See i have a stripper pole in my room. n one day my parent werent home so i called my bf so i can do some stripper stuff for him. Well he came over n told me if i can put a blind fold on n strip for him. So i di. So i was on my pole with the blind fold. He was yelling o yeah baby! Since i couldnt see he brought his bro with him in put him on my bed. THen he like come give me a kiss im on ur bed. So i did. I strated to put my legs around him n all that. i still had clothes. while i was doing that my boyfriend was laughing. Then hes like yo baby take the blind fold of. So i did n i found the the nerd was on top of me n that he had also tied me to my bed. Then they grabed my lipstick n drew all over me. But the thing is i made out with a nerd n every nows it. What should i do.
2007-01-13 02:39:47 · 15 answers · asked by LIza L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Break up with your so called boyfriend.
What ultimate disrespect.
2007-01-13 02:44:12 · answer #1 · answered by Y.a.S.L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think that "I made out with a nerd" is the worst part of that story??? ok, you have a very big problem here. First... why would you be making out with your boyfriend with his brother even in the room? Second, you had to know you were being tied up, you didn't just suddenly realize it had happened! Third, you were abused, and don't even seem to realize it! Believe it or not, that was technically attempted rape... do you realize that? All considered, reporting it would be foolish.
Your behaviour was reckless and stupid, even dangerous. Most importantly, your boyfriend HAS to go. What an a** to do something like that to you. He obviously has no respect for you and you should have enough respect for yourself to throw him immediately, without further consideration, to the curb. Then go talk to someone about your self-esteem.
2007-01-13 10:51:18 · answer #2 · answered by Debbie B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is all true, the only thing to be upset about is the lipstick thing... a bf who LIKES you would nto do that. but as for the nerd, well if you're doing stripper stuff why do you care who watches? The more the better isn't it?! To perform for, see if you can get them all hot and bothered and stuff! Hey, nerds are people too
2007-01-13 10:55:38 · answer #3 · answered by barefoot_always 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I call shenanigans. This never happened. How in the hell do you strip on a poll, blindfolded, then become unable to recognize that you aren't making out with your boyfriend? This whole scenario makes no sense. If by some off chance this did happen, it's technically assault.
2007-01-13 10:50:23 · answer #4 · answered by Belzner 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should call the police on your parents if you have a stripper pole in your room! You should dump your b/f, cause what he did shows he doesnt respect you. and if that easy you probley should sleep with his brother to teach him a lesson.
2007-01-13 10:48:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** happens i guess and it did happen to you! Well you cant really do anything about what already have been done. So live with it. I know it is ****** up and it looks like to me that you was straight up humiliated by your boyfriend and whoever witnessed this mess. I would of killed a dude right on a spot ....tied him up to the bed and let the fag rape him or something......what kind of bullshit it is? I think i am getting more mad of this situation then you are so let me just stop typing....lol You going to be alright. Thats part of our life....experiences....good ones or bad ones...everyone have them!
2007-01-13 10:47:05 · answer #6 · answered by BK thang 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Never mind what people think and say. So you got pranked? Big deal. Focus more on that bf of yours. That was SO NOT cool. Seems to me that he doesn't really have much respect for you. I think it's time for you to move on from all aspects of this situation.
2007-01-13 10:50:11 · answer #7 · answered by UVRay 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey dont you know that nerds are good??? --- they will be the future leaders and all they think about is sex
seriously your boyfriend is a jerk --- that is sooo wrong for so many reasons --- tell him to hit the road --- i believe in working things out but this is beyond the pale ---- best wishes
2007-01-13 10:46:10 · answer #8 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's not the worst of your problems. Your biggest problem is that your own boyfriend is a jerk, and you desrve someone better than him.
2007-01-13 10:44:43 · answer #9 · answered by Cuppycake♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah that's tricky...but it was your boyfriends fault, and that's pretty effed up if he's going to do that to you. just be like "what about it?" if people make fun of you...people will forget about it faster if you act like you meant to do it, or it was no big deal...
2007-01-13 10:44:12 · answer #10 · answered by CaitlynBrett 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋