can someone from adelaide or australia PLEASE help me?

Question

I met a guy on holiday in Hong Kong a while ago, He had to go back to Adelaide for work but promised to come back to me for good as soon as he could.

We have kept in touch almost every day since. He says he still loves me etc but lately he's never home if I call him unexpectedly, he's doing stuff that is just really out of character for him. I have spoken to him about it but he just makes excuses for not being home (late at night, early mornings etc) and says Im being silly.

He texted me from a mobile a while ago. He told me he doesn't have one and said it belonged to his mate.

I think it's his phone though, he just doesn't want me to know he has one.

Can someone call the number for me to see who answers it? I live in Hong Kong so he would know it was me if someone called it from here. If I can find out he's lying about the phone, I will know he's up to something.

I really love him very much and won't be able to move on while I have any doubts. Please help me.

I can't try the number because it would show on the phone as an international number no matter where I called it from in Hong Kong.

While there is a chance I could be wrong and I have to be real careful that I am not making a mistake here. I have tried talking to him openly about things, he just denies everything though.

It's wasn't a holiday fling, we have been involved before and he came to Hong Kong to ask me if I would take him back. My life has been on hold ever since, I can't get on with it until I know for sure what's happening his end. I guess I'm scared he thinks he's going to look like a fool after chasing after me for so long if he ends it now.

I have enabled my email address to accept messages, if anyone needs to contact me for the number it is [e-mail]

Thanks again.
Elaine.

Answer 1

I live in Melbourne and it shouldn't cost me much to ring or text him. But I'll need you to give me (e-mail) the name and number of the fella.

Answer 2

Why should you do this to yourself? You can even use a public phone and call him! But whats the point if you are the one who chase after him while he is as cool as cucumber?
Go down and get clean with him. Just ask him in the phone whether he still want this relationship or not. From what you said, sounds like he has somehow 'get over you' and doesn't really 'love you' as much as you love him.

Long distance relationship is tough, let alone you just met him during holiday..it sounds like holiday fling to me.
Respect his decision if he wants to move on..there are so many fish in the sea, why should bother so much...?

Answer 3

some times life can really get up on you and you get really caught up in what your doing you should if you are really worried and love him call the number if its some one else just tell them who your dating and just ask them what hes up to