I have a problem with my bf. I am not working at the moment so he is the provider. When I was working I was helping him out with what he needed until he got back on his feet. Now he got a good job so he helps me out wiht money. but the other day he gave me some money then asked me to buy him something. I feel that is stupid. How are you going to ask someone that is not working to buy you something or to put something on there credit card for you.
To me he should have just kept his money and told me he cant give me this wek but he will give me next week. Thats to me is an indian giver. It make no sense you giving me money for myself then ask me to buy you something with the little money I have. In actuality I will be giving his money plus extra leaving me with -0. Tell me what you think. Thank you
2007-01-13 03:06:12 · 3 answers · asked by Ally R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get a F U C K I N G J O B and you won't have to worry about it anymore
2007-01-13 03:11:06 · answer #1 · answered by hthr_1974 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your having money problems early in a relationship it will not stop, just get worse. I was out of work for awhile and in college while engaged to be married and my fiance was racking up my credit cards with a full time job and no bills. When it came time for the payment on the banquet hall he didn't have the money. He spent all of it over a weekend, on what I don't want to know. That was that. That was 10 years ago and my wonderful (different) husband and I have paid off all the credit card debt from him and are still working on improving my horrible credit. Get out now.
2007-01-13 11:20:38 · answer #2 · answered by adriannamarie19 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't be serious!
Don't be too surprised when he dumps you.
2007-01-13 11:16:53 · answer #3 · answered by Snicklefritz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋