Singles & Dating - 7 January 2007

I have dated three guys in a row that didn't want to commit. They are of varying ages (23, 28 and 28) and personalities. They all came on very strong with me like they were crazy about me but then they didn't want relationships. I am one of those girls that people have said am "marriage material." So I am wondering if I am just scaring these guys off...

Do you think this could be a coincidence or that I am inadvertantly dating guys with commitment issues? The thing is, they always pursue me...And they always seem like they are really into me, even when they tell me they don't want commitment.

Also, what are the early signs of someone with a commitment problem? I never pick up on anything strange in the beginning of these relationships...It's always a couple months in.

2007-01-07 19:15:51 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2

I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and it has been a battle, but we have stuck together because we love each other. He is great at providing financially, but he works so much and has a very busy schedule. But now I am having seconds thoughts. I ran into an old love and he reminded me how love makes me feel and my current boyfriend does not make me feel that way anymore he's always too busy to have "quality time". My boyfriend and I broke up for a few days over new years and I explained to him what I was missing from the relationship. Now he wants to work on it and try, but I'm afraid it might be too late, cuz I think I have fallen out of love with him, but I he is a good man and I would hate to think if I walk away because of my selfishness that I lost out on a wonderful life. Am I being anal and selfish or is it okay to want to feel the passion.

2007-01-07 19:15:47 · 10 answers · asked by Hopless romantic 1

What kind of stuff do would u like to see on your girlfrien/wife?

2007-01-07 19:15:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Yeah, im usually not like this. There are about three million relationship questions asking "does he like me" and other crap like that. Anyway, there is this guy im kinda interested. What are some things I can do to get him interested? I'm really cute and have a quirky personality so what can I do to let him know that I'm interested?

2007-01-07 19:14:46 · 5 answers · asked by //// 3

2007-01-07 19:12:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

he was having a party at his house with all his homeboys and i called him 3 times and he said he was going to call me back all 3 times and never did, what does that mean and what should i do? your all opinions are welcome...please.

2007-01-07 19:11:59 · 8 answers · asked by Heidi 1

I know guys that think that women should just be glad they have some kind of attention, but I feel that's just wrong, I like to spend as much time as possible before I send my lover over the brink, so to speak, I dig that big time.

2007-01-07 19:08:23 · 12 answers · asked by Schpyke 1

2007-01-07 19:07:10 · 11 answers · asked by Taylor G 1

i know we cant be together anymore so what should i do?

2007-01-07 19:06:31 · 8 answers · asked by sad 1

I know that this guy was extremely interested in me and then I did something that made him mad at me and now he is not interested anymore. What can I do to make things good again?

2007-01-07 19:04:36 · 11 answers · asked by airtightreality 2

i like this girl, and she likes me too(we are teenagers by the way). we've gone out a couple times. i took her to the mall, saw movies, played games, sing k, and ate dinner. well, sometimes, i really cant think of other places to take her... she says she's not very active, but we cant go to each other's houses because of parents' restrictions. she also doesnt like eatting very much. i don think she likes places like park, and she doesnt like sports much. well, she seems to like exciting things and stuff that entertains her. sometimes, i feel that im running out of ideas of where to take her. can you guys give me more suggestions on where to take her after reading my post? thanks a lot!!

2007-01-07 19:03:40 · 4 answers · asked by tmackun135 1

...i need some ideas about the easiest way to say goodbye. (especially when it's the last thing you wnat to do in the world)

2007-01-07 19:02:57 · 3 answers · asked by califniadrmn 1

A hott lady who has an average personality, or an average looking women with a wonderful personality?

2007-01-07 19:02:02 · 11 answers · asked by james w 3

2007-01-07 19:01:34 · 3 answers · asked by Taylor G 1

2007-01-07 19:01:11 · 7 answers · asked by Taylor G 1

Being Muscular a Turn-off?

2007-01-07 19:01:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am the mother of a 3 and a half yr. old boy and a 5 month girl...my son is an excellent kid, he's never been jealous of the baby, he'll play with her and is always wanting to be a part of whatever her daily requirements are...ei..diaper changing, feeding, bathing, playtime, etc...

I am a stay at home SINGLE mother thanks to our gov'ts system, and I do not take this for granted....although I do have the right to be on one yr/s mat leave just like any other mom..

Why should I feel guilt if the father of my daughter still lives at home and has no job cept moochin off his parents??? Maybe I'm a bit insecure, but is it time I ditched the dodo and of course I will soon be back to work for my family, so should I dump his obviously lazy *** and wait for new prospects in the future??? And I'm not a dumbass ho, I have worked in a hospital setting and for a lawyer before I ever had kids....I just want to know if he is just the one being lazy but blaming it all on me???

2007-01-07 19:00:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

you see i was with a guy named john and he lied to me for a whole year and said he loved me and that i made him the happiest man in the world but you see he only said that to me and to my family to his family i was not waht he wanted and he didn't love me and i didn't make him happy ... you see one night when he was called in to work i got upset it was his day off . and then we argued for a few mins and then he went to work well that night he came home slept in my bed held me all night and told me he loved me then the next morning he left ( ******* coward anyway) but what i don't get is why can't they be the men they claim to be and be honest tell them the truth why they left and what it was that the woman did wrong ? and why do men always blame everything on the girl .they never take the blame for anyof it ??????? please let me know guys opions will be taken serious but so will womans point of veiw well thanks all for your hel ( ps he was always stuck up his brothers *** )

2007-01-07 19:00:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I said no and told her that i wud be sad and might drink a lot but i wud definitely not commit suicide( i Said tht becos i have to look after my parents who brought me up for 20 years. Its not tht i dont love her. I love her a lot but i cannot commit suicide becos tht sounds so stupid ) . Since then she is not talking to me naturally like before ?

Did i say Anything wrong ?

2007-01-07 18:58:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i found a surface that was large enough for me to express my love for you... but sadly, i couldn't find a pen that could write across the sky.

2007-01-07 18:58:10 · 2 answers · asked by wrldzgr8stdad 4

A guy I dated is confusing me all the time,we get along wonderfully.Same interests,we understand each others feelings when somethings wrong.But the one thing I cant understand and he's explained too is.(what he said) "I think it's because there is a lot of me that really wants a lot of the same things you do, but another part of me that doesn't think it would work long term, so I sort of question wants the point.I enjoy being with you and there is not much I wouldn't do for you."And he always! tells me how great I am,and how hes attracted to me.But he throws me in circles! I do like him,and always will as a friend(there is a possibility of being more I think.) but should i tell how i feel?or will I be let down. He has a nact for sayign alot but never acting upon it.He has his issues,I accept that,hes been hurt badly,and i can see the great guy under all the BS he pretends to be.How can I go about either keeping it a friendship or making it more ?(we dated 2.5 yrs ago)

2007-01-07 18:55:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

we were on IM and I was complaining about a friend not being truthful. He said he doesnt encounter such incidents probably he is being an indifferent person. I told him that he isnt such, otherwise he wont be chatting with me now.
He then told me that he is indifferent about unimportant things to him. Is he trying to tell me i am important.
Does he like me?

2007-01-07 18:54:21 · 4 answers · asked by isabella 2

-we've been hanging out non-stop for the past month
-sometimes we get drunk and other times we just drive around and talk
-once and a while he invites me out with his friends
-he calls me "his love" and always talks about how much he loves me, even if its only a friendly type of love
-we hang out daily
-we've had sex before
-i've told him my true feelings for him, but he doesn't want a relationship because he's leaving for the marines
-he plays with my hair and kisses me and rubs my back
-he always says he'll call but whenever he does its usually 3 hours after the time he said he would
-we never hang out during the day
-he tells me he loves spending time with me and wants to be with me all the time

aside from all that, he's leaving just TOMMOROW. what are some things i can say/do before he goes so that he leaves with good thoughts of me and knows that im truely going to miss him and i love him as a friend and maybe even more...please help! thank you its very imporant!!

2007-01-07 18:51:24 · 13 answers · asked by MarilynMonroe 1

I just got my heart broken. I've been through heartache before and I know it will all be fine, but right now it hurts. Do you know of anything I can do to help keep my mind off it or to accept the fact that it's over and not meant to be?

2007-01-07 18:50:14 · 16 answers · asked by ockissen 2

Have you ever heard of the rules of masculinity, and do you think all guys should follow them?

I looked it up on Wikipedia, and it lists 7 rules of being a man:
Physical--virile, athletic, strong, brave. Unconcerned about appearance and aging;

Functional--breadwinner, provider;

Sexual--sexually aggressive, experienced. Single status acceptable;

Emotional--unemotional, stoic;

Intellectual--logical, intellectual, rational, objective, practical,

Interpersonal--leader, dominating; disciplinarian; independent,
individualistic (applies to western societies);

Other Personal Characteristics--success-oriented, ambitious; proud, egotistical (applies to some societies); , moral, trustworthy; decisive, competitive, uninhibited, adventurous.

I'm only 16, and I don't think I'm all of that yet so I think I won't be a proper man when I'm older. I don't like sports, and I sometimes worry about how I look. Would you only date a guy who is exactly like that list?

2007-01-07 18:48:49 · 15 answers · asked by Mark 1

Also what are somethings i can do to make this guy Really want me sexually? I know he is attracted to me but i would like some tips, i dont want to make the first move.

2007-01-07 18:46:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'am in love with a girl who dosent even know it!!!! She lives in the city that I want to move to,,,,,She is a student living on campus... And I want move there(not because of her, but cause its close to work!) She has told me before that she loves me!!! I make a **** load of money, and how would I ask her to ditch the campus life and just live with me???? or, How do I just tell her how I feel????

2007-01-07 18:44:53 · 15 answers · asked by bucs b 1

If a woman loves a man but the response is not as is expected or vice versa, what is better to do? and when ending such a relationship becomes painful?

2007-01-07 18:44:17 · 9 answers · asked by Redjewel 1

My boyfriend and I are recently in college. We have been dating for almost three years. But being together so long, some relationships get so comfortable together that they start to lose the romance and fun. I try coming up with ideas to get us out and do something fun together. He does his sweet talk by saying OK i'll try harder next time. Also everyday he'll wake up and decide to chill with his friends by staying up until 6am with his buds drinkin, going out to bars and never going to class. (He's a smart kid with a 3.9 GPA at college). Never once in the past year has he decided to wake up and take me out. I keep trying talking to him about the situation, once again he'll say I will try harder but never does. Should I stay mad at him and keep giving him that talks. What should I do to make him just have a day (just me and him) and try to bring the romance back? Any suggestions?

2007-01-07 18:43:24 · 10 answers · asked by Nikki 2

what does she wear? her hair? the way she carry herself?

2007-01-07 18:43:10 · 11 answers · asked by Deesa 2