so i dated this guy who i got really into he and i had so much in common and we were rather happy! but unfortunatley he stopped talking to me suddenly. 5 months later he emailed me out of the blue and told me that his ex-best friend told him that i never wanted to see him agian! of course he bielived him becuase well it was his bestfriend. we have started hanging out again but not actually dating he says it cant just magically go back to the way it was but does that mean it cant ever??? what should i do??
2007-01-07 18:22:09 · 9 answers · asked by nrcl1987 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would be cautious if I were you. Even if it is true that his ex friend said that he never bothered even talking to you about it. A normal person would have asked you about it. So something isn't right with this guy.
2007-01-07 18:26:53 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should move on. It sounds more like he had a girlfriend for 5 months and they ended it so, now he wants to start talking to you again but, he's not over his ex yet. Of course that's just me reading between the lines. If his friend really said that to him about you, don't you think he would have come to you and asked you why before actually listening to his friend.
2007-01-07 18:30:51 · answer #2 · answered by airtightreality 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should move on and continue 2 be friends thats what he wants if u get bac 2gether sum 1 else may *** along n tell him sumthin again u neva kno n he may fall 4 it or do u think it wuz a lie jus 2 get out of the relationship!!!!God bless u
2007-01-07 18:31:03 · answer #3 · answered by Fe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to restore you guys relationship but tell this dude from now on if he hear anything about you from a best friend or anyone to bring it to you first he just cost you 5 months of happiness and now you have to get the chemistry back. Tell him to forget this hanging out crap either we will be together or screw it he already wasted enough time!
2007-01-07 18:30:55 · answer #4 · answered by askmeguru21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This doesn't look good to me. To believe his friend without so much as a word to you - well that troubles me. And his lukewarm response to you now spells trouble. You can do better. This guy has problems. Tell him you want to be friends but not as close as before. Then get real busy. Phase him out.
2007-01-07 18:27:09 · answer #5 · answered by crazywoman88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow and be sure to communicate. It would have been nice had he asked you if the rumor was true. Sounds like an excuse to me. If he had a change of mind......communicate.
2007-01-07 18:25:09 · answer #6 · answered by imgma2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should confront this "best frined"
better yet, he should
do it together
play it by ear from that point
his credibility could be at stake
2007-01-07 18:26:19 · answer #7 · answered by mintman16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, if he left once he'll do it again right?
2007-01-07 18:25:40 · answer #8 · answered by joseph s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
become his bestfriend
2007-01-07 18:26:12 · answer #9 · answered by Ed Clark 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋