but I am a "stay at home momma" for the meanwhile, whilst the father of my second child still lives at home with mom'n'dad, doesn't do much cept play with the foster kids that his momma pretty much takes care of while in her spare time she likes to gamble offf the gov'ts monies......and this dude is puttin me down for not havin a career (of course he's had better but still ain't workin), and every other night I'll have a few drinks and I do smoke but so does he......so I get my life paid for by the provincial gov't and federal, cuz child tax is my right no matter if I work or not, yet he's makin me feel like a fukkin loser..............seriously, is he fukked up or not????? At least I got an apartment of my own and welfare is available for everyone who needs it, like single momma's whose partners turn out to be deadbeat losers.........am I justified or just makin excuses for myself in feeling that he has no rights to JUDGE ME???
2007-01-07 18:25:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I do have a 5 month old, and to the ppl who are putting me down, of course I can get a job, but obviously you don't have kids or you're just cold-hearted selfish bitches, cuz even if mine weren't planned I love em too death and I want to be the one who raises them, not our pisspoor daycare system...good 4 u if you have a fabulous husband, I'm sure he doesn't know bout how many guys ya fukked before him then...this one goes out to "deesa" who probly wouldn't recognize proper grammar if it was slappin her in her ugly face eh!!!!....LOL
2007-01-07 18:42:05 · update #1
Well, I don't think he really has room to talk about you if he's not working either. But I am wondering, why are you not working? I am sure if you are on public assistance you could get help with daycare for your kids while you work. I think that when it comes down to you not working that you are making excuses for yourself. You would probably feel a lot better about yourself if you got a job and earned your own money? Not judging you because I don't know your whole situation, just a thought. Good Luck!
2007-01-07 18:33:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has no right to judge you. It would be hard to work at a low paying job and pay someone to babysit your kids while you are at work. You could go to work if the kids dads would watch them. A good idea would be to work towards your education and then get a good paying job. You have access to a computer. When the kids get a little older you would have time to study. It's hard growing up on welfare..........excuse me, are they calling it social assistance now? The point is, your kids will find it tough being in the system.
2007-01-07 18:34:07 · answer #2 · answered by kitty-mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well here goes some old school first off no one has the right to judge another person and people who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones is the old saying we each have a right to live our on lives that's what the Constitution was built on second off I would not be involved with someone who wants to argue and judge me I would not give them the satisfaction of being their punching bag physically or verbally I think I would suggest you both move on with your life before it became any worst
2007-01-07 18:37:56 · answer #3 · answered by lone wolf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a job and you will feel better about yourself and for the father of your child he doesn't deserve to be called daddy just because he contributed in bringing the child into this world.
2007-01-07 18:55:55 · answer #4 · answered by auntsid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The govt. offers assistance to single moms to get education and good jobs. Don't worry about him. You worry about yourself and baby and he should be paying child support. Go to college and use these funds offered by govt. It will be worth it in long run. He will still be with momma.
2007-01-07 18:35:39 · answer #5 · answered by holliemay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one has the right to judge you hun, i think hes taking away your self respect tho. maybe u need a different man who can help support u and ur kids and maybe have a meaningful relationship. u can even get a part time job so u can still be home with ur kids. It will help boost ur ego. this loser still livin with his mamma aint gonna take thing to a new level with u. his mamma is still raisin him & hes a grown man ( and i use the term man loosely)
2007-01-07 18:33:07 · answer #6 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are making excuses for yourself, and he is trying to justify his own laziness by putting you down. You should lose him ASAP and start working on building a life and a future for yourself and your kids.
2007-01-07 18:28:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not justified in living off the government when you are able to get a job and support yourself. Get a job!!! Maybe you should quit worrying and get a job!!!
2007-01-07 18:30:18 · answer #8 · answered by dumpllin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are making excuses. and before you get a job, get your GED first. the writing section of the GED can really help you to improve your grammar, so people would finally be able to understand you. i can't believe all the taxpayers' dollors are going to people like you and your "deadbeat partners."
2007-01-07 18:31:14 · answer #9 · answered by Deesa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your a loser....Next time use birth control, since you can't support your kids and all your guys are dead beat losers also.
Get a job, stop living off tax-payers!!
2007-01-07 18:33:56 · answer #10 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋