Ok well me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years on and off. we got back together recently because he moved back to ny. it hasnt been going that well. i think hes cheating one me lol but idk hes weird. he start going to church like da hypocrite he is and made a friend there. a girl. so he has a phone thats under my name so ive been trackin his calls and everythin even checked his voicemail. well she apparently calls him a lot he be on da phone wit her a lot for like 30 or more mins and idk if all about god that they are talkin about. ima quote her last voicemail from yesterday, "hey babe its _____ just calling to c how u doing i get out of school at 5 so yea call me i miss you." now does dat sound like a friendship idk. honestly he doesnt even spend 2 mins on da phone with me n hardly sees me so i wonder. ive said enough before new years but im not really stressin it now i just want to kno if i should leave him or not. i love him but im startin to doubt his love.
2007-01-13 02:29:54 · 26 answers · asked by liz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you are calling him a bastard, i think you have your answer
2007-01-13 02:32:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have the answer in your question. If he's a bastard then ofcourse you should leave him. It wouldn't make any sense for you to stay. Take this relationship as a learning experience and never again date a bastard or put a boyfriend on your phone plan. Make him pay your phone bill, not the other way around. Good luck. Next time make better and healthier choices when it comes to men.
2007-01-13 10:38:48 · answer #2 · answered by pattiecake1114 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much more proof do you need? "Hey babe...I miss you"? Now you know!? O.K. love is one thing but being foolish is something else (and I'm not calling you foolish). Call the girl...respectfully (woman to woman). Introduce yourself as his gf (because she probably doesn't even know you exist) and ask her what the deal is. Let her know that you heard her message on the phone you got for him. Then just sit back and wait on him to react. Don't even mention to him that you spoke to her until he comes to you. Then you will be able to decide what to do (from the conversation that the two of you will have). You should be able to get her # from the prompts in the voice messaging system.
2007-01-13 10:39:39 · answer #3 · answered by shellese2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you have to call him a bastard then maybe you should think about moving on. Sometimes when people have been together for one year two years....they feel like they should stay together no matter what. I'm guessing your young so you have plenty of time to meet new guys. Maybe you guys should try being friends. If your not hurt about him talkin to other girls then it's time for you guys to break up, good luck.
2007-01-13 10:34:19 · answer #4 · answered by xxdelicious_l1psxx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
usually if someone is referring to someone as "Hey Babe" then there is more than just friendship going on. If some woman were calling my mans voice mail and leaving messages starting with "hey Babe"..then I would definitely believe that he is no longer
my babe. Toss him out the door.
2007-01-13 10:36:46 · answer #5 · answered by kim 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should! The fact that you referred to him as a bastard, says it all but, I was in a relationship a little over 5 years ago, and I was too naive at the time to see it.. but he was a cheater, liar, and a psycho! I am glad I got out of that and in a perfectly happy relationship, married to and truly with the man of my dreams. That is what you need to find. Get out of that crazy relationship, for your own sake, please!
2007-01-13 10:39:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would question him before I retrieved my phone. Trust him or leave him. Simply problem, simple solution. With out trust and the gnawing doubt you are having does not make for a lasting and healthy relationship.
2007-01-13 10:35:28 · answer #7 · answered by Chuck C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. He is a hyprocrite, using a phone under your name to flirt and talk to his other girl for a long time. That should already be a big hint for you. Spare no more time with this cheating man.
2007-01-13 10:34:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you already know the answer to you question. There really isn't any other way to take it. Find someone who likes spending time with you babe. I miss you and can't wait to see you! Bye sweety.
2007-01-13 10:35:46 · answer #9 · answered by meansawbean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not even going to read the follow up posted after your initial question. You referred to him as a ' bastard ' . You don't value him so yes leave him.
2007-01-13 10:33:29 · answer #10 · answered by onelight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well guys only spend more time on new girl whom they want to flirt with and not with the girl whom they know has fallen in love with them so you dont need to think twice before leaving him , you are just wasting your time for someone who does not cares for you. you deserve better then this .
2007-01-13 10:36:42 · answer #11 · answered by nitin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋