I have been single for two years now and am now wanting to not be alone anymore and to share my life with someone other than me. I am a very sincere kind of person and had recently met a man on a dating site who seemed to be pretty certain of himself and was looking for a relationship with a woman after recently being seperated.
His profile interested me more than anyone else's and because he appeared honest and up-front about himself. We have only met twice since boxing day and so I am hardly getting to know him the way I ought to be and because we both live some distance away from each other. He has been divorced twice and has two teenage sons he continually has problems with and an ex wife he still seems to be angry with for one thing or another.
I am not sure if I have gotten myself into something I am happy with and mainly because he only seems to want to jump straight into bed with me when he does see me and does not want to talk about things or get to know me.
2007-01-13 03:23:55 · 2 answers · asked by Shikira-trudi 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He also never calls to see how I am and seems to not bother about me other than what he wants from me when we are together and that seems to be all about sex even though we have only seen each other twice.
I want to let him know how I feel but really don't want to be horrid about it either. I am sure that I am being used and he still with his ex wife and just wanting some fun when he can, though cannot prove this.
2007-01-13 03:27:21 · update #1
Trust your instinct. You ARE being used. You do not deserve to settle for companionship only in the bedroom. A real relationship is one that will utilize your intellect and your body (when you decide its time).
You seem to know what you want.. don't settle for taking on someone else's problems (which he doesn't even seem to want to share). You deserve to have a soul mate.. not to be a mother to or FOR them.
Keep looking! You will find your companion!
Best of Luck!
2007-01-13 03:36:15 · answer #1 · answered by thebe_gl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all honesty, I think you have answered your own question. I think you can find someone who is way more genuine than this man who appears to be using you. He also has an awful lot of baggage. Do you REALLY need the hassle of two difficult teenagers?
Ditch him, square your shoulders, and get out there and find someone who will appreciate you, and care about you.
2007-01-13 11:30:22 · answer #2 · answered by catfish 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋