She broke up with him. But now I think she likes him again. She knows I like him but I don't know if its wrong or not. My other best friend also likes him. He's very sweet and flirts with all of the girls, so you can never really tell who he likes.
2007-01-13 02:17:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course the crush in and of itself is not wrong. I'll bet you will get answers like "All is fair in love and war," but really, you should know how all the parties involved would feel about the relationship, then you should respect those feelings, if in fact the feelings you have are only at "crush" level. Good luck.
2007-01-13 02:21:51 · answer #1 · answered by Philip Kiriakis 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be very careful. He sounds smooth. Make sure he doesn't put you guys against each other for this guy's attention. At the end of the day, you gotta think about what's more important. You're friendship or a guy that you haven't started a relationship with yet. He's probably a sweetheart, but it's the sweethearts that always break the most hearts!
2007-01-13 02:23:49 · answer #2 · answered by luvmuzik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should ask him what is going on. But I would think about it. You can always get another boyfriend. Guys come and go. But Best friends are here to stay. It's hard to find another friend that you can trust and have a really good relationship with. Well good Luck on whatever you decided to do.
2007-01-13 02:24:57 · answer #3 · answered by Hugs and Kisses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never "wrong" to have a crush. Acting on it may be an issue, depending on the situation. I would ask my friend if she had a problem with me pursuing it. If it is a problem for her then, leave it alone or risk losing your friendship. Remember that she may be around a whole lot longer than he will, so make your choice wisely.
2007-01-13 02:27:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't help who you crush on but you should not act on it and you should avoid being around him until you get over it. I've been the friend with the boyfriend in this scenario and it's bad when the friend starts noticing you're looking at him longer than you should. It nearly cost us our friendship and only flirting happened.
2007-01-13 02:25:46 · answer #5 · answered by Pinkerton 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would make her feel really bad and betrayed and you don't want to be the cause of that.The ties in a relationship are not completely severef at the end of a relationship.Furthermore it is an unspoken rule never to go out with your best friends BF no matter how tempting it is.
2007-01-13 02:23:06 · answer #6 · answered by cynnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes no matter what live by this "never date a friends ex or an ex's friend" Keeps good between all partys involved
2007-01-13 02:20:12 · answer #7 · answered by chrystalbryeans 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
if you value your friendship and think she would be hurt then yeah its a bit wrong. you cant help who you fall for but there is a line that shouldnt be crossed between friends.
2007-01-13 02:20:53 · answer #8 · answered by katyllou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing wrong with it. i broke up with a guy, and my bestest friend is dating him now, and they're the cutest couple in the world, and im fine with it. a true friend would respect ur wishes (and his), so there's nothing wrong with love;]
2007-01-13 02:21:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not wrong, but if he flirts with everyone, just forget about him, there are better guys out there
2007-01-13 02:21:04 · answer #10 · answered by Kathy23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋