i meet a person and i do like him a lot. he told me that he likes me as well but he always ask for a kiss ?
i do not know what to do! he stopped talking with me and he said i am avoiding him. well, i am not - i do like him but i feel it still early for kissing. i need time to trust him and to know if he is serious.
now i am left behind that makes me feel down- what i should do?
2007-01-07 18:35:45 · 17 answers · asked by Rachel 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would say that you're doing the right thing. dont give way to his demands. he must be feeling that once he gets that first kiss then he'll make use of you for the day. i bet you this guy will not stay long with you. when he can avoid you for a kiss, then this relationship will not last long.
2007-01-07 18:40:16 · answer #1 · answered by Adam Love 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He likes you and you like him. He is being respectful to you by asking you for a kiss and not just trying to kiss you. You are sending him messages that you do not care for him by making him wait for a simple kiss. There is truth in the statement that "It's in his kiss" . You can tell a lot about someone by the way they kiss and you both will know if there is a connection when you kiss or if you feel nothing. I can see you saying that you want to wait for sex until you know a guy is more serious but to make him hold off indefinitely for a kiss will make him move on.
2007-01-08 02:42:51 · answer #2 · answered by Cleo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Serious about what. He's not asking to sleep with you, it's only a kiss. Trying to play hard to get only works when your not so obvious. What your doing comes of like head games and apparently this guy see's right thru that. Try being honest. If you feel like you want to kiss him then do it and if not, then don't! Just be decisive on your own terms without worrying what he has to offer you in the future because not a soul in the world can tell you what tommorow will bring.
2007-01-15 22:12:48 · answer #3 · answered by Irena G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie..if u ever have to do anything that you dont want to do..especially in the very beginning of a relationship...it means there's something wrong. Try n talking to this guy n tell him you think its too early for u to kiss him n that u need to get to trust him n understand him more before u get on with it.If he understands..well n good....if he doesnt,move on babe. If this guy is forcing u for something like this right now..u dont know what else he'll force u to do later on.. Good luck
2007-01-08 02:43:53 · answer #4 · answered by tina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with kissing a guy that you like but, it sounds like to me that you feel it would go further and that is not what you're really ready for. A kiss can lead to other things if you let it. If you feel like he would turn the tables on you just for kissing him and "claim" you as his girl then you should let him know where you and him stand and to respect your beliefs before he turns you off completely.
2007-01-08 02:43:04 · answer #5 · answered by saturn man 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i personally believe kissing is some thing that can be felt or thrown away for example if you kiss him and its just a simple peck it has no meaning no passion and it is just thrown away but a passionate soft yet still strong kiss generally taking a few seconds is a meaning full kiss and is felt by both so if you want to give him a peck then its nuthing but if you feel you dont wish to do the full passionate kiss then maybe you dont feel the same way for him?
2007-01-08 02:43:23 · answer #6 · answered by auzzie_bloke21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? what is the big deal over a kiss if you like him. I see nothing wrong with kissing if you like him you don't have to do anymore than just kissing
2007-01-08 05:14:55 · answer #7 · answered by metallicalady2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he needs a kiss everytime he says he likes you, then what would he ask for if says he loves you? you did the right thing by not giving in to him. there's a right time for that. if doesn't have the patience for it, then he's not worth your time
2007-01-08 02:43:13 · answer #8 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is pushing you for a kiss then don't trust him.
2007-01-08 02:38:01 · answer #9 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick to your guns girl. Wait until you are ready.
2007-01-08 02:38:45 · answer #10 · answered by Rick R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋