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have left well enough alone by not telling him you had a crush on him. If he never indicated any type of interest in wanting a relationship, you had no right to assume that he did. Damn, grow up... you're not in high school anymore.
2007-01-13 02:38:59 · answer #9 · answered by CY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did well...continue on same course send him more text messages..
2007-01-13 02:33:54 · answer #10 · answered by Iranian Amigo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋