how old is too old?

Question

okay, so i am talking to this guy online now, ive met him personaly so i didnt meet him online, but he is 18, 19 in 6 days, and im 15, 16 in july.
so i just want to kno from a parents point of view, pref. dads point of view, is this too old?

k thx

Answer 1

too old.
he is too old for you now.
in ten years 3-4 year difference makes no difference. But you being 15 and him 19. He will take you where you dont need to go yet. You dont need to be pregnant yet and trust me that is exactly what is going to happen. Sex will be new for both of you and you will want to do it a lot but... getting pregnant at your age is wrong for you in every way. Enojy being 15 and do not complicate your life now.

Hope this helps

Answer 2

Right now he is too old for you. In a few years when you are 18 and he is 21 it will be okay, but not right now. My husband is 8 years older than me ( we didn't meet until I was 26) but when I was 10 and he was 18 that would have been a big no no but now that I'm 31 and he's 39 it's not a big deal.

Answer 3

it may seem not good for your parent's point of view because you are still considered underage and still not considered as an adult. if this guy is considered adult what is he doing with an underage girl. i know in your age it doesn't seem like that but at a parent's point of view it might look bad. but i will say when you turn 18, 19 and if this boy you are talking to is 23. it's not so bad. especially if your in college. high school and college are a big difference even though it might be right next to each other.

Answer 4

My child, he is not too old. Be careful though as guys this age are usually into girls for that one thing they have between you know what. He is not too old to be a friend, my girlfriend was 15 when I was 18 and we had a great relationship. I was afraid to tell anyone of this because of the age difference though. We were happy with each other and we had good times together. She broke up with me for another guy in 2006 and now I am married to a woman my age. See, age is just a number, it's the personality that matters my child. Be wise about the relationship and do your homework on him by talking to his friends or just keep the relationship strictly online or be just friends with him. Do not trust him more than you should. Things should be fine, don't worry too much.

Answer 5

I realize that this must be flattering to you and I can understand why. I think this is too old. Boys that age are into different activities that fifteen year old girls should not be involved in. Having said that a lot of boys that age are really middle aged men trying to hook up with a young girl. I urge you to stay safe and only go out with boys that you have met at school or through friends.

Answer 6

to define it you should relax your "quest for valueless gain"
the eye that serve emotion is never healthy
why lose time searching for useless "choice of solution, answer for an problem", just have time refining other answer
I will buy the new nav because I think the website and the people is worth more than other "similar but no thing is without difference so why have distinction between 2 different thing and not have such distinction for 2 other different thing like I and my body

I think that life just start at 50, so the 55 just live 5 year, life start at any age so no one should consider living 100 year as living longer than living 1 year, we are never same when we wake up, we are dead and reborn everyday
the death is not something that happen once, it's thing that is always, we are always dead so we do not care about ourself and safety for our body, we are like dead from heaven ,look at the earth (virtual world), role playing a person like in mmorp. what happen to that person is unimportanty because we change person if that person fall underthe hand of other, in fact we control all person,
the feeling that o e is controlling only specifically a person is overcome by ruleless state of mind

Answer 7

Well, I am a mom but I also use to be a teenage girl and I would recommend dating someone closer to your own age. Have fun being the age that you are... my parents would have never gone for that and if my son ever wanted to dat a girl that much younger I would try my best to change his mind. It is best to just not even start a relationship like that, for many, many reasons.

Answer 8

It's ok to talk. You two may be on the same maturity level but you definitely shouldn't be hanging out alone. Make sure there is always people around. Sex is out of the question and if he really cares about you, he'll wait for you to grow up.

Answer 9

Yes - he's too old for you. An 18 year old has much more experience then a 15 year old. He would also have more sex on his mind then a 15 year old usually would.

Answer 10

Yes, he is too old for you. At that age 3 years is a huge difference. He knows things you dont know and can easily manipulate your feelings. You need to be talking to kids in your own grade or the one above or below it.