relationships and love and finding the right person
2007-01-13 02:26:46 · 12 answers · asked by meme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i love my boyfriend alot, but he doesn't give me any reason to trust him... And there is another guy who has been hitting on me and flirting me with since the first day we met.
today he actually told me that he loves me.. i am so confused.. i love my man and he says that he loves me but is that enough to maintain a relationship.
and now this new guy who happens to be one of my boyfriend's buddies has told me that he ever since he saw me he couldn't stop thinking about me and he wrote me a song in italian too.
i wish my BF pays me attention like his friend and stop flirting with other girls even though i have already confronted him.
so should i end it with my BF?
if so, how long should i wait to move on... especailly if it was with one of his buddies
PLEASE ANSWER ME........
2007-01-13 03:16:37 · update #1
As soon as you are ready.Don't take the baggage from your last relationship to the next one
2007-01-13 02:33:16 · answer #1 · answered by sparky75us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well really there isn't a time limit it's when your heart tells u that it's ok, it also depends on circumstances as far as how deep the previous relationship was and deep feelings attached. I've waited years before to try to clear my head and get things straight with me because baggage will ruin the new relationship so when u feel like u can fully be with someone else and your heart is telling u that it's cool then go for it but dont rush....nothing good ever comes out of that.
2007-01-13 02:33:49 · answer #2 · answered by SingleMommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After ending a relationship, I'd say to give it 1 year.
Finding the right person............... that can take a lifetime, for there is no time element on this!
meet different people and be choosy, and when you do meet someone, be friends first. In that order!
Good luck!
2007-01-13 02:32:46 · answer #3 · answered by julesrules 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How fast can you dial a phone or get dressed and hit the streets. As soon as you can will help you get over the previous pain.
2007-01-13 02:31:43 · answer #4 · answered by Chuck C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until you have healed or are complete. If it is a case of death of a spouse, then one year.
2007-01-13 02:31:15 · answer #5 · answered by Shayna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give youreslf enough time to grieve,and heal,whatever time you feel is necessary,but don't just rush back in( like rebounding) Bad thing to do.
2007-01-13 02:32:17 · answer #6 · answered by rodfcutler 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever you feel like you're ready
2007-01-13 02:30:23 · answer #7 · answered by George C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When your ready and sure your over it and not taking it to your new relationship......
2007-01-13 02:30:58 · answer #8 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think a month almost
after all we also need a break
2007-01-13 02:30:29 · answer #9 · answered by First L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no set time...whenever you are no longer hung up on the break up
2007-01-13 02:30:53 · answer #10 · answered by aprilfools1979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋