Boyfriend Help please!!?

Question

I love making out with my bf. He's such a good kisser but he likes to french kiss me and i don't enjoy it so much yet. i feel it's too fast. How do i tell him this without hurting his feelings. Someone help me cause this is my first boyfriend and I don't wanna loose him. :(

Answer 1

Never ever ever ever let someone push you into doing something you don't want too. EVER. Even if it's just kissing...tell him how you feel. If he breaks up with you over that, then you are way better off. There will be a lot of boys hon and there will be other one's out there that will respect your wishes. Good luck!!

Answer 2

This is an OK to just tell him. Being intimate is very much a give & take. A learnign growign experience where both people enjoy & please each other. He knows there will be things he will prefer as well. Guys can be very oral. Try to French kiss a little but give me something else to do with his mouth. Maybe he can suck a finger or an ear or lick your neck. It's just play and he has a lot of oral energy. try to find an outlet for him that's appropriate for your age & stage in your relationship. If he's not cool with your wishes - don't be sfraid if he loses interest. There are probably a few other guys you know who would like the privalege to kiss you the way you like.

Answer 3

Just be honest with him about how you are feeling re: French Kissing>

Let him know that you feel that it is way to fast too soon and that you would like to go at a slower pace. You are allowed to ask for what you want in a relationship. So ASK!

Answer 4

Next time you're making-out, gently lean back when he first sticks his tongue out. Tell him with a smile that you enjoy gentle kissing as much as he enjoys french kissing. Expressing how you're feeling will go a long way. He's most likely french-kissing not only because he likes it; but he may think all women find it exciting. Telling him your true emotions will strengthen your relationship.

Answer 5

Don't put too much emphasis on having a boyfriend. It's important to have a lot of friends. Get out and do things with people. Make many friends. Have fun. Set goals for yourself to travel, or whatever your interested in... If it doesn't feel good, then your not ready for it yet. There's nothing wrong with you. Don't let anyone coerce you into doing anything you are not comfortable with.

Answer 6

Never do anything that you don't like. Tell him that you don't like the french kissing. If he is nice and caring to you he will stop it. If he wont stop and is mean to you, you don't need him for a boyfriend. You are very considerate to care about hurting his feelings, so you deserve that your boyfriend cares about your feelings too. Best wishes.

Answer 7

You obviously don't enjoy making out with your boyfriend if you don't want him to French kiss you. Unless your REALLY young, relax and let go a little. And also let him know what he's doing wrong.

Answer 8

How can he be such a good kisser if you don't enjoy it? everyone kisses different.

Answer 9

He is a guy, say this is ok, this is not, and if he respect you he stay around the limits you put on (he will push as far as you let him) if he doesnt respect you, then move on. young boys feeling don't get hurt that easy, and they don't do much thinking in this area, they take what you give them and if that not enough then you don't need him.

Answer 10

the next time he goes in for the kiss put your hand up. Do it lightly, just slide it up between your faces and say "let's save that" no explanation. Then go about doing what you feel comfortable doing. Good luck to you.