Singles & Dating - 7 January 2007

just wondering, some of my gay guy friends do this ....

2007-01-07 17:33:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Everytime I have fallen in love the man has told me he doesn't want a committed relationship. I just basically got dumped because I told the guy (who I have been dating for seven months long distance, who told me he loves me, needs me, wants to see me, flies me out to see him). I am a nice girl, I am not weird, I am pretty, I am all the things guys supposedly want from a girl...so I am confused.

Now my self-esteem is shot because all three "relationships" I have had, the guy ends up telling me he doesn't want a relationship. At first they act like they want me so much and then this. Has anyone else been through this? What can I do to feel better? I feel like a complete loser although I know that they are the ones really losing out on a great girl...but still...

2007-01-07 17:33:23 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2

i hate this im drunk as heII and i love this girl that i dated for 3 years. we broke up 3 months ago i messed up in the relationship but i still love her i been ignoring her to get over her but she has asked me to go to her JOB party that is at a fancy restraunt and that she needs a date and she wants me to go i want go "for sure" cause i wnat her back what would you do is this my chance to get her back

2007-01-07 17:32:54 · 7 answers · asked by Confused 1

What Skills should every man have?? What makes a "Good Man?"

Please don't tell me the bull about being nice and kind and fun and funny I'm talking about skills here (ie cooking, Home repair....)

2007-01-07 17:32:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was just wondering cause all the guys ive had sex with (except for only a few) prefer it rough. i mean i dont mind i like it too but i was wondering if most guys are like this or if it was just a weird coincidence?

2007-01-07 17:31:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

he is cute funny i hav a huge crush

2007-01-07 17:30:51 · 4 answers · asked by casstagia b 1

I'm a sophomore, and me and my boyfriend started dating three weeks ago. He works at steak-n-shake. So we get out of school at 3, and he usually goes into work at like 5:30 or 6:00. And he doesn't get off til 9:30 or 10:00. And that's everyday, except for the ONE day a week that he has off. Like I said, we've been dating for three weeks and we have yet to go on a date and we've only hung out once (with his youth group on new year's eve). He calls me usually every day, but that's really not enough. He appologizes for how much he works, and he realizes that he works too much, but he never does anything about it. I really like him, but I need a guy that's around more than that. What should I do?

2007-01-07 17:30:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been seperated from my ex for about 2 years now. I've had a few relationships with other guys. Yes Sexual relationships. But nothing seems to compare with the Sex that My ex and I had.

My ex and I still have sex...neither of us are dating other people...is it fare to compare others to him?

2007-01-07 17:28:15 · 6 answers · asked by harmycj 1

I am a HUGE fan of kissing, and feel that it can seriously make or break a situation. I value the unique and sensual qualities in a good kiss. I will loose interest quickly in a bad kisser. So out of curiousity, how would you handle a bad kisser?

2007-01-07 17:26:00 · 3 answers · asked by Lemme tell ya... 5

This guy was talking to me for 45 minutes at a party - his friends tried to get him to go away with them twice, he said no both times. He left once briefly and said "you're staying here right" - and i was like - sure...and then he insisted on getting my number. He gave me his cell & card w/o me asking. 2 weeks later, no call... after that whole presentation? what was that for? we had a teeny tiny kiss goodnight.

the only other thing is that after we said "good night" - i ended up seeing him at this other party... but i was with all of my friends so i dont think i looked stalker-ish... i just know the same ppl sorta. i left that place very quickly anyway. I know 1/2 the replies will just be "get over it" - and i am over it (he wasnt that special) - but it's the curiosity that plagues me. why act 150% into me and then vanish?

1. He was not drunk whatsoever. (would've been my first thought)
2. He wasn't trying to get laid - his friends were all in town & he had to be w/ them.

2007-01-07 17:24:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

This guy asked me out a like three months ago. or two months ago or something. I really liked him at the time. I said yes. We havnt gone on a date yet still. We are trying, but I never talk to him and he never talks to me. I almost feel like I don't like him, but I do. I really do. I don't know how this happened. I feel like if my relationship is ever going to happen with him....I need to get to know him. It's like I barely know him. I want to do things with him. Experience things with him. Have the time of my life with him and I want to be his one and only. Help please. Does anybody know what's goin on here. And he was worried I didnt like him at one point and I said I did. But his friend acame and told me tht. Not him...no....just his friends...any help is appreciated. and I KNOW HE IS NOT CHEATING. trust me...stuff goes around cuz i live on a small island.

2007-01-07 17:24:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I asked a girl out and she said yes now we havent actually gone out yet and i realized that i only asked her becouse i knew she would say yes how can i stop the relationship before it realy starts? (no jokes about how thats the shortest relationship in the world)

2007-01-07 17:24:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

and can we control them?

2007-01-07 17:22:54 · 11 answers · asked by Tahir Rameez 1

seriously. whatever happens, happens. Why is love such a big deal? There's no rush and every one needs to just relax. I'm not trying to sound mean or anything but it's the truth, everyone just needs to take a chill pill.

2007-01-07 17:22:48 · 15 answers · asked by Crystal R 3

My last question people referred to me as old, I don't think I am , christ I still get id'd at the bar.

2007-01-07 17:22:06 · 22 answers · asked by krissy 5

What Skills should every man have?? What makes a "Good Man?"

Please don't tell me the bull about being nice and kind and fun and funny I'm talking about skills here.

2007-01-07 17:20:31 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had a crush on this girl and after we got older at 18 i asked her out, so we were partners for about 2 years until she left the country for studying abroad. i waited another year then i went after her, i knew she was kind of cheating on me, after 1 month we broke up and i didn't hear from her until a few days ago that she called me and was nice too me, i was shocked so i couldn't control myself and she probably realized how excited i was on the phone, but after a couple of days and a few phone calls from her she stoped calling me and i think she still does'nt want me in her life and she maybe just called to see how i was doing.
but I am feeling like I don't want to live anymore.
it was so hard to get over her love and i was trying to get back to life for the past 3 years that we had broken up.
But now the only thing I think about is her and I want to get her back if there is a way...

2007-01-07 17:19:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

A good friend and I have been talking about whether we are friends or more. She knows I like her, but she never told me how she feels. I told her I had reservations about being with her at this point in my life. Tonight, she asked me if I wanted to start mutually sharing our deepest secrets. Why does she want to know my deepest secrets suddenly? She wants to tell me hers too. Then she said we can "be an encouragement to each other". Why does she want to do this?

2007-01-07 17:19:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

something tells me inside its high time i get 2 know d difference.....well tell me plz..

2007-01-07 17:19:32 · 19 answers · asked by choco_sporty 1

The only time i ever said no was last night when a guy tried to kiss me and i moved away, other than that I cant say no, even if i dont want to do something (sexually)..I just recently lost my virginity becuase i didnt want to stop the guy, because he was enjoying himself. Even though i didnt really want to do it. Is anyone else like this?

2007-01-07 17:19:29 · 8 answers · asked by Allie J 1

Clay Aikens jaw is shaped that way because of his lifestyle?

2007-01-07 17:19:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Below are two hypothetical situations however if you just wish to answer one of them then please answer Situation 2. If you need further information then please go to O.A.S.I.S at http://www.udel.edu/bkirby/asperger/ . Please answer truthfully and honestly. I thank you in advance.


Situation 1:
A male workmate, slightly closer than aquantence or other that you know DOES NOT have Asperger's Syndrome aproaches you to go out for 'Coffee' or some other form of drinks (a date). He use an uninterested, blank or inappropriate for the situation tone of voice and/or facial expresion.


Situation 2:
A male workmate, slightly closer than aquantence or other that you know DOES have Asperger's Syndrome aproaches you to go out for 'Coffee' or some other form of drinks (a date). He use an uninterested, blank or inappropriate for the situation tone of voice and/or facial expresion.


Question:
What would be your response, please include facial expresions and what you would say?

2007-01-07 17:18:42 · 4 answers · asked by Arthur N 4

2007-01-07 17:18:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

this girl was going out with someone....and well i had liked her since before she got with her boyfriend.....then it came to a point where i kissed her and she began to cheat on him...and i loved this girl and i still do and she loved me..then it got to the point where jealousy started to take over sometimes...and it came to a point where my friend called her a hoe and she later told me she had lost so much love for me because of that so then i ended it and i thought and felt like i was over her because before then i had no interest in any other girls......until i eneded it
then she had gotten in to trouble because she had gotten a hickey from him.....and at that point i felt so almost over her i began to be friends with her b/f and he told me that he gave her a hickey and i felt this tremendous amount of jealousy..and i didnt know why..
and i still dont...i love her.......i just dont know what to do i cant get over her...what should i do...and why did i feel so jealous

2007-01-07 17:18:13 · 8 answers · asked by pixie7 3

keep my mouth shut and deal with it. This weekend my bf and I went clubbing and once again he "accidently" rubbs up against other women. Ok, I know some of you are going to say "so what blah blah, its a club everyone does it", but really now, every time we go out he either "accidently" grabs the womans *** behind him or rubbs up against some woman. This time the bouncer was right there and got really angry and grabbed him away from her. So I know its not my imagination or just being jealous, because the woman was really mad!!! I know saying something to him will only cause a fight because he will just deny it and say I'm jealous. Really, at this point I almost laughed because I thought he was going to get thrown out of the club. I'm just so frustrated because we cant have any fun because he does this crap all the time. would you ladies confront him or just keep your mouth shut?

2007-01-07 17:17:08 · 7 answers · asked by meeahcat 1

i was talking to eveyone at chruch and shake hands. then 2 girls came out of the blues the girl behind wisper something to the girl and the girl look at me and then look at the ground for 4 secs look at me and then look at the ground for 4 secs. then after her and her firend sntad up and looking at me but i did not look at the girl why did she did this for?

2007-01-07 17:13:14 · 8 answers · asked by zaheer a 2

i'm about too meet a girl through a friend and from what i'm told about her she really cool has a young child which i'm cool with. is it ok to have sex on a first date?

2007-01-07 17:12:24 · 15 answers · asked by delopoppa_2000 1

well 10 years ago today my dad died and its always a really hard day for me and i told my boyfriend this over and over again i even told him 3 days ago and he forgot! he didnt even call! i had to call him and he was going to come see me but then had a hockey game but that doesnt mean he could see me earlier in the day im just a bit irritated is this ok?

2007-01-07 17:12:15 · 9 answers · asked by browneyedchick679 3

how many sugar daddy want companionship and how many want sex? how many sugar babys gave companionship and got their money?

2007-01-07 17:11:55 · 2 answers · asked by soccerjock 2

I was working a graveyard shift the other night and my girlfriend brought her ex to pass-out in our spare bedroom so he didn't drive home drunk. This is the second time it's happened. The first time she phoned to get my permission, I obliged the 1st time. But I told her that I didn't want it to happen again and that her ex-bf should make arrangements that don't include drunk driving or crashing at our place when he comes into the city to party.

My girlfriend claims that the most recent incident was necessary as he would have had to sleep on the floor of someone elses place (aq stranger to him), so our spare bedroom made the most sense, and she assures me she has no desire for him in anyway (which I actually believe) but it still pisses me off.

Do I have a right to be angry?
Am I just being jealous?
How should I express my anger?
Am I being naive for not worrying about a sexual context?

2007-01-07 17:11:32 · 20 answers · asked by RB 2