People have sex all the time right? So why do i feel so wierd about it?

Question

I have lots of friends that have sex with different guys every weekend... I have had sex twice and it makes me feel like a whore because they tell all thier friends... It makes me feel like my stomach is going to come up. Why do girls like to have sex with guys that do that? And no offense but that is what most of them do. Even the one guy that I thought would never do this to me did... Why? Its so fustrating to me that my girlfriends go out and have sex all the time and never think twice, but it gets to me...

Answer 1

It's simple. You have morals. Don't change. You are a better person than they are.

Answer 2

Yes there is people who have sex all the time. But the way I have alway seen it, sex isn't everything. And you are not a whore for having sex two time. You have morals that you live by and not many people do anymore. Don't feel weird cause you don't have sex all the time. You should be happy. You seem like you have your head on your shoulders and that is a very good thing. Sex was suppose to be a special moment that you share with your partner. Now people use sex to get what they want or cause everyone else does it.

Answer 3

Maybe it's because you have a conscious!!! Can I have sex with a hooker off the street without wondering about her lot in life, her family, her addictions and how did she end up on the streets? When you set yourself up as a trophy, another notch on their gun, what can you expect. Casual sex to a man can be a real quest, scoring before the end of the night and if you score early enough, maybe scoring again in the same night. What a bragging point that would be or maybe with you and one of your girlfriends together!

Get the picture? Your body and your life are precious and should not be available to some man-whore who doesn't care deeply about both. I can tell by your response to your situation that you are not a whore. My advise is to separate yourself from situations where men-whores are prowling for another trophy. Make your dating and sexual life a priority by studying books on dating, sexual love and marriage. Get a vision for the kind of guy you would like to spend the rest of your life with and then believe for him to come across your path.

In the mean time, work on developing a healthy self-esteem because you are not a piece of meat or a trophy. If your girlfriends want to give their value to men-whores find some new girlfriends to hang with. You were created with a purpose to fulfill, seek your purpose! Peace

Answer 4

The girls that are doing that basically have the same mind set as a guy. Their just looking to get laid. Its not an intimate act of love, no connection, just an opportunity to feel good. You have a different feeling about sex. Its more meaningful to you. Thats why its so dissappointing when they just go out and blab it to everyone. Just stay the way you are. But be more selective about who you give yourself to. These guys can get it anywhere. You have a better chance of meeting someone special, if you don't give it up so easily.

Answer 5

Well first it's the nature of teenage boys to brag to friends, because sex is such a big deal to the to "score" on so they talk. Lots of us find feeling like a whore kind of a turn on actually, but if you don't like them talking then I'd say you need to get with older more mature guys. I'm 17 now and my main bf is 21, also older guys are better in bed I think.

Answer 6

Many girls are like you. They want to at least have love between partners before sex. Having sex when you are too young becomes too much of an emotional responsibility for many kiddoes. Grow up a little bit more and learn how to be friends with a guy before becoming intimate. It's the best way to really see how you feel about him and also the best way to learn how to be a healthy woman.

Answer 7

That's something that your friends have to deal with themselves. If they don't mind, then let them handle that. Just focus on you. If you don't like to have sex then you are doing the right thing by not doing so. Do what works for you. Sex tends to make me feel like a whore too, which is why I only do it with someone I love.

Answer 8

Congratulations: You have good moral character, even though you've made a few mistakes. I would suggest talking to your parents (or a trusted older adult), and maybe getting psychiatric help. It would do wonders for you to get some better friends. Finally, stop have sex until you are married. You'll be much happier in the long run.

Answer 9

just like the other person said, you have morals. You are trying to do the right thing. I think you are doing the right thing by not wanting to go out and have sex all the time. I would say let them do whatever they want and dont worry about them. If you fell wierd about having sex then you should not do it if you dont want to.

Answer 10

Sounds like you have a strong moral character to me. You feel weird about it because you know there's something wrong with doing it. To you, sex isn't a casual activity, but an intimate one that should be shared in the context of a committed relationship. There's no reason you should feel pressured to have sex with casual dates just because your friends do. You can say no! I guarantee you'll feel better about yourself if you do. And if they make fun of you or make remarks? Just tell them you feel better about yourself if you don't do it, and just personally don't care for casual sex, and let it go.

Answer 11

Sounds to me that you have your head on straight! Girls love attention and most girls need it for various reasons. But as females we long for that feeling of being desired and thats how alot of girls get it . Its not health but its the way it works. You are one of the smart ones and you will end up with someone who respects you. Who cares what everyone else does... In the end you will be the one with a lasting relationship!