I just got all dressed up for my fiance...stockings, suspenders, push up bra.....the works and told him i had a present for him. He came half way up the stairs, smiled at me, said "very nice" (in a good way) and then went back downstairs to half play on the computer and half watch top gear!!
Why is this and should I kick him in the balls for hurting my feelings??
2007-01-13 02:23:47 · 27 answers · asked by dnbgrrly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The man is a fool
2007-01-13 02:44:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you did nothing wrong, but let's try to prevent this from happening again. Many relationships suffer and fail from a lack of honest communication. Often, we want our partner to read our mind. But, let's face it, we men are simple creatures, incapable of dealing with subtlety. Get your emotions under control, let a day pass if need be, then sit down and look him in the eye, and.....like talking to a child. ask him why he thinks you dressed up like that? Explain that you did it for him and that it was an open invitation to get frisky. However, his response seemed to indicate that he was a lot more interested in other things. Explain that if he'd like you to be encouraged to do this, he should respond appropriately or he had better get used to flannel and cow slippers. Good Luck.
2007-01-13 10:46:19 · answer #2 · answered by Jim N 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well...if you kick him in the balls you won't be getting any sex for a while. No need to damage what you need. What he did was wrong...but that's what men do. They don't have a clue. You could walk past him naked and he still wouldn't get the hint. You have tell them directly what you want. I'm sure you can find a different way to punish him.
2007-01-13 10:30:01 · answer #3 · answered by littleredd1003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, just go upstairs, put on a short skirt and low top on top of your other gear and head out to the pub (you might want to wait a few hours) with your mates, or the local club. He'll come a runnin...
2007-01-13 11:23:24 · answer #4 · answered by T M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well top gear is only on for a specific time and he can see you almost anytime!
Only kidding!
If you done that for me......... you would have to fight me off with a sharp stick! Soooooo it seems that he wasn't interested. He might have been tired or something. Better have a chat and find out the score!
2007-01-13 10:47:39 · answer #5 · answered by Chew 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id get rid of him if hed rather go on the computer than spend time with u u made an effort y cant he? tell him how he made u feel if nothing changes then wots the point a realationship has got 2be worked on with both people making the effort
2007-01-13 12:09:52 · answer #6 · answered by jedka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you kick him in the balls..he will be useless to you. You know men...brain and penis can't be attentive at the same time. Give him the benefit of the doubt..and here's hoping your next present from him will be diamonds ;-)
2007-01-14 15:16:50 · answer #7 · answered by Shelley B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He definately deserves a slap maybe not a kick. I'd just go for a night out and tell him not to wait and maybe stay the night at a mate's to make him wonder...
2007-01-13 10:33:05 · answer #8 · answered by Cold Bird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually , I think every time you go out without him you should make sure he seed you dressing up in your stockings and suspenders, and when he asks you where you are going say "none of your business" If he asks why the stockings and suspenders, say you like them and like to wear them where they will be appreciated. that will be much more painful than one kick.
2007-01-15 15:51:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i would i would make him sleep on the sofa and not speak to him till he made it up 2 me and ban sex 4 a week , turn him on then say sorry darlin not in the mood see how he likes it
2007-01-15 07:52:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like my dad lol
he needs more than a kick in the balls! try conviscating the remote and tell him top gear is banned from the house until he takes notice of you!!!!
keep in control girl, men have done it to us for years now its our turn ^_^
2007-01-13 12:43:07 · answer #11 · answered by lozzylorlor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋