My girl thinks im cheating on her with her friend. But i am not. I just hang out with her friend alot. Then her friend told he ri hugged her. Which i definetly didnt do. Now all my girlds friends are pissed off with me. Cuz like yesterday she wanted to talk to me but i was like ignoring her cuz i didnt now what to do. i apologized today, but my friend said she was really angry. SO is there anythin else i shold do?
2007-01-13 02:52:51 · 14 answers · asked by D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stay away from her friend...duh............
2007-01-13 02:57:32 · answer #1 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do what you do! If your girl can't deal with a little mutual friendship then she's got a jealousy issue. Don't get caught up in the merry go round of female head games because if you do, more than likely they will end up staying friends and you will end up on the outside looking in. Just hang out with who you enjoy being with and take it from there.
Be cool and don't be any girl's fool! I don't mean that you need to be insensitive to her feelings or be rude, but if she is trying to paint you in a bad light, don't fall for it. You didn't do anything so you shouldn't pay the price.
2007-01-13 03:01:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wrote:
>>My girl thinks im cheating on her with her friend. But i am not. I just hang out with her friend alot. Then her friend told he ri hugged her<<
This sounds like the classic drama king behaviour, a man surrounding himself with women under the pretense that he's just friends. This will be a major problem with you as you get older. People will assume that you're gay or cheating on your girlfriend if you're admitting to hanging out with her female friends as "just friends." It sounds like you like the attention and drama surrounding this report back to your girlfriend that you hugged and or kissed her friend. If this is an attempt to make your girlfriend jealous, lose this tactic--fast!! To sum things up, your behavior is mentally cruel. Do not hang out with other girls, especially your girlfriend's friends, especially if she's not present. Lastly, do not embroil yourself in he said-she said issues involving women.
2007-01-13 03:08:05 · answer #3 · answered by RubenaR3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem I have with this is WHY ARE YOU HANGING OUT WITH HER FRIENDS? It seems like she is not around so who knows what you are doing with her friend. Another thing is have you ever thought that maybe your girl friend wants you so she will tell your girl whatever to try to break you guys up. How will you feel if your girl hung around your friends everyday and one of your boys come back with some RAH, RAH talk
2007-01-13 02:59:52 · answer #4 · answered by IT'S NOT THAT SERIOUS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to focus on her and not her friends. Show her you love her and are just friends with her other friends. Those other girls are just trying to break you to up so they can get you on the rebound. If she really likes you and you really like her she will know your not cheating on her.If your friend is a boy,he is trying to break you up to get your girlfriend and if it's a girl she will do the same thing expect she wants you.
2007-01-13 03:03:39 · answer #5 · answered by Girlk03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her friend that you've been hanging out with, and find out why she lied, she probably likes you and is trying to break you two up. Then confirm to your girlfriend that you're not cheating on her with her friend. Maybe to make them both happy, you could set her friend up with one of her friends so that she doesn't need you anymore.
2007-01-13 02:58:55 · answer #6 · answered by Mimi149 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, learn to spell. It's hard enough to understand your question, but we cant do it if you're illiterate...
Dump both of them, find you a new woman. BUT, stop giving them a reason to doubt you, dummy!
2007-01-13 02:57:49 · answer #7 · answered by CY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really love your g/f u will not let yourself get between their frienship. i would be pissed to if my b/f was hangin out with my friends more than me
2007-01-13 03:01:10 · answer #8 · answered by aspen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, u should tell her u r telling the truth, no matter what. tell her she i the only one for u,and that ure friend is just a friend
2007-01-13 02:57:48 · answer #9 · answered by youran_lee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her in front of her friend... tell her the truth... you cant just let it broke you relationship... she will believed you if she definitley trust you...
2007-01-13 02:58:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her out to the ball room and dont do any tangos
2007-01-13 02:59:10 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋