Singles & Dating - 7 January 2007

ok....we've been dating for over 5 months now and ever since we started dating sh'e's always done this one thing that always got me to think a little. I'd say something funny to tease her n she'll sometimes literally get up n say in a sarcastic voice "fine, if u dont like me ill leave"..n sometimes she really attempts too lol...but i think shes just playing cuz SHE KNOWS ill always be there to pull her back and not let her leave....is this just a lil game of hers? should i really let her get up n not pull her back n see how she reacts?...even on the pohne sometimes shed be like "u know what, i dont wanna talk to u" and hang up...but she always calls bak in like 5 min cuz i wouldnt lol.....its funny cause i know if i did something like that to her even as a joke, id prolly never hear the end of it....but i wouldnt even try, i love her too much..i dont wanna get up and walk away from her, I wanna BE WITH HER......is it just the way she is and means nothing?

2007-01-07 18:42:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

For example if Daniel and Danielle where a couple, or John and Johanna... I think its wrong. I would feel like I was sleeping with my twin brother or something equally disgusting. What do you think?

2007-01-07 18:42:01 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

i think that would be weird if they did not know each other.

2007-01-07 18:40:35 · 6 answers · asked by josh_long 1

drama with every girl i know

2007-01-07 18:40:19 · 10 answers · asked by So*CaL BAbE 1

She loved me unconditonally , bt i had my own reasons to reject her proposal .firstly i thuoght that ihav to build my carrier bt i realised the love when i was to leave the city. the only thing flashed i my mind was her concern for me. then to get her back i did not get myself admitted in the college .and went back to get her back . i dont know how to confess the love for her

2007-01-07 18:39:42 · 6 answers · asked by amar 1

2007-01-07 18:37:29 · 8 answers · asked by CuteOne 1

She loved me unconditonally , bt i had my own reasons to reject her proposal .firstly i thuoght that ihav to build my carrier bt i realised the love when i was to leave the city. the only thing flashed i my mind was her concern for me. then to get her back i did not get myself admitted in the college .and went back to get her back . i dont know how to confess the love for her

2007-01-07 18:36:52 · 8 answers · asked by amar 1

i meet a person and i do like him a lot. he told me that he likes me as well but he always ask for a kiss ?
i do not know what to do! he stopped talking with me and he said i am avoiding him. well, i am not - i do like him but i feel it still early for kissing. i need time to trust him and to know if he is serious.
now i am left behind that makes me feel down- what i should do?

2007-01-07 18:35:45 · 17 answers · asked by Rachel 3

I already can accept that a guy who does not call is NOT that into me. But, there is this one guy who keeps initiating contact and suggesting we do stuff. I say sure. Then, he never calls.

He sent me an email last week full of excuses why he didn't and he would call if I was still interested. I was non-chalant about and just said "call whenever...I am pretty busy." I never would let a guy know I would wait for him if he isn't into me.

What I really wanted to say is "dude...look I know you're not that into me so you're off the hook. don't worry about ever calling me again." But I guess there is no point in that hostile behavior.

By the way, this dude is 37 almost 38. So, I would think someone is done with dumb games by now.

2007-01-07 18:34:30 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend and I just broke up after 10 months of dating. Everything was terrific between us. I loved her more than anyone I've ever been with. She was perfect to me in everyway.

The problem was that she would not deal with my 5 and 6 year olds. They are both sweet little girls and adored my GF. This summer my GF spent a few days here and there with me and the kids. Everything seemed ok. She pressured me to meet them at the beginning of the relationship, but I made her wait 4 months to make sure it was something serious before I involved my daughters.

Now she tells me that she would marry me, except for the fact that I have the girls. She is afraid they would hold her back and not let her travel when she wanted to. I have them 50% of the time (every other week) and she's afraid of the intrusion on her life-style.

What do I do? Why was it ok for 8 months and now it's not. I love her so much and I hurt so bad right now, I just don't understand.

2007-01-07 18:34:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have never been on a date, had a kiss, or even had a boyfriend...im a junior in high school and prom is coming up soon...guys flirt with me and when i flirt back they flirt more, but when i do something stupid like go and fall for them, they run. Why am i always just a friend and never anything more...i just want somebody to love me and want to be more than friends with me..... every guy i have asked out has rejected me...only one has ever thought about my feelings...why am i left out? i dont understand.....

2007-01-07 18:33:39 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

And it just won't quit. Has been forever. I am so not gay. I love women. But the odds of finding someone who is down with this seems poor. No am not gay. Women are way too exciting hot.

2007-01-07 18:33:07 · 6 answers · asked by jacksonbailey 2

I met a guy on holiday in Hong Kong a while ago, He had to go back to Adelaide for work but promised to come back to me for good as soon as he could.

We have kept in touch almost every day since. He says he still loves me etc but lately he's never home if I call him unexpectedly, he's doing stuff that is just really out of character for him. I have spoken to him about it but he just makes excuses for not being home (late at night, early mornings etc) and says Im being silly.

He texted me from a mobile a while ago. He told me he doesn't have one and said it belonged to his mate.

I think it's his phone though, he just doesn't want me to know he has one.

Can someone call the number for me to see who answers it? I live in Hong Kong so he would know it was me if someone called it from here. If I can find out he's lying about the phone, I will know he's up to something.

I really love him very much and won't be able to move on while I have any doubts. Please help me.

2007-01-07 18:32:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am dreading because I am 27 but has not found the right match for me. I self evaluate myself and I feel that I have all the qualities that any man will want in a woman, yet I cannot find the right one.

Is 27 too old? Should I settle for less?

Pls Advise.

2007-01-07 18:29:49 · 26 answers · asked by Miss Yahoo 1

I'm dating a guy and sometimes he talks about a girl he used to date. They dated like 8 years ago and were Friends with Benefits for about 6 months but that's it. He asked if I saw a picture of her, talked about her job, said we are the same star signs, stuff like that. Could he still be hooked on her after 8 years? Is he maybe just trying to make me jealous or impress me? Thanks!!!

2007-01-07 18:29:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend and I jsut got together and were both doing this for the first time?

Were both sophomores and this is the first time either one of us has been with anyone. I was talking to her on the phone and then our relationship came up. She said that she didn't really now what she was doing and was kinda getting pressure from her parents that she shouldn't be in a relationship. Then she said that she dind't think we should be in a relationship yet. I'm really confused about what is going on and I told her that I would be here when she was ready. I can't figure out what she is feeling right now. Is she getting cold feet or is she jsut trying to figure things out? I really like her and I don't know waht to do. She said that it made her really happy when I called her but I don't know if she was jsut being nice or not. This whole thing is really confusing for me.

2007-01-07 18:27:48 · 7 answers · asked by blackbelt20 1

Do you believe that your ex-partner could undergo a personality transformation after you break up with them? In other words, are they going to be the same (bore, jerk, ignoramus, bad in bed), pretty much, with the next person they meet? Or will they be a different, more enlightened partner the next time? There is a man in my life who I just discovered has met someone else, and I can't shake the feeling he'll be different with her than he was with me. With me, he barely talked at all in person but talked incessantly on the phone, was a chronic pot smoker, didn't have a job, and considered himself modest, even though he bragged a lot. Jesus, what was I thinking?!? It didn't last long.

2007-01-07 18:27:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

but I am a "stay at home momma" for the meanwhile, whilst the father of my second child still lives at home with mom'n'dad, doesn't do much cept play with the foster kids that his momma pretty much takes care of while in her spare time she likes to gamble offf the gov'ts monies......and this dude is puttin me down for not havin a career (of course he's had better but still ain't workin), and every other night I'll have a few drinks and I do smoke but so does he......so I get my life paid for by the provincial gov't and federal, cuz child tax is my right no matter if I work or not, yet he's makin me feel like a fukkin loser..............seriously, is he fukked up or not????? At least I got an apartment of my own and welfare is available for everyone who needs it, like single momma's whose partners turn out to be deadbeat losers.........am I justified or just makin excuses for myself in feeling that he has no rights to JUDGE ME???

2007-01-07 18:25:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Even if the guy is "ugly", chicks are a little fond of them.
What's so great about singing? Do you see it as a romantic thing or something?

2007-01-07 18:25:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want to experience that kind of trip for me to able to have fun.

2007-01-07 18:24:25 · 4 answers · asked by beige 1

2007-01-07 18:24:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met this guy 4 yrs ago,we live FAR away from one another.Im going to meet him in Feb.He seems VERY into it,we like one another alot,theres no doubt there.But he tends to avoid talking abotu it,like in general.I like to talk about what we can do when i get there,and he seems bored by teh convo.Or if i talk abotu us possibly staying togehter(i know he wants it,)but he doesn't want to talk talk abotu it.But its like,OKAY if im goin to move there,show some enthusiam to make me want to visit you first!..Is this a typical guy trait! I know hes just starting school and he works full time too. He always answers if i call him,msg him,text him.But why doesnt he want to just talk about me coming there, in detail ?

2007-01-07 18:22:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

so i dated this guy who i got really into he and i had so much in common and we were rather happy! but unfortunatley he stopped talking to me suddenly. 5 months later he emailed me out of the blue and told me that his ex-best friend told him that i never wanted to see him agian! of course he bielived him becuase well it was his bestfriend. we have started hanging out again but not actually dating he says it cant just magically go back to the way it was but does that mean it cant ever??? what should i do??

2007-01-07 18:22:09 · 9 answers · asked by nrcl1987 1

Tell me what is the perfect woman. How does she look, how is her personality,what are her interests?? I need specifics hair color, eye color, tall, short, weight and the list goes on. Be realistic though...

2007-01-07 18:20:13 · 10 answers · asked by Alessandra 1

2007-01-07 18:19:30 · 8 answers · asked by CuteOne 1

2007-01-07 18:14:56 · 17 answers · asked by yetove 2

example: sometimes we'd both get off work at the same time and sit together and eat (i work at a restaurant) but today he sat away from me and when i tried to talk to him he just gave me a one-word answer. now, this was the guy who i used to catch staring and who used to ask if certain guys were 'hitting on' me and if i get hit on often and whatnot. what the hell is going on.... would you guys out there say he's playing games or should i just assume he lost interest in me?

2007-01-07 18:14:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok me & my guy have been together almost 2yrs now but to be honest i think we spent most of that time fighting & arguing. i get so fed up with him & so irritated that sometimes i just want 2 drop everything. I do love him & when things r good i am happy but overall i havent been. I love to go out, have fun & enjoy life & i kinda feel like he is keeping me 4rm doing all that, & he doesnt like to do much of what i want to do he will do it in a bad mood.i dont know what 2 do its been way 2 long 4 me just 2 throw it all away...any advice???sorry its so long.thanks!

2007-01-07 18:13:59 · 4 answers · asked by morenita 2

okay, so i am talking to this guy online now, ive met him personaly so i didnt meet him online, but he is 18, 19 in 6 days, and im 15, 16 in july.
so i just want to kno from a parents point of view, pref. dads point of view, is this too old?

k thx

2007-01-07 18:13:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok. here's the deal. ive never had a bf. ive been on ONE date and it didnt go out that well. i wouldnt even call it a date. and now im in college... sad i kno. and as im getting older. i get more upset since i keep thinking im never going to experience anything. i dont kno whats the problem!! im shy, but not THAT shy besides. im not awkward around guys or whatever. im fine with talkign to them. maybe i dont talk abou the right things? how do i get one to be interested in me? ive always been a girl's girl and never had a lot of guy friends. you think i need to join a club on campus? but then somethings i think maybe its just me. i act young for my age. and im still obsessed with kiddy movies and i guess you can call them weird obsessions. but there are weirder people out there in this world that have bfs! last year there was this one guy that i really liked. and i was thinking to myself. maybe its just me, i need to initiate things. so i told him i liked him but i was rejected.. so sad

2007-01-07 18:10:40 · 11 answers · asked by sweetpea2007 1